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FamilyRe: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by TobyeCole: 3:54pm On Jan 06, 2020
omonikiba:
This is so urgent now.

This woman is so nice to us, my kids love her and am heart broken she's leaving today.

I have being trying to manage her marriage, she has issues with the MIL and hubby, they don't want to see her around. Her husband wants to take her back to the village, we've done all our best, I knelt down with other elderly people to beg but the MIL insist she's rude and want her to leave.

I will really be hurt to see her go, who else can I trust my kids with? I leave my rooms open with no fear, she doesn't steal and obey all instructions to the letter. In fact, am soooo free with her around my kids.

I have two vacant rooms around, we don't mind housing her, my husband want her to stay with us but I said no, I thought about it carefully and so said no. My reasons are;

* I don't want to have issues with the MIL, we are both house owners, not just tenants that will depart sooner or latter so I don't want any issue with a fellow landlady.

* She is way older than me, I call her mama. So I hate to hurt an elderly person. Taking her DIL in will surely hurt her. And she might think so instigated the DIL against her.

* I don't want other landlords to see me as a bad person.

* What if something happens to this girl or what of if she starts to misbehave?

*My sister and older relations advise against it.

* Her MIL will do everything possible to tarnish my image in our estate.


This girl isn't a bad girl, she is this village girls that if you manage well, you'll get the best out of them but her MIL n hubby are phycos. Very difficult to be with. She's highly unforgiving. She insist this girl must go because she doesn't fit her status. But they saw the kind of person she is before marrying her.

Enough of too much talk.

What do I do to keep her without hurting her MIL.

If she leaves, the stress will be too much for me and I don't think I'll get someone else due to trust.

I need help.

Ignore my typos pls
Look at how you came over to the Internet calling me a psycho lieing and twisting information Mummy Lekan




Since when did the girl become your nanny or who handed her over to you as a nanny




Oma a se o




Look at how you depicted my family as a dysfunctional family for no just case and you came to the world boldly calling us unprintable names because a girl we picked from the street became reblious and after over 5 years of trying to correct her to the best of our love and care, we called her dad to have him take her because she wasn't responding to disciplinary measures.





















Look at how you came to the view of the whole world because we asked a girl who we once in a her ask her to pay you a visit and help with your home care go home.













So because my family saw a girls loyalty was questionable and poses a risk to the family and asked the family. Come pick her up we have become pyscho















Why not say the truth. Am I your brother in law or is my mother related to you in anyway











As a married woman you call yourself who hardly make out time for kids we asked this girl after school to help you out while at the same time you help her with her assignment because you dmwont have that free hand to do your house work while you roam around town you dare call ym family psychos painting lies to look for validations.








All of this is because we open our home and family to you not knowing we were opening ourselves up to a blackmailer and a false chirsitain who would turn out to be a betrayer.



















Yes you know who's typing. Well done Mummy Lekan. God will surely judge all humankind with genuine righteousness and not with one sided stories people tell to appear nice























Yes God will judge you
FamilyRe: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by TobyeCole: 3:24pm On Jan 06, 2020
omonikiba:
This is so urgent now.

This woman is so nice to us, my kids love her and am heart broken she's leaving today.

I have being trying to manage her marriage, she has issues with the MIL and hubby, they don't want to see her around. Her husband wants to take her back to the village, we've done all our best, I knelt down with other elderly people to beg but the MIL insist she's rude and want her to leave.

I will really be hurt to see her go, who else can I trust my kids with? I leave my rooms open with no fear, she doesn't steal and obey all instructions to the letter. In fact, am soooo free with her around my kids.

I have two vacant rooms around, we don't mind housing her, my husband want her to stay with us but I said no, I thought about it carefully and so said no. My reasons are;

* I don't want to have issues with the MIL, we are both house owners, not just tenants that will depart sooner or latter so I don't want any issue with a fellow landlady.

* She is way older than me, I call her mama. So I hate to hurt an elderly person. Taking her DIL in will surely hurt her. And she might think so instigated the DIL against her.

* I don't want other landlords to see me as a bad person.

* What if something happens to this girl or what of if she starts to misbehave?

*My sister and older relations advise against it.

* Her MIL will do everything possible to tarnish my image in our estate.


This girl isn't a bad girl, she is this village girls that if you manage well, you'll get the best out of them but her MIL n hubby are phycos. Very difficult to be with. She's highly unforgiving. She insist this girl must go because she doesn't fit her status. But they saw the kind of person she is before marrying her.

Enough of too much talk.

What do I do to keep her without hurting her MIL.

If she leaves, the stress will be too much for me and I don't think I'll get someone else due to trust.

I need help.

Ignore my typos pls
I'm interested in talking with you about this but if only I have your singular attention.


Can we talk more about this one on one?
AdvertsRe: Do You Need "Real" Money/finance For Some Pressing Personal Or Business by TobyeCole: 11:42am On Dec 08, 2019
DJperdurabo:
Make hay while the sun shines folk.

Avail yourself of this opportunity now!

