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RomanceRe: Is My Ex Over Me? Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by Tiemo(op): 1:11am On Oct 07, 2013
When you are in love with your Boyfriend, the man you always dreamed about, sometimes it's hard to let him go and move on.

People who are deeply in love, in a healthy relationship see things in a different perspective from those who are in an unhealthy relationship (that has gone stale or about to breakup). Have you at any time been in a relationship wherein you've known your boyfriend to be a very good person, possibly a great person, although you feel like something else is getting in the way of everything being perfect with him?

If that describes you, don't give up hope, because many lovers experience the same feelings.

Fact; more than 50% of lovers involved in a breakup relationship actually desire to have their ex back again.

How can I get my ex back?

Many have asked this question; women, men, teenage girls and boys who have freshly broken up with their respective partner. The first thing i have to say to them is "why do you want them back?"

My response may seem cold to an anxious plea for help, but lets be honest, a problem developed in the relationship which got worse and eventually led to you both going your separate ways.

Relationships end as a result of various reasons; A cheating partner, people fall out of love, A violent partner, alcohol, drugs, bad habits, lack of commitment, communication problems etc. I could fill this page with reasons for breaking up explaining in detail, but space won't let me.

Talking of a cheating partner: Just because you or your partner cheated with another, does not have to mean the end of your relationship, but it will take a while before your relationship gets back on track.

Talking of Violence in a relationship: Violence in any relationship is wrong, why would anyone want to get back with someone who beats them, if you are in a violent relationship get out now, i assure that all of his promises to change are false

Speaking of Communication problems: To get back with your ex, you first have to confront the Communication problem you had in your relationship, you must be willing and able to give a little and obviously change some of the things about yourself that became part of the overall problem, patience and an understanding on the desires, needs of you and your partner will all help you on the right track, talking to your partner and listening to what they have to say is important as well.

Mistakes happen in relationships, you can't blame yourself for it, on the other hand "How much effort have you applied to get reconciled with your ex?"

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RomanceRe: Is My Ex Over Me? Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by Tiemo(op): 1:10am On Oct 07, 2013
Psychological Tips to Get My Ex Boyfriend Back - Get Your Ex Back

For a long time, even centuries relationships between males and females have been examined by relationship experts and psychologists to understand actual issues in the relationship and profer solutions from there. Surely relationships is a natural phenomenon, we cannot do without it, everyone enters a relationship every now and then accompanied with break-ups and make-ups. Yet a main issue in a relationship is when couples get separated, which mostly goes together with a heart break. Ex girlfriend does not want is to happen, but ex boyfriend does.

Analysis by psychologists on getting couples back together had been made providing psychological methods to get an ex back. A well known issue shows that couples break up because they develop lack of interest for one or the other. Now, how do they get back together? Also the analysis have shown that the longer the time couples spend separated, they are most likely they will never get back together as soul mates again.

Did this happened to you that your boyfriend became your ex boyfriend or just a friend? Do you miss him and do not know what to do? The break-up may or may not be your fault, but you want to get back together and do not want to spend anymore lonely days by yourself. Whenever you think about your ex boyfriend and you wish the break-up never happened it sure hurts. I want you to be assured that you will get back your ex as soon as you begin to apply these proven psychological tricks.

Do not forget that you have to stay on track and keep focus on doing things you need to do to help you get your ex boyfriend back.

First you are going to start by finding out the information (psychological methods) which you will apply and will be extremely useful to get your ex boyfriend back. These psychological methods will teach and show you how to act and react in situations where it is impossible to win back the love of your ex; you will succeed and come out on top the game.

Getting your Ex requires effort on your side. Sometimes the problem why we are not able to get our ex back actually lie within us.

Shortly I will tell you a quick story about my friend Kelly. Kelly had trouble with a lot of men nearly all the time, for some reasons her relationships ended in a break-up. I mean that men left Kelly all the time, for some reason. Every people ever involved in a relationship failure have their respective reasons that led to the break-up and so is Kelly. Kelly isn't ugly looking, as a matter of fact she is a pretty lady with admirers everywhere. She is very attractive woman, Kelly started to believe that she must have been bewitched with a spell. Whenever Kelly dated a man, he would leave her, but she did not respond by seeking relationship advice on it. Kelly was always in search for a new love mate. The more Kelly got hooked up with a guy, the more it happened with her - another break-up. Then she found a book which was referred to her by her friend on how to get an ex boyfriend back titled "Magic of making Up" By Matt Huston (a prolific relationship expert) . Kelly's problem was not solved until till she read the book, understood what was in it and applied the steps to getting an ex back and also how to keep him in love.

