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Rossychy:
Exactly! Many have found love on this forum too.
But I do mind.
Lol

Exactly! Would like to have ur digit..
Hope that's fine?

Rossychy:
Love can be found anywhere. May it end well for them.

Exactly, we could start ours from here as well

Hope you don't mind?

InfernoNig:
Ah ah, but not every time na! So because it's "long standing" it means it must remain like that forever? Abeg, if both partners can't talk it through and find common ground, how marriage wan take work? Not every woman go just waka change church like that—some people are really committed to where they worship. Communication and compromise still dey important o.

You guys are the enablers of these women taking you for granted all in the name of been in a woke generation by tolerating certain things which are paramount then come online to cry about how ur wife doesn't respect/regard you..

InfernoNig:
Honestly, stuff like this is why couples need to stop skipping the real convos before the wedding. Love is great, but it won’t fix deep differences like this. I don’t think it’s fair to expect the woman to just switch churches —marriage should be about compromise, not control. Both need to meet halfway, or it’s gonna be problems down the line.

What are you saying!
A woman who's getting married already knows that she must switch church, unless the man doesn't care... These are long standing practices so I don't understand what you mean by you don't think it's fair to expect the woman to just switch church..

Yes fubara goofed, but what can be said about you? didn't you suprise those that helped you also ?

Namaster:
DON'T be baffled.
What you have seen is merely a NORMAL level of female ENTITLEMENT.

They think they don't need to EARN anything.
Because they already DESERVE everything.

That's how they are wired.
That's why you'll see a 37-year old hairdresser who calls herself a QUEEN. And genuinely believes in her heart that she's a queen.

It's the ENTITLEMENT.
And the ENDORSEMENT of that entitlement by men with ZERO self-respect.

For instance, why in the world would you STILL speak to a woman who practically told you to DIE rather than lend you money.

Only a debilitating LACK of self-respect will allow you to talk to a woman who RUDELY told you to STOP communicating with her.

The moment she UTTERED that madness, she should have been DEAD to you.

To this lady, you are NOT different from a SCREWDRIVER—only comes to mind when something needs to be fixed.

You FIXED her shitty life and took her from a DEAD-END job in a Primary School to a GREAT job in an airport.

Your reward?
You got DUMPED and DISCARDED!

Now that she's either in trouble or in line for a promotion at work, she reached out to YOU for help.

And your heart is TROUBLED.

Your ONLY recourse:

SILENCE!

DON'T reply with anything. Don't mock her. Don't act hurt about her betrayal.

She GHOSTED you. Treat her like a GHOST.

BLOCK her!

Block HER FRIENDS when she inevitably tries to use them to get to you.

Block YOUR FRIENDS if they try to intercede for her.

Block ANYBODY that tries to advocate for her.

And if anybody tries to tell you to "be the bigger person", CURSE their entire lineage.

Finally, she's NOT "an ungrateful female FRIEND".
She's your malicious, DEVIL-DOPPELGANGER EX-girlfriend.

Use the RIGHT words.

God bless you my brother... I destest guys with zero self respect.. See the punk still asking what he should do

Damn!!!!

The kind of family you marry into is very important..
Marriage isn't something you enter causally, do ur due deligence as to know the type of family you're entering, that alone would solve 85% of ur marital issues.. Move on bro she's lost already

Imagine waking up to see ur car like this

MrSundry:
All these sycophancy won't take us anywhere in this country. Mr Governor focus of delivering good governance to your people, simple!

It is the 200m Nigerians that will decide if BAT will be reelected not some decampees

Has the votes of the populace ever counted in Nigeria?

Let's face reality

Go ahead, you're good to go

BlackfireX:




Civil war must happen inside this thread

You're a prophet

Phils:
Miracle alert happens but it must have a source (traceable).

A client you worked for but refused to pay up, you gave up but asked the Almighty in prayers to intervene. The Client will be so 'troubled' one morning and sends you your money. That's a miracle alert.

There was a time I felt so obliged and gave money to a Pastor on study leave but attends my local church . He appreciated the gesture and left. When he was done with studies in the town and was giving his farewell and thanksgiving, he mentioned there was a day he had no single naira and didn't know what to eat, that a member (he didn't call name) walked up and gave him a huge amount of money. That's a miracle alert to him.

If you received an alert with no clarity or found money on the floor and kept it to yourself without looking for the source, na thief you be. God will judge you.

God bless you my brother.. I've tried explaining this countless times to ppl but they think I'm not spiritual enough😂

Go and work for your money. Manners doesn't fall from heaven anymore...

My own definition of miracle alert is when Somomes suddenly remembers you after you've received prayers or words of prohecy from a man of God about money entering into account and suddenly someone who have forgotten you or someone you haven't gotten in touch with for a long time or even someone you're not expecting anything from calls and ask for your account number to be credited...

funkmrflexx:
Vacation costs money, that one join wetin dey stress man sef

You don't have to break a bank to go on a vacation..

Organize a sleepover during the weekends in one of the hotels in ur town with good facilities like swimming pool, games etc...

It's always like that.. Try something new with ur spouse, go on vacations, play and joke as often as you can.. Just try to have some fun and see the spike coming back into your marriage

That's where most of you ppl misses it...
Marriage goes deeper beyond just feelings

In the kingdom prescription, YOU DON'T MARRY WHO YOU LOVE, BUT YOU LOVE WHO YOU MARRY

We know it's you.. But that's fine though

Relate it with ur girlfriend. This ordinarily shouldn't be an issue... Communication is vital in any relationship but how you communicate things especially like this is what matters.
Let wisdom be ur guiding factor

How would you feel if reverse is the case with ur wife... Think!!!

Una no dey think about how to make money self?

MadamVanessa:



As a confam village girl that I am , I don't like all these food. I need foofoo with Afang soup, atama, editan, or afere nkong Ubong .

No wonder you're creamy and juicy

You're not telling us the truth... What's the actual size of ur D

Marry her... If it's goes well congratulations and if it doesn't go well then it's a lesson you would have learnt...

Again I'll need you to come share ur experience here in nairaland if it doesn't go well so others can learn from ur story...
#Shalom....

Yes yes!!

Marry her since you don't know what to do...

No u didn't, u would have tear him a hot slap... Ewu!!!

Bouncingbabyboy:
After all the stories you still knack her oooo

Comrade stop that thing

Dtruthspeaker:
Bros, which tribe? Make we warn our pikin dem make dem no go chook trap!

Trouble is that you?

Akinfemmy:
Clean S10 + Available for sale

specs

128gb
ram 8gb

Price - 270k (Slightly Negotiable)

Location: Agbara, lagos.

200k serious buyer

Can the S23 plus go for 600k ? And is it the snapdragon variant?

I don't know who raised these girls.. Tueeeh!!!!

Softmirror:
Labour party ELLU PEE, Wetin dey happen. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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