Zz0r:
First of all the man shouldnt be broke, I can only show love to a hard-working rich man

Haven't you heard or seen women who made their man rich?? Or supported them? Where is it written that u can't get rich ur self as a woman or support the man u love?

If the man is lazy, well, u can do without dating them.

oxiide22:
hhhhh zakiyi barna irin zuciyankin nan. meyafi haquri?

Lol. But kasan maza suna da matsala Walahi.

Opak001:
wife material
social science degree complete

AswearuGawd!!

BedroomSecret:


We need more than money.
So, please compose the list

1. Make time for her consistently.A woman feels loved when you make time for and prioritize her in your life. I’ve seen a lot of men who tend to create lots of time for women during the dating process, but not once we’re in a relationship with them.

2. Appreciate her.Most women go out of their way to nurture, care for and serve the people they care most about. So much of their work and giving is ignored. Simple appreciation for what she means to you can make a world of difference to her.

3. Acknowledge her.Notice what she did and let her know that you appreciate it. A thoughtful gesture, kind word or small gift will help her feel appreciated.

4. Accept her for who she is.Appreciate her for the best version of herself instead of reminding her of her flaws. The simplest way to love a woman is to accept her for who she is – no need to change her or wish she were different. No need to tell her that she doesn’t measure up or is insufficient in some way.

5. Let go of trying to change her.Along the same lines of accepting her is learning to let go of trying to change her in the relationship. You can’t expect or demand that a woman be a certain way in your relationship.

6.  Cultivate compassion.Part of accepting her involves compassion and understanding for what she’s going through.Compassion means understanding her challenges, her upbringing, and the difficulties she’s experiencing in daily life. Compassion means being present, being empathetic, and being forgiving – it’s seeing where she’s coming from.

7. Offer a listening ear.Women, more so than most men, love to talk as a way of expressing themselves, as a way of sharing and even as a way of loving.One easy way for us to love them is to listen to them without trying to fix them, help them, or troubleshoot for them. Listening without judgment or advice helps people feel heard and seen.

8. Show openness and honesty.When you do converse, nothing can make a woman feel more loved than honesty.Women, I’ve found, value this quality more than almost any other one. Being able to have an honest conversation, share deep and intimate thoughts and have an open conversation allows women to feel safe.

9. Be vulnerable with her.Women feel loved when you share your feelings and your experiences – positive and negative – with them. They don’t want to hear your every fear and worry, but they do want to hear what you’re struggling with and your challenges.

10. Commit to being a better partner.The best thing you can do for her – and for you – is to become the best version of yourself. Grow, learn and work on improving yourself. Work on eliminating bad habits and becoming emotionally stronger and more vulnerable.

11. Show small acts of thoughtfulness.It doesn’t seem like fancy trips or heroic declarations of love impress most women. More than heroism and grand gestures, it’s the small, everyday acts of thoughtfulness and care that seem to matter most.

what does she need help with? 

what would brighten her day?

Think of ways to improve her life.

Hope u find my epistle interesting.

Unik3078:


Well said!
but its better for the guy above to go and hang himself instead of breaking the heart of such lady that can do all the 14 point listed because when such kind of woman decides to seek revenge for breaking her heart, even the devil sits down and begin to learn EVILNESS from her.

... Nice one from " Thekanowarrior"

AswearuGawd

BedroomSecret:
We need the second part, "How To Show Love To Your Woman"

Please, check my signature

Very simple........
1. give her money
2. give her another money
3. give her money again

Dear ladies,
Let me teach you how to show love to your guy.
Some of you ladies do not know how to show love to the guy you are dating. some ladies think that the only way to show a guy love is by having sex with him; that is why some ladies do not have anything to offer a guy except sex. Sex is not a prove of love. Don't use sex to prove that you love a guy. As a lady, you can prove that you love a guy in the following ways:

RESPECT HIM!!! (very important)
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1. Buy gifts for him. You can give him gifts of T-shirts, shoes, undies, singlets or even a phone if you have the money.
2. Take him out for lunch and pay his bills at least once in 2 months. It is not bad at all.
3. Send him some love text messages occasionally.
4. Give him phone calls daily at least once daily, ask him how he is doing and tell him that you love him.
5. Occasionally you can cook a delicious meal for him, maybe once in a week or once in two weeks, but not everyday like a housewife.
6. You can also help him financially when he is broke.
7. Take him out for shopping at least once in a year, you will not die.
8. Pray for him
9. Advise him
10. Help him to build a bright future.
11. Do not go through his phone. (a man's phone is like onion. once u start cutting, u must cry)
12. Do not Nag
13. Learn to give him space when he needs it
14. Give him time to hang out with the boys, everything is not about you SIS.

I know some ladies will crucify me because of this post, but this is the ideal thing to do for your guy, not sex, sex sex.
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Guys, Did I make sense?

bigpicture001:


Haha haha... I don't do yahoo guy. I Dont do rituals. I met her wen I earn like 30k monthly. I wan hungry die.. But I got dreams and plans.. So came in. Encourage me, I sat up. Source for funds to fulfill dreams ah supported even financially well. I met bigness risk dat pulled me down. So lost believe.. I still believed. Sh want ready for a restart. I continued to find a way.. Cuz it's about my own life.. So quitted and said "am working in circles".

I beefed and tried to talk sense to her. So no gree.. Now d same biz now earns me 150k monthly. And still growing.. I go buy car soonest. Honestly wish she still dry. But I guess sh still no send. Life goes in with another girl

Wow!!!! now i know why she left you. Your command of spoken English is so pitiful. you too do u like ur self with this english? haba, fear God Brother!!

Unik3078:


so sorry about the experience you had. keep trying. the write person will come but one thing you should also know is that " not hammering is also a crime" lol

Must everybody hammer? people like you push people to crime. na wetin dey make guys do yahoo yahoo and other crimes. just work hard and pray hard, u will make it.

And why would u end our relationship over a phone conversation.

walahi, i go send herdsmen to u. NONSENSE!!!

Ramadan Mubarak

The Lady should be very wise and use her head now. she should learn from her past experience.