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TravelRe: Visa Overstay: US Threatens Nigerians With Deportation, Permanent Travel Ban by Thereedemer: 11:39am On Jul 18, 2025
cyberbro:
To each man his beliefs and confessions. Nigeria isn't hell to me and USA is far from being heaven.

Shalom.
So Nigeria is heaven and USA is hell then. Oga choose one no dey talk like seun and his bots
TravelRe: Visa Overstay: US Threatens Nigerians With Deportation, Permanent Travel Ban by Thereedemer: 11:17am On Jul 18, 2025
cyberbro:
The noise from the US government is just too much, it's sickening at this point! If you don't want anyone in your country, deport everyone, let's see what happens!

They keep mentioning visas and deportation as if USA is heaven! WTH! 😒
If Nigeria is hell then USA must be heaven

It's that simple.
Nairaland GeneralRe: My Battle With Hard Drugs, I Need Help !!! by Thereedemer: 7:42pm On Jul 16, 2025
illicit:
You need to detox first


Get lime and lemon

Slice it and add water, preferably cold

Make it your juice drink it 24/7

It will help deal with withdrawal syndrome
Sure withdrawal syndrome
HealthRe: What's The Worst Thing Someone Can Get Addicted To? by Thereedemer: 8:22am On Jul 16, 2025
Teenwolf:
I will pick being a gambler and alcohol addict at the same time over porn, atleast even if betting and alcohol drain money,your body and brain function will still be intact and performing well...Unlike masturbation that will damage your body and brain and drain your all nutrients and hormones to a point beyond repair if done excessively, 99% of the problem am facing are all caused by masturbation addiction
Badblood
RomanceRe: You Don't Owe Your Parents Anything by Thereedemer: 8:11am On Jul 16, 2025
Sucre6:
Op you dey yarn dust, continue saying it until it sticks, karma will always got your address, for me, I owe my parent every good damm thing in this world, they deserve it all, so does my future kids owes me, my parent spent their youth raising me and providing me all ever asked of.in my neighbor hood, me an my siblings attended the best and most expensive school, my parent aren't rich nor poor, just average but I am always seen as a rich kid in the neighborhood and everywhere, do you know why?

Because they made sure we lacked nothing, now my parent are retired and elderly, their strength can't carry them to do much as before, now I place them on monthly stipends and make sure they lacked nothing, I bought them health insurance and I am doing my best to give them the best, and so would my future kids,

if you say u owe your parent nothing, karma will smile at you when you are very old and struggling when you should be retired and resting with your kids abandoning you to suffer
how old are you
RomanceRe: You Don't Owe Your Parents Anything by Thereedemer: 7:43am On Jul 16, 2025
yemmit90:
I could see you are still a teenager boy who know next to nothing about real life situation. When you start having your own children, you will understand better.
person wey don clock 45.
His age pass seun character
HealthRe: What's The Worst Thing Someone Can Get Addicted To? by Thereedemer: 7:32pm On Jul 15, 2025
occfx:
They don't end up well. They are addicted to the routine. To me is like a drug. It doesn't add anything to there lives yet they keep doing it. May be one day it will change but it's another type of addiction.
Like my dad
Okay a quick one
Imagine my dad worked for 35 years
Was only able to save money
He no get mind invest, nothing just dey hold money use am chop , dey talk nonsense if you bring any deal or business to him (esp online like btc) infact any investment; he's quick to call it scam.
HealthRe: What's The Worst Thing Someone Can Get Addicted To? by Thereedemer: 7:27pm On Jul 15, 2025
Chubhie:
Then marry one of the Os and knock yourself out bruv?
Your brain is limited
Normally human brain is limited but we think we know all .
BusinessRe: Breaking News!! Opay Seize To Give Money!!! by Thereedemer: 7:05pm On Jul 15, 2025
DitariIzon:
I transferred 39,000 to a POS operator, they debited me but didn't credit her.
I have report the matter with phone on the Opay App.
It shows successful on my phone and showed failed on her machine.
Would Opay give me back the money?
Oga your money is safe if it's opay
The money has gone to her account , I'm guessing her bank is moniepoint. They would resolve it under a day 2 days max if u mail them

No panicking
ProgrammingRe: A Tech Solution For Kidnapping In Nigeria by Thereedemer: 2:01pm On Jul 15, 2025
andre4love:
Hello Sir, the best solution would have been a button to press at the slightest observation and the kidnapped teleports to his or her choice location. That means you set the device up before leaving the house. There are other details in store...

