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Family / Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Timih: 9:53am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Thank you all once again but I want to clarify some things. The maid was brought to me by her mother not a trafficker, the mother gave birth to 6 girls and 3 boys and she can't cater for them all. No husband and no profitable income. My wife was kind of against the idea but I just felt that the maid will help her the more, with a new born baby at hand. I didn't know I have committed a child abuse by employing a teen less than 18,I didn't know until now. So sorry about that. I told her mother what happened and with the way she replied, most of her girls have been exposed to such so it's basically from home. She apologised and I also did for cutting short our terms. I gave her some money just to help I don't even know who to say sorry to for committing a child abuse.. Maybe the mother, the girl, the people here or my wife. I'm so sorry and I won't have anything to do with any teen. I'm deeply sorry 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Timih: 11:21pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Thank you all for all your inputs,i truly appreciate. I've talked to him this evening, I asked him questions. He was trying to lie and do some sorts but I found my way in.. He said its not his first time of touching the girl's breast and she too do touch his pen.is sometimes. I was seriously down when he said this. He said more than thrice. I asked him why he didn't tell me or his mum, he said did day he wanted to tell me I was on call and mom was busy also then later mom called for night prayer. I was like, you could have told me still but I guess he's was afraid or ashamed to talk because I always give him attention when he calls me. Well, I have talked to him like a son and brother, I've told him the implications of what he did and how bad it is,I've told him that he should report anybody that touches his manhood to me. He was close to tears though but I didn't threaten him throughout our conversation. I've changed his plans, limited TV, more time with me, siezed his ball (still have some toys with him) and I'll have to make him spend more time with his books.. Hopefully he will change.. He was kind of relaxed I didn't beat him though I haven't informed my wife about anything cos she's also faced a lot .. I seriously don't know how she will react and I don't want her to bounce on the maid, I just looked for something to make sure the maid goes and I've called the person that brought her that she's done here. I didn't even talk to the maid. I don't want to let anger take a high toll on me.. I just left her. When they pick her up tomorrow, I'll tell her ward about what she did. I'll also take him to school tomorrow and tell his teacher talk to him and watch him too. I pray he change...thank you all.. May God keep us and our children safe Modified Thank you all once again but I want to clarify some things. The maid was brought to me by her mother not a trafficker, the mother gave birth to 6 girls and 3 boys and she can't cater for them all. No husband and no profitable income. My wife was kind of against the idea but I just felt that the maid will help her the more, with a new born baby at hand. I didn't know I have committed a child abuse by employing a teen less than 18,I didn't know until now. So sorry about that. I told her mother what happened and with the way she replied, most of her girls have been exposed to such so it's basically from home. She apologised and I also did for cutting short our terms. I gave her some money just to help I don't even know who to say sorry to for committing a child abuse.. Maybe the mother, the girl, the people here or my wife. I'm so sorry and I won't have anything to do with any teen. I'm deeply sorry 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Timih: 6:28pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Pavore9:Thank you |
Family / Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Timih: 6:27pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Aidejay:. Thank you for this.. He sleeps in my room alongside with my wife, so I'm very sure about him sleeping.. He's even afraid of darkness so there's no way he can crawl out to watch TV even though I keep the remote in a place his hands can't reach.. There's time for him to watch TV.. I don't deny him that.. I just don't watch the TV with him except football.. We watch that together all the time I'm around.. He's still angry about Nigeria's loss to Madagascar sha.. So I just tune in to a cartoon station and off I go with the remote... No way for him to watch any other thing unless they show another thing on the cartoon station Modified Me and my wife do not have sex in the presence of the boy, me and my wife don't work under anyone so we decide the day we will have it and all the time we have sex, the boy is always in school.. Only morning and afternoon, we don't have sex at night We are never careless about showing much affection in his presence. So no way he got it from us 17 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Timih: 6:20pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
genq:Me and my wife have never laid a hand on the girl.. We treat her like own.. We don't maltreat her at all 22 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Timih: 6:09pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Ishilove:No leave me like this 1 Like 2 Shares |
Family / Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Timih: 6:05pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Aidejay:To beat him is not the issue.. My fear is what has been deposited in him. 12 Likes |
Family / Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Timih: 6:02pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
LadySarah:Thank you... I'll up my sex talk with him 7 Likes |
Family / Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Timih: 6:01pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
genq:She's not... We didn't have maid before.. We just employed this maid because she just gave birth and we just relocated few months ago....our plan is when the baby is old enough, the maid will go.. The maid's work is limited 72 Likes 4 Shares |
Family / Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Timih: 5:59pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls:I'll do that... The fear of his smartness is what I have to overcome 15 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Timih: 5:57pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Libo45:Thank you 4 Likes |
Family / Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Timih: 5:55pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
ifex370:He is bro.. He's my nigga.. That's why i relate with him as if we are mates 20 Likes |
Family / I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Timih: 5:30pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
I'm very disturbed now This might be long I don't know if he's the one assaulting her or she's the one doing so.. I don't even know what is going on I got back from work, went to the bathroom and when I came out, I saw my son entering a room. He was calling her name and entered. I've been suspecting something like this so I used the opportunity to peep. I saw my son sitting close to her, putting his hand across her neck, this time she was giving a faint smile while putting her palms on her face. Later the boy went to her back and started squeezing her breast from behind. Mehn.. I'm sad, shocked, bad.. Everything. I called him and I pretended not to see anything, why? I know if I react, I'll severely deal with him and that won't change anything because he's been poisoned already. I feel like I've failed as a father already. He's 7 turning to 8,the girl is 14. I seriously don't know what to do about my son, in fact I can't eat to think well. I'll be sending away the girl though but I'm sure that won't stop my son from doing things. Especially in his school. I'm afraid of anything that may happen. First time I noticed a strange relationship between them, i called him, talked to him about not showing his pen.is to anyone, to keep himself covered and all sort, asked him questions about anyone touching him in any manner and he said no. I asked him about his friends in school.. He named 8 of dem and 2 of them are girls. I've failed as a father. My wife is not yet back but when I tell her, she will beat the boy and that won't change anything. I don't know where I went wrong. The maid bathes the boy, dresses for him too. Maybe that's where the issue lies. My wife just gave birth and that's why we employed a maid to help her and take care of the house till the baby is old enough. I don't know where he got it from, I've stopped my wife from watching movies on dstv anytime he's with her.. She only watches redeemed channel and maybe news then when he's asleep, she face her movies. She asked why and i said there was a day I came back from work, and the way he greeted me was very strange... Normally, I relate with him as if we are age mates.. I can say my guy, how u dey na and he replies with daddy, I just gentle... Just normal guyman things but this one is totally different and no one needs to tell me he got it from the movies.. No one. Maybe I have to take charge of bathing him He's a very smart boy.. Very very smart and that's my fear.. And for him to be exposed to this has duely affected me. Please help me.. Abuse me, curse me.. I don't have a choice.. Just help me Pardon my English pls.. Just help 191 Likes 21 Shares |
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