U know my sister. Having read through the comments here and frown through some while I nodded to some,yet I so laughed out loud to some. Everybody with different opinions. But what I want to say is this, a pilot,his plane without his map equals to lostflight and crash. A sailor,his ship without his compass equals to lost at sea and drowning. A husband+wife-God is as simple as crash or denial of marital pleasure,sorrow. A threefold cold cannot be easily broken and if the third person who is supposed to be the life or the ever fresh wine in ur marriage is missing, the wine u live on will sour and lose it taste becos God is missing.
If dead bones can rise again,ur marriage can work again. Don't look for man that can console u. because any man on here that wants to console u actually need a consoler himself. Look for God the missing third person in ur marriage and him for the ultimate and sure consoling.
He can make ur wine fresh and sweet again,only if u make Him lord over the institution He initiated of which u find ursef.
You can't help ursef,let the manufacturer fix it for u. U just relax and look on in thanksgiving.
#shalom