The information(psychological methods) on getting an ex boyfriend back is incredible, because Kelly got her guy back and kept him for good. Kelly's problem was not in guys that Kelly was dating, the problem was in Kelly because she didn't go for knowledge that would help her get her ex back. The action and reaction methods in the book thought Kelly to get her ex boyfriend back and also not to make the same mistakes she was making earlier on.

Do not be Kelly or anything like her "before". Remember that the longer the time couples spend separated, they are most likely they will never get back together as soul mates again.

At this point in time you could get your life under control and get your ex back. You could get your ex boyfriend back, as well as help out your girlfriends get their ex boyfriend back by giving them pointers about their rlationships from the book, just like I'm doing. As you help your girlfriends by giving them advice from the book, you will be glad you did.

First of all your ex boyfriend will beg and plead to get back to you and never leave you again, and Secondly, your girlfriends will surely be relieved and thankful to you for your suggestions from the book.

All you have to do is to get the psychological tricks, learn them and use them to get your ex boyfriend back. Learn to push what Matt Huston calls "psychological hot-buttons" to gain psychological control over your ex boyfriend. He will literally beg you to come back.

If this is the man for you, don't give up. There are proven methods to make him love you like never before, visit this link to get them; http://helponhowtogetmyexback.com/how-to-get-your-ex-boyfriend-back-make-my-ex-boyfriend-like-me-again.html

RomanceRe: Is My Ex Over Me? Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by Tiemo(op): 1:09am On Oct 07, 2013
Psychological Tricks to Get An Ex Boyfriend or Girlfriend Back - Tips To Get Your Ex Back

Another suggestion How do I make my ex boyfriend be my friend again?

This recurrent question is asked repeatedly by many. Making a successful and promising contact with your Ex is the first aspect of getting back your ex and it's also a great step on the road to reverse the breakup. However, it's one of the controversial steps in the whole process of reconciling with your Ex. If you make several unprofessional efforts to contact your Ex, you could find out that you unconsciously push off your ex boyfriend/girlfriend further away from you. On the other hand, if you delay too long in contacting your Ex, he/she could begin dating someone new already. So this has to do with the right timing and knowing exactly how to go about striking a promising contact.

I already mentioned that Getting your Ex to make contact with you is a great step on the road to reverse the breakup. This is because the lines of communication between you and your Ex will have to be re-opened in order to settle the dispute. However one more thing you must ensure before trying to reestablish contact with your Ex is to give your Ex some space (which I believe has occurred already); disappear for a while and break all contacts. This will make your Ex miss you back so badly, I'll explain better.

Yea right - You'll only begin getting positive result in reconciling with your Ex as you totally break communication for sometime long enough for him/her to miss you. From the onset of the breakup, it's advisable to leave your Ex alone. By so doing you are giving him/her some time to reminisce about and miss you. When your ex breaks up with you, the first thing he/she wants is a little space (usually to enable both parties get over the heat of the conflict) - and there is nothing wrong with that. I know a lot of folks are not willing to give that breathing space, probably they think that they can quickly get back with their Ex by trying several ways to contact their Ex without seeking proper advice and counsel. Well, what do you expect? This indirectly halts their chances of getting back together.

If you have been bombarding your Ex with incessant calls, text or whatever means, you may as well be pushing him/her to the edge. If you are guilty of this act, you might have previously done things like always calling your Ex incessantly, sending or dropping him/her notes or still leaving him flowers without. You have probably made calls, sent emails, text messages... doing everything you thought was important to make your Ex know that you still need and love him/her. Truly, despite the fact that greater part of your approach was for your own benefit: you did it because you desperately want him/her back. Perhaps you in fact did not consider your Ex' feelings or needs at all, moreover you were overwhelmed with the desperate need to get reconciled to your Ex.

