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This is a valid question considering the average earning potential of a Nigerian. Strangely so, 600k is at the same time "a lot of money" and "not enough money". Depends on the viewpoint really. The same question can be asked for much less than 600. The question should be rather individualised. How much are you earning? What do you need it for? Taste? Preference? I personally feel most of these items are overpriced. But if you have the money, why not? |
And why exactly will you say so?? Or better put "measure up" in what sense? zainabxel: |
There's actually nothing wrong with it. For fashion, cultural reasons, cos their men like it. A handful of reasons there are. But it would be really erroneous to attribute something Fetish or unnatural to it. If it will clear your mind, you can ask her appropriately. If she's into you, she'd tell you why she wears it. And if you're still not convinced and you want to try the craziest option, ask her to take it off and see how she reacts... |
Well, there are a few obvious things here. Sadly a lot more are oblivious. I think that perhaps at this junction, he is beginning to consider you as a marriage option, I can't say he has affections and the rest, but maybe he does and he's trying to see whether you still see him like you did years back.it could be that he understands he has an upper hand and is making uneconomic drama, which of course like someone's earlier mentioned will vanish as soon as s he perceives competition. I'd however recommend patience and a little distance, pretend-apathy perhaps but not a total shutdown. He really seems to be a good guy and you really seem to like him. During this "patience period", evaluate carefully your options (if you have any). And well, if you are still hell bent on shutting down the relationship, confront him with a reverse marriage proposal. That would either end it or take you guys off... |
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