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Spain should be careful about what it has wished for. Allowing large numbers of Africans to enter the country illegally, including by dangerous sea crossings, is a risky game. Very soon, Spain could begin to face increased crime, social tensions and, potentially, religious extremists carrying out attacks in the name of Allah. We have seen similar situations play out in other parts of Europe.

There is also the possibility that continued uncontrolled migration could significantly alter Spain’s demographic and cultural landscape over generations, including increasing the influence of Islam in Spanish society. If these issues are not properly managed, Spain may eventually regret failing to take them seriously.

I’m a Christian, but I want to look at this honestly and without emotion. Having lived in Kaduna, Jos, Enugu, Abuja and Lafia, and visited places like Ogun, Delta and Lagos, I’ve seen how significant the Muslim population is, particularly across much of Northern Nigeria.

When you factor in population growth, birth rates, mortality and marriage patterns, it’s clear that Nigeria’s religious demographics will continue to evolve over generations.

But beyond the numbers, Nigeria belongs to all of us. Christians and Muslims are not enemies competing for space; we are Nigerians sharing the same country and hoping for a better future.

We can acknowledge demographic realities without turning them into fear or division. Numbers may change, but our shared humanity and responsibility to build a peaceful Nigeria should remain.

Dtruthspeaker:
See why Ai is wrong? This is an emotional, sentimental and religious issue, so human responses are most appropriate and of course if any one goes out of line, he is open to correction. But no issue anyway

😆 This is hilarious as fkk

Dtruthspeaker:
Can you not think again that you had to ask a thing to think and answer for you?

I just quoted AI because it does not attach emotional,religious or other sentiments/bias in its response. Something men have and most times clouds their judgement.

It’s largely a matter of the mind and what we have been taught to believe. Do men with two or three wives necessarily love them any less? Not always.

If you strongly believe that you can only love one woman, loving another may naturally feel wrong or absurd. But if you grow up in an environment where having multiple wives is accepted, you may see it differently.

One thing I believe is worth clarifying: having more than one wife is not, in itself, a sin, just as drinking alcohol is not automatically a sin. However, Christians are encouraged to avoid such choices because of the challenges and consequences they can bring.

Sometimes, wisdom is not just about what is permitted, but about what brings peace and a healthy home.

This a response from Chat GPT- The central Christian question is usually whether repentance before God requires disclosure to the innocent spouse, and how confession, forgiveness, honesty, and the potential harm caused by disclosure should be weighed. If you like, go and confess to your partner and cause more harm than good

This is not just an orphanage issue. More than 70% of Nigerian children have little to no knowledge of AI. If that is the reality for children generally, then the situation is even less concerning for children in orphanages and other vulnerable communities.

tiswell:
Yea,you have an (f) affix to your moniker.

😂

saasala:
He might have written without wanting to inform you.

You will know after his passing.

I have worked as a Child Protection Officer in various capacities within my CBO, where we guide caregivers and household heads on wills, inheritance, and succession planning.

While a person may not be legally required to disclose the contents of their will, I believe it is important for family members to at least know that a will or succession plan exists.

My grandfather died without a clear succession plan, and his children (my father, his brother and his sisters) had serious disagreements over his inheritance. Looking back, a properly documented plan could have prevented much of that conflict. The funny part is he told me he doesn't believe in will writing 😂

Personally, I have chosen to plan differently. I am married with a two-year-old child, and I currently have three plots of land in Lafia. I have designated each property for a member of my family, including my wife and daughter. If we are blessed with another child, I intend to provide for that child as well. Even my business will be succeeded by them with a proper plan.

They may not know exactly which property is designated to whom, but they will know that a plan exists and that everyone will be provided for.

For me, succession planning is not about expecting death. It is about responsibility, clarity, and protecting family relationships.

A good succession plan doesn't just distribute assets; it can preserve the peace and unity of the family left behind.

tiswell:
Concentrate more on the concerns in your husband's house and let him write his will for his children while he's still alive.
Let your Dad worry about his.
A truly happily married woman won't really have time for such thoughts.

Does my profile says I'm female? I think I gotta check this. I'm his third son. Your response seems to show you didn't really understand the story

Succession Planning and Will Writing

My dad doesn’t believe in writing a will or clearly stating how he wants his assets and responsibilities to be handled after his death. He is still alive, and I have advised him a few times to consider writing a will, but he simply won’t listen.

My concern is that all his children are now married, and I already know that if he dies without a clear plan, my eldest brother’s wife could cause serious confusion that may eventually affect the relationship among all of us.