Possibly, you are feeling confused thinking and wondering "Can I ever get reconciled with my Ex to a loving relationship? Why is my Ex not responding? He hasn't called me yet?" Friends, the answer is easy: it is all because your Ex currently does not miss you. I tell you, if you leave your Ex alone for a while without contacting him/her and has a few weeks to juggle around with the break up, he will usually realize very soon that he need you so much more than he thought he did (it's a usual occurrence). Your Ex will find himself/herself in a panic mode if he/she doesn't see or hear from you. He/she will begin to ponder whether you have moved on without him/her. Your Ex will begin to think that you have gotten over the dilemma of the break up? They keep thinking; Have you found another lover? All of these thoughts will turn up in the mind of your Ex, making him anxious to know what exactly you are doing at the moment. Now, coupled with the fact that he hasn't spoken to you for a long time, this is where your Ex will develop desire to call you.

"Are there other ways of communicating with my Ex lover? What should I do to make my Ex make contact with me?"

There are a lot of potentially effective methods you can put into operation to compel your Ex to reestablish contact once more. Some of the simplest and popular ideas are listed below:

● The ‘I Found something that belongs to you' Call – Find something that belongs to your Ex that he forgot or left at your house then give him/her a call pretending as though you intend to return it (or have him pick them up from your place). Remember to do it nicely. Moreover to get your Ex to call back, you can make the call at a time, you know he will be absent from home and drop a message. If you've stayed away from contacting your Ex for some time, I bet he/she is already consumed with hunger to speak with you again, thus guaranteeing a callback.

● The ‘How's Family Doing?' Call - If you were close to your Ex' family, asking about their family members is another way to reestablish contact with your Ex. Asking about the well being of their family members shows your caring personality and more importantly opens the door to reestablish contact with your Ex. This technique works excellently especially in a condition where your Ex has relatives who is ill or admitted in the hospital, about to undertake surgery, a sibling who is about to begin college or a special event concerning any member of his/her family... you can make use of special occasions as a means to reestablish contact. An example is this; make a phone call asking "Hey, how has your dad been doing?" Don't be afraid that your Ex will suspect that you have hidden intentions. Your Ex won't suspect because it's been long since you last made contact, rather he/she will think you have a caring heart.

* Calling to Congratulate - Another powerful technique to get your Ex to make contact: call to congratulate him on something like an achievement, progress made, new development e.t.c. You could congratulate your Ex on his/her birthday, a promotion at work, an award anything worth congratulating. You've got a good excuse to call and wish him/her the best. Also, doing it when he is absent from home by leaving a message on the answering machine will get your ex to call you back, just like you want it.

Other potentially effective techniques are available that you can apply to help you get reconciled to your Ex. Furthermore, recognizing exactly what to do and say when he calls is more necessary. That's what you need to find out and know. When you successfully reestablish contact with your Ex, you and I know that it doesn't stop there. You still have to continue with the reconciliation process if you want your Ex to fall in love with you again.

Obviously, you require a step by step method of reconciliation. As you apply these secrets I have showed you today also you need to learn what to do to get back into a loving relationship with your Ex. There is so much you have to learn, as a matter of fact, reconciling into a healthy relationship is difficult than just getting you Ex to contact you. The time when he finally does call, make sure you are equipped with right information on what to do or say and exactly how to deal with the conversation are two important aspect of getting back your ex boyfriend into a healthy relationship with your lover.

You can check on this website at the resources box if you need right information on what to do or say and exactly how to deal with the reconciliation process after you have successfully made new contact with your Ex.

If this is the man or woman you love, don't give up. There are effective ways to make him/her fall in love with you again like never before. You can Click Here to visit a site that will help you; http://helponhowtogetmyexback.com/what-to-do-say-text-write-and-how-to-get-my-your-ex-boyfriend-or-girlfriend-back-in-love-with-you.html

RomanceRe: How Do You Prove You Love Your Partner? by Tiemo(m): 6:11pm On Sep 29, 2012
All you've got to do is use conversations. Conversations are the best way to win the heart of a girl or woman. More info on this page: http://romantichint..com/p/how-to-win-heart-of-girl-make-her-fall.html
Dating And Meet-up ZoneHow Can I Get My Ex Back? I Want My Ex Back In One Week! by Tiemo(op):
How Can I Get My Ex Back? I Want My Ex Back In One Week!

When you are in love with your Boyfriend, the man you always dreamed about, sometimes it's hard to let him go and move on.
People who are deeply in love, in a healthy relationship see things in a different perspective from those who are in an unhealthy relationship (that has gone stale or about to breakup). Have you at any time been in a relationship wherein you've known your boyfriend to be a very good person, possibly a great person, although you feel like something else is getting in the way of everything being perfect with him?
If that describes you, don't give up hope, because many lovers experience the same feelings.