Human influence could affect the complete rescue.

If this solution is possible then that problem would be completely solved.
As if you can create tech to make someone teleport
SportsRe: Chelsea Vs PSG: FIFA Club World Cup Final At (3 - 0) On 13th July 2025 by Thereedemer: 2:55pm On Jul 14, 2025
Prechgold1180:
psg 5 Chelsea 1 and the 1 goal nah PK Chelsea go take score. This I have seen
So you won't lose your money , go wash your eyes my 2cent advise
FamilyRe: She Is Dark And I'm Dark But Our Son Is Fair How Come? by Thereedemer: 2:53pm On Jul 14, 2025
DitariIzon:
My mum is fair skinned, my wife dad is fair skinned, I and my wife we are black skinned and then we gave birth to a fair skinned son.
The son carry my shape of head and forehead, my shape of nose my shape of fingers , my shape of ear, and my kind of voice but he is fair skinned while I'm dark.



How is it possible?
What happen to DNA test oga
HealthRe: Help! My Cousin Is Addicted To Hard Drugs by Thereedemer: 1:17pm On Jul 14, 2025
shoodboi2:
All the other things he smokes (weed, colors, loud, etc.) are children beside that thing called ice. That ice aka meth is the problem.

It will make him soulless and aggressive. He will not eat, will be thin and famished, and dirty and unkempt. There's no way he could have hidden that such behavior for long.

His next phase is to start stealing. Sha hide your phone well, because he will steal absolutely anything: bulgalary proof, television, stabilizer, chargee, and even slippers just to fund the behavior.

You can help him by not giving him money and encouraging him to stop. People on ice have a very high self awareness, and are usually willing to stop. But the draw of the drug is just too powerful.

Just remember that you cannot help him if he is not ready to help himself.

He is the one to do most of the work by himself. Don't drag him to a rehab thinking you're helping him. You are not and he will return to the streets once he completes treatment, that's if he doesn't run away before then.

All you can do now is to encourage him to stop. If he says he is ready to stop and asks to be rehabilitated, then do that.

But if he doesn't, don't do it. Because you will only end up frustrated and will later ignore him and probably not listen to him when he's ready for treatment.

And once he's clean, he should stay away from the area he picked up the habit and the friends he has there. It is for his own good, else he will return to it.
You are very wrong tho you started well
Ice can never allow you to have self awareness
Note : self awareness is different from staying woke and reasoning mindless things.

Only rock button can cause self awareness effect
HealthRe: Help! My Cousin Is Addicted To Hard Drugs by Thereedemer: 11:37am On Jul 14, 2025
Leep:
It is with heavy heart that I write this.
I have a male cousin who is five years older than me. He is 32 years of age. Had lived with his parents and siblings outside the country before, and returned back to Nigeria about 10years ago. Born with a silver spoon but planlessness on the part of his parents sent them back to poverty after retirement. After retirement, the father passed on the next year.
This guy is addicted to ICE. I didn't know what ice was until I saw him taking it. I had heard a lot about it and I never expected to see my own family member getting involved in such. At first, he was hiding it from me, but at a time he couldn't. His closest friend already confided in me about it, so I was only just waiting to see for myself.
Aside taking ice, he smokes Weed, Colos, loud and cigarettes even even laughing gas.
It's painful to me because he's the first child and only son now, and has four younger sisters.
He has become almost completely irresponsible at his age. He doesn't have a rented apartment of his own, always squatting with people here and there. Always asking for money from friends and even me. You can give him your last card today, and the next day, he's making another demand on you for same money. If you give him a job to do today, the next week, he's out of the job. If this guy needs money from you, he will first text you, flash you, use his system(laptop) to msg you on WhatsApp. He will make sure he flashes and messages you until he gets same money from you. He will make sure he bombards you with lots of calls and messages.

