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HenryDion:
You have nothing to fear cause am guilty of that.. That usually happens if am with someone i love real deep. i mean, am dying being with this person. She's now your ex? Am sure she's deeply hurt

i dont know if shez hurt but most time i catch her staring at me while i was asleep it freaks me out. maybe coz am not used to it.....am like why would this chik be staring at me like that. sometimes i get scared

[quote author=jayied post=50318915]my girl told me dat she once did dis to me all the tym and i ask her why? she said is because i look cute when i sleep. maybe is becaus u are cute.. nohomo[/quot
am not cute....am just an average looking dude

tho shez now my ex but i am just wondering why she stares at me in the middle of the night. this happens times i try to change sleep position but notice she gallantly starring at me. ive asked her why so but she says shez just admiring the love of her life. dont believe her. nairalanders pls any clue just incase
p.s padon my yeye english.

firstking01:
A brokem relationship is better than a broken marriage....if you eventually marry her it will be worst for you...let her remain your once we dated girlfriend....look for someone who will help patch your loopholes and not to be pointing out your faults...i hope on your own side you were not faulty cos sometimes it's good we hear both sides of the story.

my only error is i riase my voice against her and this is as a result of her actions. ive never riased a finger on her neither have i ever cheated on her....she simply disrespects me. i truely regret having sex with her coz i know its a spiritual bond and no wonder i find it hard to let that feeling go even tho i vehemently do not need her in my life. am not getting younger anymore and need to be in another relationship as quick as possible.

few friends and family members advised that there are no perfect partners. its the only reason why i kept going. truth is i know shez no good for me. but attimes i just feel i gave her too much of me. even tho we are no more,i mis her but i honestly want to do without her. i hope u understand. its not easy

we dated for about 5years and after pressurising me to propose which i eventually did...that was exactly where the whole problem began...she started misbehaving . i dont know if she got so comfortable with the whole stufff. this lady has never washed my cloths or cleaned my house but i never bothered coz just like my dad i thot i could do all that by myself....she argues and nags alot. makes everybody believ i am at fault whenever we had misunderstanding... she complained about virtually everything including the engagement ring down to her everyday needs despite all i have don for her....most times she begs for forgiveness when i try to end the relationship long b4 we got to the stage of marriage preparation. she complained i do not have a car.next is she isnt sure if i could take care of her needs despite the fact that i earn average of 120 monthly and she does nothing to support me.after the breakup my family said its my gain while others said i should try and fix the relationship. pls nairalanders whats your take on this problem of mine. do i move on with my life or try and fix things? there are many things left unsaid but i dont want to bore u guys. permit my english, i hate touchscreens....