Fact; more than 80 percent of lovers involved in a breakup relationship actually desire to have their ex back again.

You will be shocked after you watch this video to the end to see it's possible to get your ex back into your life:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xOQG4JFdQmk
For the complete guide visit this blog: www.BreakupCare.com

How can I get my ex back?
Many have asked this question; women, men, teenage girls and boys who have freshly broken up with their respective partner. The first thing i have to say to them is "why do you want them back?"
My response may seem cold to an anxious plea for help, but lets be honest, a problem developed in the relationship which got worse and eventually led to you both going your separate ways.

Relationships end as a result of various reasons; A cheating partner, people fall out of love, A violent partner, alcohol, drugs, bad habits, lack of commitment, communication problems etc. I could fill this page with reasons for breaking up explaining in detail, but space won't let me.
Talking of a cheating partner: Just because you or your partner cheated with another, does not have to mean the end of your relationship, but it will take a while before your relationship gets back on track.

Talking of Violence in a relationship: Violence in any relationship is wrong, why would anyone want to get back with someone who beats them, if you are in a violent relationship get out now, i assure that all of his promises to change are false
Speaking of Communication problems: To get back with your ex, you first have to confront the Communication problem you had in your relationship, you must be willing and able to give a little and obviously change some of the things about yourself that became part of the overall problem, patience and an understanding on the desires, needs of you and your partner will all help you on the right track, talking to your partner and listening to what they have to say is important as well.
Mistakes happen in relationships, you can't blame yourself for it, on the other hand "How much effort have you applied to get reconciled with your ex?"
For those of you wanting to get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend to want you back, click the link below to start fixing your relationship: http://www.BreakupCare.com
Dating And Meet-up ZoneHow To Make My Ex Love Me Again by Tiemo(op):
How To Make My Ex Love Me Again

 If you broke up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, you may be wondering, how to get your ex to fall back in love with you? My advice; Get your ex back with dignity and self-esteem.    

You will be shocked after you watch this video to the end to see it's possible to get your ex back into your life:

https://www.affordabledeals.ng/2022/03/09/ex-back/

For the complete guide visit this blog: www.BreakupCare.com
First off, remember to be nice.
 You might think that goes without saying, but some people think nagging is the best way to get what they want. It's not. Any nagging, complaining or otherwise acting unpleasant will just remind him of things he wants to get away from. If you make things uncomfortable every time you see him, he'll only want to see you less and less.

 If you're thinking "I want to get my ex boyfriend/girlfriend to love me again," then the last thing you want to do is drive him/her farther away. Be as pleasant as you can whenever you're around him/her, unless the only way you can manage it is to absolutely fake it.
 If you really want to get your ex back it is important that you control your emotions, at least in public. To understand why you must control your emotions think back to when you met your ex initially. Certainly, you were not walking around with red, teary eyes and the attitude of an emotional victim  or depressed.

 To get your ex to fall back in love with you, first you need to be the person he fell in love with initially, not an emotional wreck that needs attention.
 He/she should see you having a positive countenance and you should appear as a very high maintenance person. This will make you attractive again.
 While you were together he/she has, for sure, seen both sides of your personality, the good and bad sides. Now, during your first time meeting him/her, he/she saw a part of you that was charming and irresistibly attractive. To get him/her back, be that attractive person. Be the happy, in control, loving person he fell in love with, let your presence lighten up everyone around you.

 If you'll take my hand and listen to my advice, I'll show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms. Download this eBook by Clicking on the link; https://www.affordabledeals.ng/2022/03/09/ex-back/

RomanceWhat To Do To Get Back My Ex Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by Tiemo(op):
What To Do To Get Back My Ex Boyfriend or Girlfriend?

Now let's begin; you are having a breakup with your spouse or boyfriend, and you are eager to get him back to loving you like he used to do. Well, in trying to get back your ex you may act in a way that reveals your anxiety and desperation, that's the last thing you need right now because you may act in a way that will make him feel you are a pain in the neck.

You will be shocked after you watch this video to the end to see it's possible to get your ex back into your life:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0a2lni6aMzU

Get serious about getting your Ex back by not dialing his phone number, mailing or any form of communication for a brief moment. As you elude from contacting your spouse, he will begin to miss you rather than think of you as one who is intruding into his feelings. He sure will begin to think of you more positive and will definitely miss your loving presence.
Get on with your life, put a smile on your face and act as though nothing happened, this will keep your wondering about you. He begins to remember how he met you, the love you showed to him and I promise you he will remember every little detail of you and hunger to be with his love, he will keep the line of communication open.

