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Hi all

Thanks for the replies. I do love but hurt at the moment and feel betrayed. I confronted him and he said lady seduced him, but he lied because this girl has always been in the picture. He told me it's his brother's girlfriend but everything I have discovered make sense. From the clothes I found in the house, him coming from Nigeria and not answering my calls, he even went to a church baby dedication of their church with this girl, spending Christmas' together. Everything is just adding up. His new place I didn't know it but this girl knew the place and they even moved there together helping move furniture, his car accident this girl was always by his bed side. When I call he would tell me he doesn't want to talk too much. I'm just hurting right now

Yes I have an 18 year old daughter from my previous relationship. My hubby is his step dad

Hi everyone

I need advice. I met a wonderful igbo man here in south Africa and we got married while he was still new. And he has invested so much into my family. We have been together since late 2009. We mostly visit each other because we stay in different suburbs.

My problem is there's a girl who used to tag him on Facebook and in 2012 I even told the lady she must forget him, since he's married. A lot has happened so to cut the story short. I found out he lied about this girl and they have been dating since 2010 and have a child together.

I also found out she also had keys to his apartment, she used to visit and I don't understand how he could have dated us both at the same time. The lady was told I am a paper wife. . He also went to nigeria to visit and when he came back, I called him several times till midnight. He was in southy from 2pm and never saw him for days only this year I discovered he was with the lady he has a baby with.

What makes me angry is he even went to see the girls parents that he has a baby with to discuss damages and tell the family they have a future together. How on earth because he's married to me and my family welcomed him and he is so nice to me.

I'm so confused right now and my 18 year daughter loves him as his own dad.