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[quote author=bokoarerams post=137312181]If I come to discover that the man that I have known all my life is not my real father based on a DNA test, I will never stop loving him as a father and switch to the new discovered father. He will be my father forever, leave the biological discovery to those that needs it. I believe this is exactly how children who discovered that their know father is not their biological father feel. Fatherhood is not a noun it's a verb, he that stands as a father for me throughout my childhood is my father, Also he that knows me as his father from birth to the age of realisation will be my child forever. Life is too short for all these biological nonsense. I am a man ooo for those that want to bash me.

This is wisdom. This is how I see it too. As a being, the man that donated the sperm that formed me has no effect on my existence, and same is true with the children that would be formed from my sperm. Nature doesn't care about who did what, it just want to perpetuate the human species.

Having said that, being a sperm donor does not make you a father. What makes you a father is your willingness to include another being as part of yourself; loving, caring for and nurturing him/her.

Someone should build a museum where all these would be documented

Lost generation of men.
Why would a man sleep with another man's wife to start with?
Useless and shameless men who do this are here blaming women. I am not justifying women who commit paternity fraud, I am saying that both men and women should be held culpable for paternity crime.

On another note, DNA test laboratories are promoting DNA test so as to milk stupid men dry, and many more test labs will start springing up.

If we start celebrating your birthday, we know when to stop, that is when you die.
If we start celebrating your posthumous birthday, when are we going to stop?

Seunpapa65:
Was this really the plant God told Adam and Eve to avoid in the garden of Eden
Ever since I started using it Omo there's nothing like shyness infact I found myself becoming more social and out spoken

How did you take it? smoking, chewing or brewing it as tea?

Kobojunkie:
To this day, there has never in fact been a single study to back up this claim.

Internet scientist. Not everything needs to be backed up by study.
Is there any study that backs up the fact that a woman needs a man to conceive.

Absolutely sir. I can relate to the op's experience. I suffered similar issue in the hands of my over religious mother. Religious women are innocently evil, with the right intention they do the wrong things, and unfortunately, life does not regard intention, it gives you results based on the action you perform. I just forgave her because she was ignorant. If she knew better she would have acted better. Religion makes people especially women unconscious, senseless and stupid.
We need a global revolution of sense, we need meditation, we need spirituality.

I feel your pains.
Similar thing I went through.
Some mothers are evil especially religious mum.
People that don't have religious mum don't know What God had done in their life.[/quote]

I love that. Sense

Venomous not poisonous. Besides their venom often cause pain, swelling etc not death. Though it depends on the specie I think[/quote]

otomatic:
"By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you will be happy; if not, you will become a philosopher"

Says Socrates

That's great Tiwa but hear me out...

CIRCLE OF DEATH
Religion - Capitalism - Processed Food - Social Media.
If a child is given birth to without knowledge of Jesus/Mohammed, he'll never know them but he'll find spirituality and RELIGION is a knock off of spirituality created to control your thinking. CAPITALISM is man's attempt to control nature out of greed. Processed foods causes cancer, it's literally on the containers of some of them and it's just another bid for man to control nature and economics because nature wants foods to be cheap so it gives it 2-3 week shelf life but PROCESSED FOODS can stay years increasing it's cost. SOCIAL MEDIA controls human thinking, causes anxiety. All four are interconnected.

CIRCLE OF LIFE
Spirituality - Socialism - Natural Food - Social Life
SPIRITUALITY is based on logic and it comes from within. I don't want to kill because I wouldn't like to be killed is logical, that's spirituality. If everybody thinks in that way about killing, it becomes our consciousness and we can tie it to a physical entity and so we create a deity for recognition, it's the idea that's worshipped not the deity. It's logically that everybody should have land because you too wouldn't want anybody to take land from you which is socialism.
SOCIALISM is the opposite of greed/capitalism. Socialism is to share because it is more than enough to go round for everybody. In socialism, everybody would have a land to grow natural food.
NATURAL FOOD is wellness and it fosters social life because you'd probably have to go to the market every week.
SOCIAL LIFE is how genuine thoughts are formed. It's how we can create true role models. It's not pretend.

Nice one. You couldn't have said it any better. Organised religion has damaged our minds, processed food has damaged our bodies and made us miserable, capitalism has damaged our society and social media has damaged our inter-personal relationships. Let all arise and join hands in fostering the global revolution of common sense.

I agree with you. Humans have lost perspective as to who we are in this creation. We think we are the crown of creation and every other creature is here to serve us, but we are just one more creature amidst billion of creations.
In our unbridled quest for comfort, convenience and power, we have destroyed about half of the planet and if we continue like this, one day we will have no planet left but I fear that before we get to that stage, the planet itself will retaliate by perhaps throwing out a deadly disease or a natural disaster that would wipe out most of humanity.

No doubt that technology has made our lives much more comfortable than we had it 500 years ago but that has happened and is happening at the expense of our wellbeing. The quality of air we breathe has become abysmally low and even poisonous. The water we drink is polluted, and we now eat chemicals as food. So this is the stupid civilization we all crave for?
We are like a man sitting on a tree branch facing the tree and trying to cut the branch, if we succeed we fail.

I see it everyday and ignore it but I really don't know why we intentionally miss-spell certain words like sex, Bleep, vagina, penis, breast, etc.
Someone should please enlighten me

Just overlook her. Women never stop wanting to be admired by men even after getting married. As much as she wants her husband to admire her always, she also want other men to drool over her.
The choices women make when it comes to beauty are informed by what men want; most men like fair- skinned ladies.
As for you, just see it that she is doing something that makes her happy, and of course you should be happy seeing her happy. At the evening of her life she will come to terms with sense, but I fear that by then she would be a carbon copy of wilie wilie.

I don't think that is possible, he will rather be masturbating which is more worse... It can leads urge for raping people

I can't vouch for anybody, but even if you think rev frs are not truly celibate, what about monks, celibacy is older than Christianity and do you think those men who adopt it as a permanent lifestyle are just deceiving themselves

Some people are like that and there's nothing wrong with being that way. You might be thinking he is losing out by not doing those things you mentioned but he is actually living the best of life. Debauchery is not something to be proud of and those who indulge in it will later realise how futile it is.
The more sensible you are, the more you tend to reduce or overlook womanising, clubbing, partying, smoking, alcohol, noise making, etc.
Moreso, you shouldn't be disturbed by how someone chooses to live his life, people are different, and everybody is living at a certain level of consciousness and experience.

It is in the nature of every Man to grow beard. It's totally absurd to attach decency to shaving off the beard that grows naturally. If what they mean by bushy beard is the ones that are not trimmed, then it's okay, but asking men to shave completely is senseless.

[quote author=Caaz post=136770272]You would see her every morning streaming Nsppd programm kabashing...

Some women sha

I tire o. Most women are living in a psychological world, no structured pattern of living. Those of them that carry church for head are the most difficult to be with.

How some men are moved by heavy backside baffles me. Well different strokes for different folks.
Follow your instinct.

I agree with you. But mine will start at 7.
]The best time is the age of 5, that's when the normal child is able to talk and take instructions[/quote]

How time flies

Patriotic

Friendship gone south

From Mississippi to the world

Seriously

Stay safe

I will invest

People go still buy

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