Next: Breaking the silence
Dear friends this is only an initial step, next you have to break the silence in a unique and professional manner, but you have to be careful not to do it in an intrusive way. There are words that are compelling when used in an effective way; these words and principle will put your Ex in an affirmative light towards you. If you learn these words and principles the question; What Can I Do to Get Back My Ex Boyfriend will be a thing of the past.
When you have a health problem, who do you meet? A doctor.
What about when you had an electrical problem with your appliance, who fixed it up? An Electrician?
Enough of that, now you have a relationship problem, who do you need to meet?

A lawyer, an Accountant or Barrack Obama? No, No, No.
I expect you to meet a Cognitive psychologist and discover all the secrets to Getting Your Ex Back.

Mistakes happen all the time; it's surprising how only a little mistake could cause such separation from our spouse. Let's identify the steps to get your ex boyfriend back and keep him. What you should do right now can be found at this helpful site: http://www.breakupcare.com

You did the soul-searching, tried the “time apart” thing, dated some other lackluster women… and have finally come to the realization that things ain’t gonna get any better than this. You made a huge mistake when you let her go. And now, you want her back.

It’s not necessarily too late to rekindle the love with your ex, but don’t get rash and make any mediocre moves. You want to do this right—and reengage with caution. So here,10 tips on how to approach her for Round Two.

Should I Try To Get My Ex Back?>>>

1. Reconnect with a text. Sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder—but other times, it causes that heart to seek out another man. So, don’t call first. “Try sending a sweet text, not one that will make her think you’re looking for a booty call,” says dating expert Julie Spira. “Think about something that you shared together that might warm her heart.” Example: Was listening to the radio and heard that Coldplay song. Brought back memories of the concert together. Hope you’re doing great? If she responds, she may be open to rekindling the spark.

2. Take it slow. You romanced her once already, but that doesn’t mean you get to go from zero to 60 without even getting behind the wheel. So propose getting together—not moving in together. Says Seattle-resident Adria, who took her ex back after a nasty breakup: “He apologized out of the blue after three months of no contact and was very respectful of me. He wasn't pushy about getting back together, which would have been a red flag in my eyes.”

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3. Call her, maybe. So far, so good? Great. Suggest a casual date by phone. No texts. No emails. Let her hear your voice and register some sincere effort on your part. “See if she’d like to join you at an art gallery opening, see a movie, or a hike on a sunny day,” says Spira. “It will give you the chance to get together in a relaxed environment, without too much pressure.” But remember, accepting your invite is just that—and not a sure sign she wants to get back together. If she turns you down, give her space. “Don’t beg, cry, or stalk her,” Spira says. “If it’s meant to be, she’ll come around on her own time-table.”

5 Ways To Keep Your Relationship Alive>>>

4. Tell her you miss her. If she accepts your date invite, ease in. Ask what she’s been up to, how work is going, if her dog is still peeing on the couch—whatever. Then, say you want her back. Vulnerability will up your odds of a second chance; just don’t rip the Band-Aids off every old wound. “Open your heart and see how she reacts,” Spira says. “You don’t need to talk about everything that went wrong in the relationship. She knows, you know—keep the conversation light.”

5. Own up. If she seems open, and you want to step up for another at-bat, acknowledge your shortcomings. “If you did something hurtful, make a real apology,” Frances says. “It might be wise to see a therapist to clarify what you did and why, and how best to sort of the problem.” Then, no matter what she did, you need to take responsibility for you—and change. If you weren’t willing to extend an effort to get to know her friends before, tell her you’d be game for drinks as a group. (Yeah, that’s right. Swallow your pride.)

6. Avoid rehashing the past. After you’ve acknowledged the problem, look ahead. “Don’t go down memory lane and hash out all the things you thought were wrong with the relationship,” Spira says. Focus on the positive qualities that brought you together in the first place, like that same crazy sense of humor, or the way your laid-back personality complements her type-A tendencies.

7. Use the friend group. While you want a new beginning, you should still tap back into those old loving feelings. And an easy way to recreate happy times is to meet up in a safe, familiar environment—like an outing with your mutual friend group. Just make sure you can easily break off from the pack to talk. Alisha, from San Antonio, TX, had an ex take that approach—and it worked. “We were telling stories, joking and laughing together. It was comfortable, fun. Then my ex pulled me aside and asked me if we could give things another try. We talked a lot about our futures, and I felt things could really work.”

