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You should take from Your savings?? Damn that girl is taking advantage of you bro..she doesn't even love you from the start, she just agreed to the relationship just to milk you!

Forget her and move on..you were the only one in that relationship

IAmFreed:
Hello!

I love your challenge, and I will advise that you should keep to your determination and the purpose, avoid all discouraging posts and comments with all energies.

If you go through my post, you'll notice I was once like you and I got the cleanliness I wanted at a point in time. I was cleaned for more than a year staying clean without masturbation, pornography, and sex. I could count 15 months at a goal without these three acts.

But the year that made it one year plus I stopped the nonsense activities, I relapsed as a result of my foolishness on a lady that we were developing lust for ourselves at work.

Let me say few of this story for record sake.

When I got a job in the organization, there is this lady I always admire, beautiful and with good character. I started initiating talks and I was intentionally manipulating her emotions subtly in a way that was not pronounced. But I never approached her or tell her that I wanted anything sexual from her. But I always fantasize having her in my mind every moment I saw her.

I took my course of manipulating her emotions in a very discreet ways, I would advise her, make her to listen to me, I made every seconds to be comfortable speaking or being with me, and to make it worse I was very religious that I was bringing religious materials to work and distributed to staff.

Purposely for my manipulation, I was dressing well, invested in good perfume, cut my hair nicely with well pressed dresses.

I could say among all men in the organization back then I was the one giving the best look at a period, purposely because of this lady.

Something happened in the office that they did some rearrangement where my table was moved from the initial position to be positioned directly beside her desk. I was so happy. The manipulation took another strategy I intensified this mission with a daily and constantly thought in my mind to have this lady in my bed. But I was so religious in my organization that I dare not come out directly to woo a girl to bed her unless I needed serious relationship from her that could lead to marriage, because I didn't want anyone to see me as not who I claimed to be. I manipulated this lady to the point that I would even be advising her against sexual activities, I really took the emotional manipulation to grade A of the highest tier of emotional manipulation to the point that she later fell in love with me before the end of the year and as she was now seeing me as her boyfriend without me asking her out or spending a dime in her.

At this stage, she started calling me dear, she would always want to talk to me after work that any time I am unable to pick her call she would be so angry and registered her anger whenever I later picked or when we later saw the next day at work.

At this stage I still continued the emotional manipulation pretending as if I did not want anything relationship with her. This is another level of manipulation, deep down I knew she had fallen in love. I knew things I did practically that I won't want to mention here so that she won't come across this post one day and later get to know I am behind the keyboard.

Time started counting, she won't want to do anything at my back without telling me, it got to a stage that she was practically telling me everything happening in her life and her family members cutting across her parents and siblings and all men that have been asking her out including permanent staff, the organization manager, and some outsiders. At this stage I knew love had entered her, but I won't lie, love had entered me as well, but I wasn't showing it to her.

To make the matter worse she starting telling me about her boyfriend, how the guy love her, this challenges she was facing in the relationship and lot more. She showed me the picture of the guy and they were just too cool together, handsome tall guy indeed. I would advise her to do all things to make the relationship work and overlook things the guy might be doing, that whatever happening in the relationship is common to almost all relationships. Whenever I gave her advice on things like this, she's always happy and wanted to hear more from me

Anytime she expected me to say a bad comment on the guy, but rather, I advice her positively to maintain the relationship and pray, my level of respect is always added by a degree. This is an advanced emotional manipulation for someone you deeply have interest to bed without going the convectional way.

The relationship had continue without me letting her to know that I was in relationship with her, any time she called, she always ended the call with I love you, some times I replied back with I love you too, but anytime I didn't reply, she would pick an offence for not replying that I love her too.

Days rolling to weeks, weeks counting into months, this relationship was building up with deep emotional connection between the two of us.

Anytime I was not on seat in the office, the lady would practically been missing me. There was a time I was given an assignment outside of the office, where I was spending about, 30-40 minutes, this lady came to meet me that she had missed me. I pray she does not come across this line, she may be suspicious.

Time was counting, we continue this to the extent that she a night won't pass without discussing on phone everyday despite that we left same office same day. But we were ob[b]sessed with each other.

To cut the story short, she visited my apartment and we had intense romance, the beginning of my relapse. I don't want to go into details on this visitation encounters, because I regretted the adventures later on[/b].

