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PLS I NEED URGENT ADVISE AND SOLUTION!

Each time our marriage breaks, my business gets stuck and all manners of evils happen to me at the same time.

We did a couple of business together before she suddenly became attractive to me one day when I saw her. I wooed her and we dated for just 2 months and got married the third month.

Few weeks into the marriage I discovered she had a traveling bag full of celestial materials like oils, crosses, perfumes, candles, to mention but a few. When I confronted her, her brother called and told me not to be angry that they are celestial members, whereas she told me she is a Roman Catholic. This was the beginning of discoveries.

Later on, I realised she lied to me about her parents, health condition, age and almost everything else.

She is a lawyer. She hates everyone around her, doesn't forgive and she has no friend.

When I'm sleeping, she search my phone, pockets and bags.

One night, she was watching a movie on her phone and she slept off, so as I picked it, I saw her chat with her male lawyer friend. I realised that everything we discuss at home, she chats it with the guy and also told the guy to prepare a prenuptial agreement for her, that would State that at the end of our marriage, everything we bought together would be hers. So, the lawyer asked her how she was going to get me to sign the agreement, and she said she was going to get me to sign it without knowing it. And a lot more.

She began to accuse me of women, and infidelity.

Fast forward, there were so many problems that I had to send her away and immediately after that, everything was upside down for me: my business was stuck, I was duped of a huge amount of money. I had an accident and I couldn't walk. Everything was in
jeopardy.

We finally came back together and her character and attitude, disrespect for me, my family and friends etc, became times three. It got to a point that I was almost running mad. It became totally unbearable and I had to finally send her away. But before then, I calculated everything she has ever contributed financially to my life and I refunded her. Then I told her it can't work that I cannot continue. that she should leave. And that happened about 4 months ago. From the moment I gave her that money, everything becomes stuck. I either have a client who would agree to do business but after then, he or she would never call again or take my calls. But if he or she takes my call and is ready to pay, minutes before they make payment someone else would make the payment. I am into real estate. This has been the case for the past 4 months. The truth is that she doesn't eat catfish and sometimes make statements like can you come home I want to pray for you so that your business will work come and let me pray for you.

Another problem is that her younger brother is like a god that sits for her. She reports everything that happened in our marriage to him. He was the commander and decision maker of everything. The one who sent her perfumes and oils once a little thing happens.

I have prayed and prayed but still my business no longer works at all. It's just disappointment now.

I have requested for my Downy and it's been refunded.

Pls help.

The landlord does not live around and he handed over the property to a lawyer to manage. Unknown to the landlord, the barrister wasn't even coming around except to call tenants on phone to ask for rent. So, I noticed all of this when it was later handed over to me. I even had to write to merge two accounts and presently, there are three accounts. The chaotic one right now is owing 400k plus.
The information available before me now is that the marketer in charge of the area was the one advising them to open new accounts, all for her to make more money. As it is, if the month's estimated bill going round is 36k, the house gets 36k into three.
The same marketer is telling me that I must pay the outstanding bill now or every other account will not be connected.
I am planning to petition her because, she used come to the house for bill collection, drink with the tenant and accept whatever amount he offers; they are friends. This was how the bill got accumulated.
* Moreover, the bill is in the tenant's name and the landlord was not informed before they opened the account.

Yes. They run separate connections from the pole

As as a realtor, I manage a property of about 12 flats: 5 units of one bedroom flats and 7 units of selfcontains. The house is not metered and the landlord created a single account on his name that they were being billed on. After a few years, about three different tenants went to AEDC to open their own accounts in their names. According to them, they do not want to pay electricity bill with other tenants. In the process, they accumulated a lot of debt on their bills and later moved out one after another. AEDC is marketers who opened these accounts for them are now holding the landlord responsible to pay the accumulated bills.
Now, the question is: is AEDC supposed to open different accounts for tenants without the landlord's consent? Your advice pls[color=#006600][/color]