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Mobileowowa:
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Mobileowowa:
Yes, the recruiter wants Youth Corps member. They operate both remote and physical operations. The Physical operations is Mondays and Wednesdays.

qtguru:
You're tying your self worth to an anonymous forum, maybe you are the one that has self esteem issues. What helps to boost confidence is to assert dominance in something else. Find a hobby or project worth your time. And from there you will find your confidence.

So what if no one understands you or you do things wrong, grow up and take charge of your life, fix the issues. Everybody makes mistakes that's how we learn.

Peace

Resurgent2016:
Being idle does not mean not being in employment, it means what you do doesnt properly occupy your thoughts and action.

But if you say that's not the issue, what can I say....

Elmaaq:
Let me see if I can help.... How do I reach you?

Resurgent2016:
I guess you are probable just idle, so you are overthinking trivial things that others will otherwise ignore.

You need to deliberately get busy even if its just an unpaid social activity that keeps your mind engage.

The way you keep lamenting over nothing can lead to severe depression that can destroy your future

Lavoz:
Hmm mine was my family. Out of evry1 in the Family, i was the weirdest. Weird in the sense that, normal things dat normal ppl do, i couldnt do. Friends and Family do make jest of me. I lacked self confidence, couldnt speakout. I prefered to be all alone in my room, i wouldnt go out(shut myself frm social media/gathering) even frm extended family). Even as a male, I would sometimes cry becos of hw ppl treated me. Depression started to creep in, I once thought of ending my life. It was at dat moment GOD helped me, and glory 2 God the rest is history. And right frm dat moment, Those things dat made me look weak/feeble began to leave me(becos of joshua1:5-9, 2corinthians 12:9 Habakkuk 3:17-19). And i became someone, dat ppl wuld want to listen 2. I became someone who culd make reasonable decision wit God's help. Glory to GOD

bukatyne:
@bold: what do you stand for?

KidDarkness:
This is too much and this fella is definitely not a friend

jesmond3945:
is easy for people to say don't mind what people say but when in reality is the hardest and saddest place to be. You have a sweet heart with conscience that's why little things get to you. I have that as well because I am a beautiful soul. Little slight and attitude get to me because I am not hardened or pumpous. I would say remove yourself from toxic situations, play music and stay with people that celebrate you.

Odoogu:
@thatthickgurl
Renaissance D'une Reine....

Odoogu:
well about that, you can do nothing , it's what it is...

and does this happen like every time?

Odoogu:
being opinionated is kinda different... it means you are saying that you "always right" which is false. no one can always be right.

have you actually met someone whom you think is more knowledgeable than you are?

how was the interaction between you two?


Of course I'm not always right, I'm quick to apologize for any mistake
But feels like everyone else is incapable of having civil conversations

Why can't we have discussions without subtle insults or taunts?

It's tiring

Ishilove:
It seems you have a heart of putty. So soft.

Odoogu:
what do you think you stand for?

those who participate in ridiculing you ain't your genuine friends, you think they are.

it shows how you really think in your mind.

Odoogu:
try calm down small... are you the one thinking this?

people are very entitled to their opinions, same as you, so being controversial is allowed.

or you prefer to be stepped over?

Odoogu:
well the first therapist to be seen has to be YOU.

do you always think people hate you? or they "actually" act and or tell you so?

the mind is some 'crazy' place, be careful how you behave down there.

Love yourself first. there are always genuine friends out there.

yanabasee1:
You just figured the problem.... Put efforts to work on your esteems and put also your happiness first by not letting common words get to you.... if that won't work, then always talk back at those talking down on you, if it'll help.

CalliDora1:
You're not alone @ the bolded but let me advice you. When it happens like that, pack all of them one side and go about like they don't exist. Don't ever ponder upon it whenever it crosses your mind.

See, if I notice one rubbish wants to trouble my heart, I go out and give myself a nice treat. By the time I'm done, the whole silly thoughts will disappear and I forge on.
Life is too sweet to worry about what will not credit my account.