At the moment, she practically controls their home, and my brother is answerable to her on almost everything. She also has a competitive nature, even when there is no competition, especially with her co-wives and in-laws.

Now imagine my dad passes away without a will, and we all have to sit down as a family to decide what happens to his assets and responsibilities. The eldest son will naturally be expected to anchor the meetings and become a key decision-maker in the family.

With the kind of dynamics we already have, I can only imagine the level of disagreement and division that could follow.

Sometimes, writing a will isn’t about expecting death. It is about preventing confusion, protecting relationships, and making your wishes clear while you are still alive.

Diamond098454:
Why are they pregnanting all these ladies without getting married to them?

Getting pregnant for a man that's not ready to marry you

It's very common now. Na Nigeria mentality de make you think say woman suppose marry before getting pregnant

When people can’t read, think for themselves, or ask questions, they become easy to control.
Add fanaticism , when someone believes their religion or tribe is the only right one , and you get a dangerous mix.

It doesn’t matter if you’re Christian, Muslim, Jewish, Hindu, or anything else. Once a religious leader programs your mind, it becomes easy to justify cruelty, violence, and hate.

In Nigeria you’ll hear some Muslims say, “Whatever my Mallam says cannot be questioned.” Haba.
That’s the problem.
Illiteracy and fanaticism are the two demonic ingredients behind terrorism and war.

And human beings in their right senses will vote Tinubu in 2027? Lai Lai kuwa

The Iran war is getting bigger, not closer to a solution.
According to ABC News, diplomacy has repeatedly failed, and the conflict has now spread beyond the original battlefield. Iran-linked attacks have reached Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Jordan, Iraq and other parts of the region, while the Houthis are threatening shipping routes.
Saudi Arabia, which had tried to stay out of the war, has now carried out joint strikes with the U.S. against targets in Iraq linked to attacks on Saudi energy infrastructure. Meanwhile, 14 countries have backed a new maritime coalition to protect shipping in the Red Sea.
Iran is clearly capable of hurting the U.S. and its allies, disrupting trade and expanding the cost of the war. But that is not the same as winning.
Strategically, the U.S. and its allies appear to have the upper hand: Iran is increasingly isolated, more regional powers are becoming involved against Iranian-backed forces, and Tehran has failed to turn its attacks into a diplomatic or military breakthrough.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/abcnews.com/amp/Politics/diplomacy-falters-us-iran-war-expands-analysis/story%3fid=135238633

dermmy:
Iran knew it could not defeat the US conventionally that was why it mastered and invested in assymetric warfare for decades and it paid off. Defeat na defeat, so it does not matter if US could defeat Iran in a conventional warfare. As long as Iran achieves her objectives assymetrically that is what matters.

Trump is in a bad situation as we talk. He didn't get the regime change, he has no clue as to how to deal with the nuclear and missiles programme as talks about those ones are now muted only the strait of Hormuz is the sticking point now.

Trump made a big mistake by starting this war.

It's paid off? How please??

Iran has been under severe economic and financial sanctions for years. Its infrastructure has suffered, its economy has struggled, and many of its citizens have paid a heavy price even with their lives and health. How is that a victory?

Now compare that with Saudi Arabia. They chose negotiation and strategic partnerships, and the difference in development is obvious.

People can call Saudi Arabia or Qatar 'U.S or European . puppets' if they want, but the reality is that both countries have achieved a far higher standard of living. In fact, many Saudi citizens enjoy better financial benefits and government support than the average American.

Whether people like it or not, economic prosperity and quality of life matter just as much as political rhetoric....

Would you rather Nigerians live like the Iranians or the Saudis

89green:
US should go and rest, the Strait is completely controlled by Iran

Now the christian savior tramp now understands why previous US presidents avoided a war with iran, even ground invasion sef, they avoided.

You want to joke with a nation that has been under sanction since before some of you were born

Note that US doesn't want you all to know the extent of the casualties and damage. Iran don punish US badly oo

Iran's biggest strength is its willingness to absorb heavy losses without placing much priority on human lives or infrastructure. But no matter how resilient they are, they can't simply replace the infrastructure destroyed in this war overnight. Ultimately, this conflict is more likely to end through dialogue than a decisive military victory.

Iran can impose economic and political costs on the US and its allies, but it cannot defeat the US in a direct conventional conflict. As the saying goes, person wey pass you, pass you. There's no need to be gullible about that reality.