Initiate that contact!
PM sent. Do you mind reviewing and replying?
BusinessRe: Job Opening For Menial, Farm & Poultry Workers by TobyeCole(op): 7:47pm On Dec 05, 2019
Send in your applications
InvestmentRe: Job Opening For Menial, Farm & Poultry Workers by TobyeCole(op): 7:47pm On Dec 05, 2019
Send in your applications
CareerRe: Job Opening For Menial, Farm & Poultry Workers by TobyeCole(op): 7:47pm On Dec 05, 2019
Send in your applications

Thank you
InvestmentRe: Job Opening For Menial, Farm & Poultry Workers by TobyeCole(op): 11:18pm On Dec 03, 2019
Keep sending in your applications

Thank you
BusinessRe: Job Opening For Menial, Farm & Poultry Workers by TobyeCole(op): 11:18pm On Dec 03, 2019
Keep sending in your applications

Thank you
CareerRe: Job Opening For Menial, Farm & Poultry Workers by TobyeCole(op): 11:18pm On Dec 03, 2019
Keep sending in your applications

Thank you
CareerRe: Job Opening For Menial, Farm & Poultry Workers by TobyeCole(op): 1:20pm On Dec 02, 2019
Send in your applications
InvestmentRe: Job Opening For Menial, Farm & Poultry Workers by TobyeCole(op): 1:20pm On Dec 02, 2019
Send in your applications
BusinessRe: Job Opening For Menial, Farm & Poultry Workers by TobyeCole(op): 1:19pm On Dec 02, 2019
Send in your applications


Kind Regards
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Any Available Bike Or Keke Napep For Hire Purchase./any Available Job by TobyeCole: 12:34pm On Dec 02, 2019
campbell118:
Boss all the job I search are requesting for Degree Certificate and I don't have.I'M SSCE HOLDER ONLY FOR NOW Sir.
It's okay. Send in your C.V.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Any Available Bike Or Keke Napep For Hire Purchase./any Available Job by TobyeCole: 12:26pm On Dec 02, 2019
Check the threads on this profile and send in your application
BusinessJob Opening For Menial, Farm & Poultry Workers by TobyeCole(op): 12:03pm On Dec 02, 2019
A farm outfit is seeking for hardworking persons to fill up a few positions:


1. Poultry Attendants


2. Menial Workers - To work on a variety of farming projects


3. Plastic Waste Pickers/Collectors




* Workers must be willing to relocate to Ogun/Oyo states, sites of our production


* Workers will be provided with accommodation


* Workers will be fed twice daily


* Salary ranges between 40,000 and 70,000 Naira




Signify your interest by sending an email with your C.V to :


solutionscityng@gmail.com

Make sure you include the answer to the questions below when sending your C.V.


1. Can you drive ?

2. Can you cook ?

3. What other skill-set do you posses that will improve the company

4. Remember, to include your WhatsApp contact

5. How good is your driving skill?



Job Opportunity is open to male and female workers. Males and females will have separate accommodation
InvestmentJob Opening For Menial, Farm & Poultry Workers by TobyeCole(op): 11:57am On Dec 02, 2019
A farm outfit is seeking for hardworking persons to fill up a few positions:


1. Poultry Attendants


2. Menial Workers - To work on a variety of farming projects


3. Plastic Waste Pickers/Collectors




* Workers must be willing to relocate to Ogun/Oyo states, sites of our production


* Workers will be provided with accommodation


* Workers will be fed twice daily


* Salary ranges between 40,000 and 70,000 Naira




Signify your interest by sending an email with your C.V to :


solutionscityng@gmail.com

Make sure you include the answer to the questions below when sending your C.V.


1. Can you drive ?

2. Can you cook ?

3. What other skill-set do you posses that will improve the company

4. Remember, to include your WhatsApp contact

5. How good is your driving skill?



Job Opportunity is open to male and female workers. Males and females will have separate accommodation
CareerJob Opening For Menial, Farm & Poultry Workers by TobyeCole(op): 11:51am On Dec 02, 2019
A farm outfit is seeking for hardworking persons to fill up a few positions:


1. Poultry Attendants


2. Menial Workers - To work on a variety of farming projects


3. Plastic Waste Pickers/Collectors




* Workers must be willing to relocate to Ogun/Oyo states, sites of our production


* Workers will be provided with accommodation


* Workers will be fed twice daily


* Salary ranges between 40,000 and 70,000 Naira




Signify your interest by sending an email with your C.V to :


solutionscityng@gmail.com

Make sure you include the answer to the questions below when sending your C.V.


1. Can you drive ?

2. Can you cook ?

3. What other skill-set do you posses that will improve the company

4. Remember, to include your WhatsApp contact

5. How good is your driving skill?



Job Opportunity is open to male and female workers. Males and females will have separate accommodation
AutosRe: Driver Needed - Mowe/Ofada and Lagos Environs by TobyeCole(op): 7:02am On Nov 22, 2019
Send in your applications for consideration.
AutosDriver Needed - Mowe/Ofada and Lagos Environs by TobyeCole(op): 10:36pm On Nov 21, 2019
Are you a driver and need a JOB or will like to become part of a visionary project?


If you are, then this opportunity is for you.


I need the services of a driver that is willing to resume work next week


No educational qualification is required


Loyalty is of utmost importance. If you can be of consistent good character, this job opportunity is not for you.


You'll be required to work across Lagos, Ogun and Oyo state.


To find out more information about the work details and renumeration, send your C.V indicating your interest to : ( Input your references and WhatsApp contact while sending your interest )


Note : Primary area of work is Ofada, Lagos.


Tobyelyon@gmail.com



Thank you

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