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You can't do anything for anybody. Stop advertising miracle. Teach people to read the word of God and apply it sincerely and get their miracle. Who gave you the power to remote God to solve peoples problems? Jesus Christ has paid the price for us all to be free and no man can solve any problem for anybody. Only constant knowledge of the word will solve people problem.
Joh 15:7 If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.


Gal 3:13 Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us: for it is written, Cursed [is] every one that hangeth on a tree:

Customer80:
The song and the video is just there.

The only thing I heard was oba no dey go court, was expecting more from them

Youre so right. Music is meant to be intriguing and from music a particular sentence or phrase will start to reign... Mere looking at this one, no word or sentence will make one to jump up and dance or even sing it. Unlike in church, atimes u can hear a word that will lift ur spirit... Musicians are more interested in releasing songs but don't sell words to make the music a dominance. How I wish I have talent to sing

SmartchoicesNG:
not sure of what you mean about won't sell... the music is tight

That song don't have a common language to sell it... Like Davidos "IF" (30billion for the account). Phrase or a sentence everyone will hear as intriguing sells music. That's the secret of music don enter market. Check out Timayas "Ukwu" ...also check out when Dbanj sang "Oliver Twist ". Also, checkout why Phyno sells... Yemi Alade etc.

SmartchoicesNG:
I wish em both well kcee is also a great entertainer... maybe they sign contracts after bottles of champagne

Nice comment from you. Harysong need to cool down and sell us himself and not trying to show he got talent. Let's watch and see. Kcee got enof now to retire from music if he wish. Besides this music is not a club hit. Won't sell in the street.

SmartchoicesNG:
kcee of course

I've updated my post. All I see is Harysong trying to show he can make it. Bro, Kcee is not competing with him. Those guys are made and got investments all over. Harysong should be humble and don't be overzealous cos na so e dey be if one is pained. Na temporal sha. We will see on the long run

SmartchoicesNG:
the way that guy rubbished harrysong no be here... you go think say he nor sabi sing at all... he was stellar in this video

Who rubbished Harysong? Bro, they had contract with him and never breached any. Harysong should go and enjoy the money he made being with them. Let him fight hard to break into the market and don't try to show he can make it cos that will be his ruin

SmartchoicesNG:
harry song is just pure music madt... kcee needs to cool down harrysong no be im mate... hearing his voice in collabo with wande coal is just crazy...

not necessary comparing. It's always like that if new music comes out

Is very funny to hear that El rufai wants to be president. Is like wanting a satan to rule us. God forbid

ziddy:
greenhouses would do the trick. i don't know whether they are cost effective though. . . .

Bro, in Naija we never advance reach that stage.

Tomatoes and rainy season are sworn enemies. No English will make Tomatoes grow during rainy season cos the lands are too wet and the roots won't hold.

Frustration real ooo. I know soon people won't be afraid of death again.

I did tutorial for year one and two on Account, Maths, Statistics, Taxation, Cost Accounting. I was writing exams for people both in my school and others.

With the influence I had during the tutorial, I contested for SUG election and won.

That's Destiny

Fools

NCAN, abort mission, I repeat again abort mission!! It's a civilian casualty.

Target missed.


Lol

See talk. Imagine the caliber of people speaking for Yoruba

UCHE Jumbo shares selfie with "The Satan".


A man brought out of death(prison) and given a chance to make Nigeria good, rather he spoilt the whole system. Killed the whole Nigerian companies and railway and destroyed INEC and has the highest bloodshed to his credit.

Enjoy while it last but u won't escape the consequences

I didn't expect less

TapTapTap:
People that do drugs are not bad people. Btw u don't like smokers and she decided to stop for u and she even came out and was sincere. I think u found urself a good one tho

Sincerely, I've not been faced with such situation. Is like a mystery to me. But I know I can never fall a victim.

bellyjean:
Bro, I thank God for your conviction and your strong faith.

The bible says we live by faith and not by sight. She can be woman/wife if you are willing to invest in her spiritual growth.

She loves you and you love her. Well, this is only the starting point. Let your love be guided by christ's love. You will have to be paitient with her. You will have to be tolerant. Don't ever remind her of where she is coming from. You have to be very alert to this. Whenever u quarrel, pls don't bring her past into it. Remind her of God's love towards her.