Is There a Safe Way To Escape The Friend Zone?>>>

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8. Don’t compare notes. Look, forget that relationship-station hiatus even existed. You both up and went on with your lives while you were apart—but that doesn’t mean you need to talk about what went down. “She doesn’t need to hear about the bad dates you went on,” says Spira,“ or about your conquests either.” Would you want to hear about the guys who took your place? Didn’t think so.

9. Tap your romantic side. While chivalrous acts aren’t the most important thing, they are important. Chocolates, cards and flowers (sent to her office so all her co-workers can get green with envy) are time-honored clichés for a reason: they kind of work. But here’s how to make it a legit, not cheesy, gesture. “Write a love letter,” says Frances. “Tell her why you love her and what it is about her that makes her completely special. It’s OK to rip off lyrics or poetry. Send the letter with flowers. Good, old-fashioned courtship works.”

Do Women Really Want Chivalry?>>>

10. Buy a ring. Relax. This advice isn’t for everyone, obviously. But if you’re absolutely positive about this girl, the ultimate bold move has had unparalleled success, says Frances. “Most of the time, the split is about commitment issues, so you’ve got to be coming back with terms she’ll be happy with.” And even if you’re not ready for the ring? You can learn something here: You have got to step it up and have a plan for the relationship. Period. No woman will rekindle a romance that’s not moving her forward…at least a little bit.
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RomanceIs My Ex Over Me? Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by Tiemo(op):
Is My Ex Over Me? Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back; A lot of relationships break up and come to an end, not because the offense that led to the breakup was unpardonable or unforgivable. But, relationships come to a dead end simply because you don't know exactly what to do to get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back in love with you. How to make my ex want me back;

Many times when you look into the internet in search for information on what to do to get an ex back into a relationship, you often come across ideas that are either misleading, incapable or insufficient from folks online who have posted such articles.

If this is the man or woman for you, don't give up. There are proven methods to make him love you like never before. This website has answers for you: https://www.affordabledeals.ng/2022/03/09/ex-back/

A lot of these ideas if applied will make your ex pull further and further away from you. Now, i know you don't want that to happen.

Brad Browning is a relationship experts known in the USA who have been successful in helping men and women all over the world return back into a relationship with their exes. I'll provide a link to one of these experts who have had tremendous success in reconciling relationships. If you are ready to take huge steps to getting your ex back I suggest you get the solution from one of these experts.

At the subsequent part of this write-up, I posted information from my little personal knowledge on some basic things that might be of help in relating to your ex. But if you want assurance on the best strategies to get your ex back I suggest you visit the link I provided above.

How to get my ex back; What if you had been able to attract your ex again and build a new relationship with him or her, instead of letting them go forever. What if, you had taken this opportunity that’s in front of you; an opportunity to receive forgiveness for anything you feel you may have done wrong. Another chance to make your ex fall in love with you again. You feel it within yourself that if your ex should give you another chance, you will never let go again. Surely, you wouldn’t throw an opportunity away like this, to get your ex to love you again.

How to get your ex back – More than 90% of everyone who has been ever in a relationship has experienced a breakup at least once. If this is your first breakup experience, my heart goes to you. If you do whatever it takes, I believe you will get your ex back just like many others were successful. I once got my ex back, so I’m rooting for you. Just in a moment I will show you the exact same strategies and where I got all the information I used in getting my ex back. But, I want you to be aware of certain reality that will prepare your mind before you start using any of the strategies.

1. Be Determined And Courageous
Just like I mentioned earlier “More than 90% of everyone who was ever in a relationship has experienced a breakup at least once”, what if you aren’t one of those that chicken out easily? You want your ex back in love with you. And you are searching for the right words to say to your ex, wanting to know the right steps to take and exactly what to do to win him or her back even if he or she has a new found boyfriend or girlfriend. Yes, I don’t want you ignorant of the fact that your ex may already be dating another lover. That’s exactly what happened to me. That’s why I’m taking my time to encourage you, so you wouldn’t be discouraged along as you make move to getting your ex back.

