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5starMan:
What tribe are you from?

Does it matter?

Thank you guys for your inputs on this matter, so I've decided not to give him his phone until he pays up my balance. Thank you all I really appreciate.

advanceDNA:
Don't make that mistake....

If u drop that phone...u don't have any leverage

The chance he would pay back is running towards zero....


In Nigerian business world, there are different strategy of increasing profit...one of them is through reducing your cost...and that includes scamming the supplier ......no lose guard

Exactly sir! It what they do in this line of business

Kosoco:
You are a very wicked person.... After he squzzed his last 35k for you, you still kept his phone... now you are asking us about your action......
You could hv just note his contact and adress since you knew someone he tends to use the material for did not pay him... The only thing you can't run aware from is conscience look at how you're feeling now cos you hurt your fellow man... locate that man and give him his phone for your peace of mind.... On a final note always have compassion for your fellow man.

Am not wicked. But I will hand him his phone tomorrow.

I work as a sales boy in a shop were curtain accessories are sold and in this line of business some customers tend to owe not because they don't have but because they don't want to.

So there is this man that I know and he owes other people too, he should be in his forties and I'm 21, so he bought goods from my shop today worth #60k and told me he will pay me once he gets back from were he wants to use the items he bought so he decided to drop his phone because I didn't allow him to carry my goods without paying. so this evening when he arrived he was sweating and complaining that the customer has not paid blah blah blah..as usual of them

He couldn't even pay up the person that went to work with him complete. He tried explaining to me sweating and all that that what is left in his account is #35k which he paid to me but I didn't allow him to go with his phone, I turned deaf ears to his ranting and assured him he is not leaving there with his phone without paying the remaining balance of #25k. He had no other choice than to leave without his phone and now am worried if I have done something wrong .

Was I wrong to keep his phone? What would have been the right action I would have taken because I'm feeling very bad now like what will he tell his wife about his phone.

Damn what the hell Op? Who are you trying to leave her for after all those abortions? Now you are saying you like chubby women and she is not even up to 20% of what you like yet you had to make her undergo over 8 abortions.

GET A HEART!

labake1:
Yours wasn't necessary too, you would have just passed

Fair enough

labake1:
Yawns

Why do I need to type more characters on a post that doesn't worth it?

Honestly your comment wasn't necessary. You could have just ignored

You should take from Your savings?? Damn that girl is taking advantage of you bro..she doesn't even love you from the start, she just agreed to the relationship just to milk you!

Forget her and move on..you were the only one in that relationship

IAmFreed:
Hello!

I love your challenge, and I will advise that you should keep to your determination and the purpose, avoid all discouraging posts and comments with all energies.

If you go through my post, you'll notice I was once like you and I got the cleanliness I wanted at a point in time. I was cleaned for more than a year staying clean without masturbation, pornography, and sex. I could count 15 months at a goal without these three acts.

But the year that made it one year plus I stopped the nonsense activities, I relapsed as a result of my foolishness on a lady that we were developing lust for ourselves at work.

Let me say few of this story for record sake.

When I got a job in the organization, there is this lady I always admire, beautiful and with good character. I started initiating talks and I was intentionally manipulating her emotions subtly in a way that was not pronounced. But I never approached her or tell her that I wanted anything sexual from her. But I always fantasize having her in my mind every moment I saw her.

I took my course of manipulating her emotions in a very discreet ways, I would advise her, make her to listen to me, I made every seconds to be comfortable speaking or being with me, and to make it worse I was very religious that I was bringing religious materials to work and distributed to staff.

Purposely for my manipulation, I was dressing well, invested in good perfume, cut my hair nicely with well pressed dresses.

I could say among all men in the organization back then I was the one giving the best look at a period, purposely because of this lady.

Something happened in the office that they did some rearrangement where my table was moved from the initial position to be positioned directly beside her desk. I was so happy. The manipulation took another strategy I intensified this mission with a daily and constantly thought in my mind to have this lady in my bed. But I was so religious in my organization that I dare not come out directly to woo a girl to bed her unless I needed serious relationship from her that could lead to marriage, because I didn't want anyone to see me as not who I claimed to be. I manipulated this lady to the point that I would even be advising her against sexual activities, I really took the emotional manipulation to grade A of the highest tier of emotional manipulation to the point that she later fell in love with me before the end of the year and as she was now seeing me as her boyfriend without me asking her out or spending a dime in her.

At this stage, she started calling me dear, she would always want to talk to me after work that any time I am unable to pick her call she would be so angry and registered her anger whenever I later picked or when we later saw the next day at work.

At this stage I still continued the emotional manipulation pretending as if I did not want anything relationship with her. This is another level of manipulation, deep down I knew she had fallen in love. I knew things I did practically that I won't want to mention here so that she won't come across this post one day and later get to know I am behind the keyboard.

Time started counting, she won't want to do anything at my back without telling me, it got to a stage that she was practically telling me everything happening in her life and her family members cutting across her parents and siblings and all men that have been asking her out including permanent staff, the organization manager, and some outsiders. At this stage I knew love had entered her, but I won't lie, love had entered me as well, but I wasn't showing it to her.

To make the matter worse she starting telling me about her boyfriend, how the guy love her, this challenges she was facing in the relationship and lot more. She showed me the picture of the guy and they were just too cool together, handsome tall guy indeed. I would advise her to do all things to make the relationship work and overlook things the guy might be doing, that whatever happening in the relationship is common to almost all relationships. Whenever I gave her advice on things like this, she's always happy and wanted to hear more from me

Anytime she expected me to say a bad comment on the guy, but rather, I advice her positively to maintain the relationship and pray, my level of respect is always added by a degree. This is an advanced emotional manipulation for someone you deeply have interest to bed without going the convectional way.

The relationship had continue without me letting her to know that I was in relationship with her, any time she called, she always ended the call with I love you, some times I replied back with I love you too, but anytime I didn't reply, she would pick an offence for not replying that I love her too.

Days rolling to weeks, weeks counting into months, this relationship was building up with deep emotional connection between the two of us.

Anytime I was not on seat in the office, the lady would practically been missing me. There was a time I was given an assignment outside of the office, where I was spending about, 30-40 minutes, this lady came to meet me that she had missed me. I pray she does not come across this line, she may be suspicious.

Time was counting, we continue this to the extent that she a night won't pass without discussing on phone everyday despite that we left same office same day. But we were ob[b]sessed with each other.

To cut the story short, she visited my apartment and we had intense romance, the beginning of my relapse. I don't want to go into details on this visitation encounters, because I regretted the adventures later on[/b].

It will be good I also let you guys know that I met this lady as a virgin despite graduating from a higher institution as at the time of the adventures and encounters.

That ended my journey of "No pornography, no masturbation journey" . A painful experience, I relapsed woefully.

I'm picking this up again. God helping me.

Continue the story plz..what made you regret it..I'm learning from it