We go university finish yet nobody don ever give us 4m.
I blame the oga for giving him too much money self

CodeTemplar:
That must be taraba.
Who is the governor of that state again? The governor needs beating. A whole three flyovers. Habaaa.

Nope. It's governor of Nasarawa State. He actually did four flyovers 😂... However I didn't mention the Karu flyover because it's an important one.

He did this in a state where every LGA is lacking in good road networks. Buses and taxis don't even run in the capital because of lack of road networks

Samuels90:
I heard he likes building flyover, is there massive traffic on roads?

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There is no serious traffic congestion in Lafia, Akwanga, or Keffi that justifies building flyovers. In fact, in places like Lafia, well-designed roundabouts would solve most traffic issues at a much lower cost.

What is more concerning is the apparent neglect of some of the most densely populated parts of Lafia, while road projects seem concentrated in other areas. Many residents feel that communities with large Christian populations have been overlooked, whereas roads are being constructed along routes like Shendam Road, where traffic is often light. Some of those roads are so underused that people even use them for driving lessons and car drifting.

Development should be based on need, population, and public benefit, not on perceived religious or political affiliations

toffyz:
100% he is informed. And he's doing his possible best to eradicate insecurities and banditry.

Possible best?? What's the best he's done pls. Educate us

toffyz:
If you know this Yoruba phrase " Oju tole oju toko" that's who PBAT is bro....man is extremely informed about the happenings in the country. Walahi. That's one of the many differences between him and late Buhari

Is he informed about the security challenges in the country as well ?

Eba50:
oborevwori carry flyover for head, building it on top bad road, u climb flyover finish come continue for bad road

😂 😂 You don't mean it. This is free madness pro max

He is talking to the likes of AA Sule of Nasarawa State who would rather build flyovers than carry out road projects in Christian communities in Lafia town.

😂 😂 God don catch say na Nasarawa North him comot from.

The worst is, these same African idiots will go to Europe and later begin to debate and seek for rights. They'd even go to the Television and social media to expose the European racism and corruption.

Something they never had the balls to do when they were in their country

PerfectView:
After all the foreign trips and attempts, Peter Obi wants to paint Nigeria in a bad light, Tinubu just keeps making moves from afar getting close. I believe a bigger political blow is coming, and that’s why they’re all shouting for him to speak so they can twist his words against him.

The difference is that Tinubu isn’t Obi. He hasn’t even declared a campaign yet. I like that he’s staying focused on governing instead of campaigning. At his age, he’s still putting in the work to address the country’s challenges and improve the economy.

When the campaign finally starts, we’ll see whose message resonates. Right now, Obi looks like he’s running out of ideas and searching everywhere for a political lifeline. 😂

What's Nigeria's biggest challenge at the moment? Hope you kno it's not the economy ?

It's funny how, if you rely on Nairaland alone for news about this war, you'd think Iran is winning. In reality, Iran has suffered significant damage and appears to be on the back foot.

They say desperate times call for desperate measures. Iran and its allies seem to be expanding the conflict by targeting Saudi Arabia, hoping to pressure the Kingdom into forcing U.S. military bases off its soil. It's a strategic move. There have also been attempts to disrupt vital shipping routes like the Strait of Hormuz, while attacks are spreading across the region.

War is bad for everyone. Both sides should return to the negotiating table. But Iran also has to be realistic, it can't expect to get everything it wants. The last MOU was genuinely favorable to them allowing it to slip away was either a serious miscalculation or sheer stupidity.

Hate him or love him. He is a lesser evil than the lot he'll be competing with.
I don't even think we'd have a worst president than Buhari.Tinubu came in and immediately proved me wrong within seconds

English is spoken everywhere in Nigeria. How is Hausa even close to that? Go to core Southern, Eastern and Western states. They don't or rarely speak Hausa. So it's easy to find faults in this data

omenka:
How does leaving money lying fallow in the state treasury when the state is in tatters count as an achievement? The biggest economy in the world today is the most indebted, but this salt and pepper economist sure knows nothing about that.

Ask him what macroeconomy means and hear the shit load of trash you'd be presented with. This is the most mentally vacuous being I've ever seen, the rarest of the species.

Peter Obi left office as Anambra State Governor in March 2014. At handover, he reportedly left about ₦86.7 billion in net financial assets, including $156 million in foreign-currency investments.

That $156 million alone, converted at today’s exchange rate, would be worth well over ₦200 billion.

The key point: the money wasn't all cash in the treasury; a significant portion was invested.

Imagine if this pattern was continued by the succeeding government. That state would have been a gold mine.
Also remember that he did very well in infrastructural development