2. Avoid the Temptation
Take no interest in side attractions or momentarily satisfaction. As you try to get your ex back you might be tempted to have sex with him or her. I have seen this happen several times – particularly when your ex says he or she can accept to be a friend for the moment (friends with benefits) or especially when you get to the point where you have established communication with your ex – which you will also learn to do at the program organized by the relationship coach that helped me when I had breakup issues. I’m just trying to prepare your mind so you wouldn’t end up making the same mistakes many ladies make that could blow-up your chances of getting back together. Remember that your aim is to get your ex back in love with you, back into your home if you were married, back into commitment (because no relationship is real without commitment), the aim is to establish him or her as your soul mate again.

3. Never Try To Make Your Ex Jealous
Decide – You’re not going to Flirt with guys your Ex knows, hoping that he or she will get jealous when they hear about it. Trying to make your ex jealous with an aim to make him or her desire you is one of the worst moves or action you can take. Lots of ladies tell me they already make this mistake in about 2 months after break up. By making them jealous you are actually showing them that you have moved on and he or she should do the same.

Right now, I am about to show you how to contact your ex and establish communication with him or her. If your ex has been very stubborn and has been unwilling to respond positively or have any form of communication with you, you need to take the steps listed at a few paragraphs below with the title; “What To Do When Your Ex Will Not Communicate”.



4. Demonstrate Humility
Your change starts here, I mean change of your attitude. If the breakup was instigated by a conflict, most probably you always viewed things and spoke from your own perspective. It’s time to view things from your ex’s point of view. It’s time to agree with your ex. This is where you begin to agree with your ex concerning everything he or she previously said about you. Doubtless, it’s time to send your ex a message conveying the understanding that you agree to see things from his or her own point of view. Let your ex know that you trust in his or her wisdom, that you trust them, that you belief in their future, that you belief he or she is going to have a great future. They your ex what you value in their personality.

5. Time to Agree
Agreement is the first quality of humility. When you agree with someone, you’re not arguing with that person. Let the other person have his or her way first. Agree now, then discuss or negotiate later. It’s a patient way of avoiding conflict but settling the issue at hand at a later and favorable time.

The first thing you should say to your ex is “words of agreement”. Agree with your ex concerning every issue or conflict you’ve ever had. Right about now, you might be all worried and scared that you may never be able to get him or her back to you. Although, the reality is that couples break up and later get back together almost always time after they have been able to set the course right. Each day all over the world lovers decide to get back together even if one partner cheated or really screwed up. We see it all over the media these days, amongst Hollywood Celebrities, I mean all over. This is what I call receiving instant forgiveness for your wrongs plus it’s a relevant part of love that existed in a relationship. Also, there should be no doubt that your ex still has some element of love for you. However, you will have to act maturely and speak wisely in order for an ex to forgive you for the wrongs you do or for cheating.

6. Act Maturely And Speak With Wisdom

A little reality – Anyone who has been wronged by a lover has the tendency to be offended. But, if he or she is wise and mature, he or she would realize that he or she needs to forgive you when you come up with a reasonable plea. Listen to this – Nobody Ever Screws Up, Right? – Reminiscence back and attempt to remember if your ex ever slip-up or did something that actually offended you. Has he or she ever been on the guilty side of this equation? Did he or she ever slip-up and say things that really upset you? You can remember instances if you reminisce more, when your ex got you offended, he or she asked for your forgiveness and you forgave him or her. The relationship went on and you began to trust him or her again, love him or her again and feel those loving thoughts for him or her again in spite of what he or she put you through. Both of you totally forgot about the issue, got over it, stopped focusing on what took place and you simply loved each other for better.

Tell him or her you wake up every morning remembering the mistakes you did that led to the breakup, that you are sorry you hurt him or her, that you can’t believe you actually did that to someone (him or her) whom you loved so much. Tell him or her you love him or her so much that’s why you can never forget your wrong mistakes. Tell him or her that he or she’s forgiving you will be the best and greatest favor you have ever received and possibly receive for the next 20 years. Let him or her know that the future of the relationship you two had has a promising joy. Tell him or her you can do more for him or her than you have ever done.

Agree with you ex
Act maturely and speak with wisdom
Speak in support of his future
7. Support His or Her Future
Men are visionaries; we want to accomplish something with our lives. That’s why we are not lazy when we’ve got some job to do. A man would love you, keep you as one close to his heart if you are interested in his personal progress and success. When he or she sees how you speak of his establishment and progress in life, he or she will be utterly amazed.