It will be good I also let you guys know that I met this lady as a virgin despite graduating from a higher institution as at the time of the adventures and encounters.

That ended my journey of "No pornography, no masturbation journey" . A painful experience, I relapsed woefully.

I'm picking this up again. God helping me.

Continue the story plz..what made you regret it..I'm learning from it

Eseka22:
If 16 is a legal age, some will still go for it. There are more pedophiles than you think

Damn.... The guy have no shame

Eseka22:
Date someone mature, you were dating someone who was 18 months ago. A 25 yo man like you
Who knows if you were eyeing her whilst underage

Lol...the age difference is too far..19- 25. Should he except a 19yr old to be serious in a relationship??

Tekashi89:
yes I had that kind of encounter almost about four times before I graduated and also some within a week or two weeks without too much stress but others till we graduated I never got to even gave the chance of being in a room alone with them till I graduated once they said no it was a no

Nawa oo

Tekashi89:
yes bro I approached her in my 100 level kept calling and texting her while talking to other girls in the midst of all that I banged different girls there was one I met today and banged the next day just that I also met some that said no and never agreed what I'm trying to say is that once a lady says no she says no I don't believe in all these playing hard to get stuffs

Are you serious? Just within two days of meeting? Wow

[quote author=NoSmoking post=132034571]Pls share d video[/quote

Search for naija confra on telegram. They posted the video today around 6pm. Check the screenshot photo

Bro don't watch it this night, you may not sleep well

What are this people gaining from all this things?

This guys are really heartless.. hah!

I just watched a video of a cultist butchering thier rival like his some kind of insect!

I can't even sleep now sef.

Using Axe to butcher your fellow human like fowl.. even fowl don't get slaughtered like this. And to think this people have parents, siblings.

And from what I'm hearing, they do this almost on a daily basis using it to count scores

God have mercy

VinnyBaba:
See Wahala.

Dat's why Men are different from Women.

When Men fight, they Plank or stab their opponent and walk away once they are victorious.

But Women do NOT know how to fight. They tear Bras and Pants
and try to expose the Opponent YANCH for everyone to see.

Exactly! Almost every women fight I watch online they always try to tear each other clothes.. buy why??

illicit:
Pls share the link

I just stumbled upon the video on x.. didn't save the video or the poster... Sorry

Ibkay32:
E sure me say na man them dey fight on top

As matured as they are?

RoyalBlu:
It's called cat fight for a reason.

One of them be like: Imma rip your face off, you 'snitch'.

Mature women like this. God forbid!!!

If only you could watch the video on X.. they really embarrassed themselves and no one intervened

Like guys WTF!

African American women are really crazy when it comes to fighting

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naija1stnigar:
As long as Yoruba CAC churches are concerned, no level of stupidity is impossible

Boss don't start Vauwlence abeg

emmafineboy:
Your the one saying nonsense here,he's looking for urgent 2k and he has data to come online.... My brother this people are scammers

Ignore.. simple!

emmafineboy:
Sell your phone and fight the hunger,I'm very sure you're using iPhone and still complaining! Nigerians are very cronny

If you know you can't offer him anything Simply ignore him! Instead of saying nonsense

Na you buy iPhone for am.. some people sef

Eriokanmi:
Sense!

What wrong with calling the number? Will you be traced or what

Healthrelatedjo:
Na ur own go finish

Pls educate me on this bro. What wrong with calling the number? Will you be traced or what?

WorWorBoy:
Are You worried about what Americans think about Nigerians,or you are really feeling bad for Nigeria?🤔 Like AI told you, there's no country who is criminal free. The same Americans you are busy worrying about,are the same Americans who will make fun of you for being an African,or Nigerian. According to them, Africa is nothing but one poverty heaven, where we all live in hunts and are dying of hunger. [b]My point is,do not allow anyone to mess with your self [/b]esteem. Sure there are Nigerians who are commiting internet frauds,but there are also Nigerians who are also making impact all over the world.🤷🚶🚶

You are right bro, but it really messed up my self esteem. In as much as I'm worried about Nigeria and also worried about what other countries think of us.

Once they know you are Nigerian they will start being extra careful.. and also they already tag you a criminal

It bad bro.. really bad . If you go to global sites like quora or reddit. You will see what I'm talking about