He's so disorganized and unorganized. He's always running into trouble here and there. Either he's buying a stolen phone at a very cheap price and getting arrested later or he's been accused of theft and locked up in the police cell. So many similar cases. Today, he can't afford a smart phone. He uses a torchlight phone, he has changed the screen of the torchlight phone three times in two months.
His mum already sidelined him in the scheme of things going on in the family. The mum has written him off completely because the guy hasn't lived up to expectation. The mum isn't aware of another other drugs, she thinks her son only smokes just weed and cigar. But it is way beyond that.
Guys, how do I help this guy out of this? I'm bothered because I like him and want to the Best for him. Even if I report to the elders I'm our family, he wouldn't still stop. He's an adult, and how do you start monitoring and policing him?

I can't do this alone because he's really gone deep in this. He's always always Broke. He has lost the respect of his younger sisters and friends due to his incessant begging. Each time I see his call, my heart skips. Because I already know what is coming.
Again, he's someone who isn't transparent at all. Not straightforward too. Very cunning. If he has money today, you wouldn't know. For instance, if he has a thousand naira today and you only just have fifty naira on you, this guy would tell you he has nothing and would try to get the whole or fraction of that fifty naira from you. That's how bad it is.

Nlfpmod Seun
Is he a graduate or not
Na something de make am take hard drugs .
He has missed a step in life and thinks that's his end .
On another lens I'm thinking I'm d guy you just edit and phish the name and important details to avoid suspicion.

But na person future papa u cast for here Sha
FamilyRe: How Do I Deal With My Father by Thereedemer: 9:49pm On Jul 13, 2025
SimpleGuy001:
So people of God….

I am 25, left home and working in Lagos. However, I am getting complaints from my mum and siblings about my dad.

It’s not like I am not aware because I know the home I came out from. My dad womanizes a lot, I’ve known that since I was young. My immediate sis got just out of uni yr, the third is in uni and the last in sec school.

Getting complaints that he doesn’t take care of them enough in terms of dropping money. I am doing well for my age, earn 500k plus but the family issue is now draining me cause my mom and siblings now request money from me a lot. I’ve decided to set up a shop for my mom come this December maybe with about 700k or so. Hopefully set up my sis that just got out of uni so she can be good as I don’t want them to look outside.

Here is the issue, I have really tried to overlook his character and act like I don’t know what is going on but I am aware of everything cause my sis and mom tell me everything (which I know of cause prior to when I left home I know his character so they aren’t lying).

I am a man, and I tried to stay on the fence but it is getting to my neck. I have not been calling him at all purposely, he one time told me to borrow him money, I sent him 100k (I acted like I borrowed in my mind I won’t collect it)

Now I got to know he is following a married woman and even paying the woman’s child school fee, like WTF. How can a married man be following a married woman, neglecting his own family responsibilities cause he is busy sharing resources where not ought to. I have really tried to neglect this but it’s getting worse…. He curses my sisters at will, laying curses and what not (they called me and told me which like I said I know him well cause I came out of same home).

Now, I am thinking of calling him to order but I am just trying to do it out of respect. Cause to be honest, anything that will make me to call him or message him, that’s it. I’ll never take his call again or have anything to do with him. At most, I will send him allowances and that’s it. But I really don’t want to do that,,,,,,,, I am the only son and first born. My mom have tried and my siblings have endured too, they can’t be suffering cause of his philandering and non caring nature. I really am having a pity on him, cause the father children relationship is nothing to write about, these girls will grow, leave the house and won’t even look at him again and just care for my mom (that’s my fear), I just don’t want to give that vibe to them but I may just throw in the towel, damn the consequences and call him to order on phone, say my mind and whatever that want to happen should happen but I am really really trying not to do that. How can a 50+ yr old man be acting as such?

