Oga, sex is more spiritual than physical, ur body is the temple of God where the Holy Spirit dwells.

Bible is the manual for life, if u join ur body to an harlot, all she has accumulated and received from other sex partners( like badluck etc) will be transferred to u automatically.

The solution is within u, u hv identify the problem, accept Jesus Christ today as ur personal savior, go on deliverance for He will set u free BUT never go back on ur vomit.

Some carnal minds will come here telling u it is ur mind, Hell NO, don't listen to such crap. God created u and knows what is good for u but we always allow our eyes to deceive thereby leading to sin and the consequences are always tough.

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

Bros, take it to the Lord in prayers, prayer changes things. God brought marriage, u must call Him to help you at this time. When you pray, call your wife's name and decree peace upon her body, soul and spirit.

I am big in size( not the orobocious type) and my down below is okay, I don't like slim ladies.
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