I don't know how long you guys have been dating and if you have even transitioned into courtship, but I will suggest that you delay any marraige plans for now (if there isn't too much pressure on both of u sha). As I said earlier, invest in her spiritual growth and if eventually for some other reasons you guys seperated, she would be better than she met you and of course you would be better afterwards.

Trust me it will not be a jolly ride all through. But note that marriage is meant to be enjoyed and not endured. And ultimately, prepare you both for eternity. I would love to hear good testimonies about how God helped both of you made your relationship work.

You can check some of pastor Godman Akinlabi's teaching on marriage and relationships on youtube.

Thanks. Still on prayer mood.

bellyjean:
Bro. I appreciate you man.

Many guys here are just viewing this from the lady's perspective and are being sympathetic and apologetic; "oh she's changed", "she is willing to learn and change", "she sees you as her pillar"etc etc.
These are good qualities a guy would always want to see in his lady. But marriage transcends all these.

From a christain's perspective in which Jesus' model of a marriage should be our yardstick. Amongst all these "GOOD" and "WONDERFUL" qualities your babe has, I think what you should look out for is her love for Jesus christ and how she feels about doing God's will even when she goes down emotionally, spiritually or even when she is tempted to take some 'shots' of drugs. How willing is she to yielding herself to the expression of Holyspirit in her. You should have a glimpse of this from the joint devotions you have, the time you guys spend together to study the word of God.

My friend, any worthwhile relationship is a long walk and with God at the centre of your relationship, you will enjoy life.

My dear OP. You have done what a gentle man should do. God bless you for that. I trust you didn't base your relationship on sex and other frivolities.

Don't be decieved, there is no angel among we humans, but we can strive towards that perfection as commanded by God. A commenter said she sees you as her pillar. Walk her through the right paths, encourage her in the lord, the two of you should attend christain conferences that will help both of you grow, let her trust you. Be her shield.

But, the real question, which I should have asked before writing this long epistle is are you being led by the Holy Spirit into this relationship? And if so, do you truly know what LOVE means?

Answer this and you have your answer.

The relationship has been a no sex one from day one. I just finished a dry fasting then and prayed intensely that God revealed this girl to me cos I do have this inner witness that there is something she is not telling me. That same evening I finished and called her, she now made those confessions to my shock. The things of God she's a novice but very willing to learn.
Let me tell me one thing I discovered about marriage. God can never choose a wife for anyone. But the greatest prayer is for God to reveal who your partner is and after that, the whole option is left for you to choose.
For instance, I had this girl initially before this one, I prayed and God showed me where we married but she got diabetics in future and I was not happy in the marriage. Through inner witness, the Holy Spirit told me that I've been shown the barrier ahead, but to marry her or not is entirely my own to choose cos as soon as I marry her, if I ever treat her bad...God won't be happy with me... So I withdrew. Now this one is entirely my decision again to choose.
This scripture holds me down...

1Co 7:12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
1Co 7:13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
1Co 7:14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
1Co 7:15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such [cases]: but God hath called us to peace.


Then this one is the key testing me betwixt two options...

*1Co 7:16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save [thy] husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save [thy] wife?*

malton:
Don't mind me.

Truth is,

Smoking weed is not bad in itself, IMHO. However, those smoking cliques usually gang-fu#k, with the guys taking turns on the ladies one after the other.

This isn't to say that her gang was like that. But that's how they operate, especially when high.

I know this for a fact, especially the secondary school kind.

It's all in the past, but I'll advise that you do some health checkups together before you proceed.

If all checks out fine, you can go ahead and wife her.

Who are we to judge?

Mine is just a cautious approach.

Sure, I will definitely do routine medical check up on her before anything else. You're not far from the truth either. She really bleeped during those periods just for the fun of it. Now she has changed and me got plenty work to do to be sure.

malton:


If I talk wetin dey my mind sha, u fit leave her cos of am.

Bro, go ahead. I'm all ears

Always trying to score UI first before UNN. UNN is like one trying to make heaven

[quote author=SexyNairalander post=57100680][/quote]What do u mean it doesn't change anything about her?