How do I handle this case
Leave your father deal with sapa first
RomanceRe: Any Cheap English Speaking Country That Easily Give Work Visa? by Thereedemer: 9:29pm On Jul 12, 2025
Sirchiboy:
Any cheap English speaking country that easily give work visa?
English in itself is it cheap ?

Ask yourself if you fit afford English b4 u afford the country.
RomanceRe: Ladies Eat So Much Because..? by Thereedemer: 8:39pm On Jul 12, 2025
Love800:
I thought it was men that do eat alot because of the too much heavy work they do. But later i realized that ladies are the main food eaters!

A lady mostly consume different varieties of food in one sitting. While a man just need food, he doesn't care whether its mix with sauce, salad or an addititonal different carb!
Try dey speak for yourself.
You and who no like food
FashionRe: How Much Do You Barb Your Hair. by Thereedemer: 4:07pm On Jul 12, 2025
bobonla:
I always spend 300 naira to get a cool hair cut hair cut and 100 naira for my barber to apply dye on my hair. (I have my own dye. He just mixed and apply). But if i don't want to apply dye, na 300 naira normally here in kaduna.
But i traveled to lagos last week and decided to barb my hair. After barbing i ask the barber how much, he told me 1k. Like 1,000 naira. Omo we almost had an argument cause i felt cheated.
I cannot be barbing my hair again every week in this lagos.
Despite i went with my own clipper. The guy no even on gen
Oga enter any ghetto like alaba rahgo or obalende cms under bridge na 3h u go barb am
CultureRe: Moment Ooni Of Ife Met His Long Lost Friend At An Event by Thereedemer: 3:53pm On Jul 12, 2025
Bigcowhorn:
Then never in your life don't go before a king as an ordinary man but as an equal

If you do more than 1,000 people will beat your head down till it touches your shoe
I get you were trying to be smart
But you shot yourself.

Read wetin u write e make sense
Or na ur English make an no make sense
RomanceRe: Poorman Proverb by Thereedemer: 7:28pm On Jul 11, 2025
Nnamdipapa:
Apart from No condition is permanent, which other poor man's proverb do you know.
Start from your family
The regular saying that charity begins at home.
I'm sure your papa think say u go b blessing but na reverse you b to your family papa nnamdi

I'm sure it's your family that initiated this saying
Children are blessing from God and some children brings blessing
Ozor
AgricultureRe: What Type Of Snake Is This Killed On My Farm This Morning? by Thereedemer: 1:58pm On Jul 11, 2025
Ebenezer2021:
so na every snake wey head no dey triangular is non venomous?
E go shock you one day
I just dey look everybody

A whole snake is non venomous
Shebi na u and God decide not to give it venom .
Allow the snake mistakenly kiss your vein na then u fit dey talk all this non venomous stuffs
SportsRe: How Do Owners Of Football Viewing Centres Survive In Pre-Season? by Thereedemer: 1:47pm On Jul 11, 2025
danvon:
They have other jobs, viewing centre is a side hustle not full time.

Even if it was full time, the real profit should be from selling beer and other stuffs during the match, not from just viewing fees.
As per na beer I cum viewing centre come watch na


Seun complete am sebi 40 akara
HealthRe: Why Do Prostate Issues Lead To Nighttime Urination? by Thereedemer: 12:37pm On Jul 11, 2025
Amandababy2:
Have you been waking up multiple times during the night, rushing to the bathroom, only to find yourself wondering why this keeps happening? If so, you’re not alone. Millions of men around the world, especially those above the age of 40, experience frequent nighttime urination due to prostate-related issues. But why does this happen? And more importantly, what can you do to get a good night’s sleep again? Let’s dive into this common problem and explore some practical solutions.

What Is Nighttime Urination, and Why Does It Matter?
Nighttime urination, also known as nocturia, is the frequent need to urinate at night, disrupting your sleep. While occasional trips to the bathroom can happen to anyone, persistent nocturia can significantly impact your quality of life. Poor sleep may lead to daytime fatigue, reduced productivity, irritability, and even long-term health problems like high blood pressure or depression.