Tell him or her you believe in him or her. Tell him or her you believe he or she is going to have a great future. Tell him or her you are going to stand by his side. Tell him or her you’re going to support him or her all through to his success.

8. Draw Him Or Her Into Getting Involved In Your Life Again
By getting him or her involved in your life, I don’t mean you should date him or her yet. This strategic step aims at getting him or her into communicating with you again. You can start out by reminding him or her of a pleasant moment you two shared together.

Analysis by psychologists on getting couples back together had been made providing psychological methods to get an ex back. A well known issue shows that couples break up because they develop lack of interest for one or the other. Now, how do they get back together? Also the analysis have shown that the longer the time couples spend separated, they are most likely they will never get back together as soul mates again. In this article I have written ideas from me on what to do about reconciling with your ex, but you can use better Psychological and Expert Tips from Relationship Experts to get your ex boyfriend back – you can find them on this link: http://BreakupCare.com


For a long time, even centuries relationships between males and females have been examined by relationship experts and psychologists to understand actual issues in the relationship and proffer solutions from there. Surely relationships is a natural phenomenon, we cannot do without it, everyone enters a relationship every now and then accompanied with break-ups and make-ups. Yet a main issue in a relationship is when couples get separated, which mostly goes together with a heart break. Ex girlfriend does not want is to happen, but ex boyfriend does.




Did this happened to you that your boyfriend became your ex boyfriend or just a friend? Do you miss him and do not know what to do? The break-up may or may not be your fault, but you want to get back together and do not want to spend anymore lonely days by yourself. Whenever you think about your ex boyfriend and you wish the break-up never happened it sure hurts. I want you to be assured that you will get back your ex as soon as you begin to apply these proven psychological tricks.


Do not forget that you have to stay on track and keep focus on doing things you need to do to help you get your ex boyfriend back.


First you are going to start by finding out the information (psychological methods) which you will apply and will be extremely useful to get your ex boyfriend back. These psychological methods will teach and show you how to act and react in situations where it is impossible to win back the love of your ex; you will succeed and come out on top the game.


Getting your Ex requires effort on your side. Sometimes the problem why we are not able to get our ex back actually lie within us.


Shortly I will tell you a quick story about my friend Kelly. Kelly had trouble with a lot of men nearly all the time, for some reasons her relationships ended in a break-up. I mean that men left Kelly all the time, for some reason. Every people ever involved in a relationship failure have their respective reasons that led to the break-up and so is Kelly. Kelly isn't ugly looking, as a matter of  fact she is a pretty lady with admirers everywhere. She is very attractive woman, Kelly started to believe that she must have been bewitched with a spell. Whenever Kelly dated a man, he would leave her, but she did not respond by seeking relationship advice on it. Kelly was always in search for a new love mate. The more Kelly got hooked up with a guy, the more it happened with her - another break-up. Then she found a book which was referred to her by her friend on how to get an ex boyfriend back titled "The Ex Factor Guide" By Brad Browning (a prolific relationship expert) . Here is a link to Brad's website. Kelly's problem was not solved until till she read the book, understood what was in it and applied the steps to getting an ex back and also how to keep him in love.


The information (psychological methods) on getting an ex boyfriend back is incredible, because Kelly got her guy back and kept him for good. Kelly's problem was not in guys that Kelly was dating, the problem was in Kelly because she didn't go for knowledge that would help her get her ex back. The action and reaction methods  in the book thought Kelly to get her ex boyfriend back and also not to make the same mistakes she was making earlier on.


Do not be Kelly or anything like her "before". Remember that the longer the time couples spend separated, they are most likely they will never get back together as soul mates again.


At this point in time you could get your life under control and get your ex back. You could get your ex boyfriend back, as well as help out your girlfriends get their ex boyfriend back by giving them pointers about their relationships from the book, just like I'm doing. As you help your girlfriends  by giving them advice from the book, you will be glad you did.

First of all your ex boyfriend will beg and plead to get back to you and never leave you again, and Secondly, your girlfriends will surely be relieved and thankful to you for your suggestions from the book.

All you have to do is to get the psychological tricks, learn them and use them to get your ex boyfriend back. Learn to push what TW Jackson calls "psychological hot-buttons" to gain psychological control over your ex boyfriend. He will literally beg you to come back.

If this is the man or woman for you, don't give up. There are proven methods to make him love you like never before. This website has answers for you: https://www.affordabledeals.ng/2022/03/09/ex-back/

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