For men over 40, one of the primary culprits behind nocturia is an enlarged prostate, a condition medically referred to as benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH). Let’s discuss how this happens.

How Does an Enlarged Prostate Cause Nighttime Urination?
The prostate is a small, walnut-shaped gland located just below the bladder. Its primary role is to produce seminal fluid, but as men age, the prostate often begins to enlarge. While this enlargement isn’t cancerous, it can cause several urinary issues, including:

Pressure on the Bladder: As the prostate grows, it can put pressure on the bladder, reducing its capacity to hold urine. This makes you feel like you need to empty your bladder more often – especially at night.

Bladder Irritation: An enlarged prostate can also irritate the bladder walls, leading to an increased sense of urgency.

Impaired Urinary Flow: BPH may cause incomplete emptying of the bladder, leaving residual urine behind. This means your bladder fills up faster, waking you up in the middle of the night.

How Can You Manage Prostate-Related Nighttime Urination?
The good news is that there are effective ways to address nocturia caused by prostate issues. Here are some practical tips:

Adjust Your Fluid Intake: Reduce your fluid consumption in the evening, especially drinks that irritate the bladder, such as caffeine or alcohol.

Empty Your Bladder Fully Before Bedtime: Take a moment to ensure your bladder is completely emptied before going to bed.

Watch Your Diet: Spicy foods, acidic fruits, and excessive salt can irritate the bladder. A balanced diet is key.

Consider Herbal or Medical Treatments: There are natural remedies and medications designed to manage BPH symptoms.

One particularly effective natural option for addressing urinary and prostate health is the Diuretic and Anti-inflammatory Pill. Formulated from natural plant ingredients, this pill is known to reduce inflammation, improve urinary flow, and alleviate discomfort associated with BPH and other urinary conditions. Many users of this pill have reported significant improvements in their urinary health without the side effects often associated with conventional medications.

When to See a Doctor?
While lifestyle changes and natural remedies are helpful, it’s crucial to seek medical attention if:

Your nighttime urination is becoming increasingly frequent.
You experience pain during urination or blood in your urine.
It feels like you can’t fully empty your bladder.
In such cases, a healthcare professional can conduct a detailed evaluation to rule out other concerns like urinary tract infections or prostate cancer, and recommend tailored treatments.

Final Thoughts
Nighttime urination can be incredibly frustrating, but understanding its link to prostate issues is the first step toward managing the problem. By making simple lifestyle changes and exploring effective treatments like the Diuretic and Anti-inflammatory Pill, you can significantly improve your quality of life and, most importantly, enjoy uninterrupted sleep.

Have you experienced frequent nighttime urination due to prostate issues? What remedies or treatments worked for you? Let’s discuss in the comments below – your input could help someone else who’s struggling!
Guess what I'm inside bus now and I wan piss , guess what again about 5 min i still piss b4 I enter bus . This stuff don tire me I no piss for night e pass 17 times ajeh
If I lie devil knows.
RomanceRe: About To Lose It. This Happened With My Wife And I Can't Stop Obsessing Over It. by Thereedemer: 12:30pm On Jul 11, 2025
suckprick:
How do people manage to go through all these lengthy fake stories sef. I no even complete the second paragraph. If you wan lie, try to make it short. Stop wasting our time on fabrications abeg.
But can you prove it's fake ?








Complete am yourself to 40 akara seun
SportsRe: Throwback Photo Of Ronaldo and Kanu Nwankwo by Thereedemer: 9:24am On Jul 11, 2025
Love800:
Ronaldo was a nightmare to defenders then!

Maldini and nesta(Italian defenders) always spoke about him on the pitch.

His pace was so devastating, that was why he was a beast at dribbling compared with messi.

Once messi leaves you with the ball, you can track him back but he will still dribble you again normally.
But when R9 leaves you with ball, you don't see him again!
Nothing anybody wan tell me


Messi na god of werey

Seun add the 40 akara yourself o

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