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NwaAmaikpe:




Okay, this thread has taken Ojeuelegba under-bridge.
This is not how it was supposed to go but who says a little derailing isn't sometimes a blessing?

-TobyeCole is obviously upset and his stories do add up, it is only natural for him to also conceal some facts on a faceless forum. Dude just came on Nairaland only to see his family unjustly roasted on the front burner.

-DavidEsq is playing Devil's advocate to Mama Lekan for reasons I can't possibly rationalize unless he has been hired by her.
His cross-examinations is only turning villain to victor and victim to vanquished.

-MofeDamijo is just as objective as I am only that he appears more civil but less assertive.

-Graxie was being objective in her assessment of claims till she was tipped away by the the devil's advocate.

But I see a bigger picture, NwaAmaikpe always does.
Hanty does not work but comes back very late at night.
Hanty does not cook for her husband and kids.
Sisi Eko does all of this.
So why can't Hanty stay at home and cater for her kids by herself?
Why the desperation in wanting to keep Sisi Eko?

Sisi Eko's skin is glowing and is the object of admiration that even people in Obodo oyibo want to fly her over because she does not fit in down there in Nigeria.

Three things are involved,
1). Hanty is either an obsessed lesbian.
2). Hanty is having an affair outside and needs Sisi Eko to distract her husband and possibly tend to his spousal needs.
3). Hanty is into human trafficking or pimps attractive girls with 'glowing skin'. So Sisi Eko is a big meal ticket she can't afford to lose.

But one thing is certain.
Hanty is very selfish and is just as guilty of TobyeCole's claims since there's been no rebuttal from her.

Lastly,
Not everything should end up on NL because some may backfire on you.

As an elder, this is my judgement.

I declare Hanty guilty of misrepresentation and take back my genuine advice.
If she can't come to equity with clean hands, she and her dirty hands should remain in the bedroom.

TobyeCole should borrow some advice from MofeDamijo and address this with her family using excerpts from here as proof.
He should also go further with another thread briefing us the progress and the true motive behind this desperation.

In return for my input,
TobyeCole must link me up with Hanty, tell her to email me because I may be needing her services if she is a married woman who likes to play outside.

You are wise. Husband was reported to this evening and was in shock. My entire family has been summoned and we're discussing on these issues. Thanks for being an objective person.




And this is why I've always respected you despite your satires. Your seer's eyes. Ability to see the truth as it is. I wasn't just shocked seeing my family being burnt on the burner with lies. I know understand why people who are bullied take their lives. I felt deep hurt in my heart and for hours couldn't get myself.


I'll take some time off to let it simmer. The shock still unsettles me. BTW, you are 100% accurate on the entire picture you painted. This is all that transpired.

DavidEsq:
After washing ur dirty boxers, sorry, linen is public, u now remember ur "father". Chai o!

As you've witnessed in my communications my acts and deeds are noble and devoid of filth. And I'm not whatever imaginations and misconceptions you have about me. Hence my hands and garment are unsoiled.



Please leave me alone Sir.

DavidEsq:
U said she has been with u for 10 years. Why are u removing 3 years from her age. If u took her in at 8 and she has stayed for 10 years, then she is 18 not 15 and the fact that u are using format to reduce her age so we would think she is 15, raises the hair at the back of my neck

My brother. Don't force it. You've made your point that I'm guilty by whatever standards you have. I told you I was done interacting with you. I've taken my complains to the throne of God

Graxie:
why are particular about picking girls to raise them under your mom? How come she have become rebellious since you guys nurtured her from 8years? How can a mother of 8years drive her child from the home?

You've been all over me as a. Criminal trying me over and over like you have an already made-up mind. Have you not noticed this thread has over 20000 views and only few persons commented because they saw the glaring hypocrisy.


If you can't discern hypocrisy from truth, then you won't be able to judge/get the truths from humans.


Always look at motives, to discern the truth in issues. Read darlenese comment on the first page. There lies a woman with wisdom that discerned accurately what the entire event is about

DavidEsq:
If you do not see yourself as wrong here, in light of the scriptures, then u need to take off that Episcopal robe and assume the idiosyncrasies of an agbero

God is my defense. I stand boldly before my father with no sense of guilt. And if I can stand before God unashamed, I don't see how a human would judge me by any standard of any wrong doing when my hands and garments are pure.


You just reminded me. I'll take this matter to my father



I'm done. Thank you for branding me as an evil person when you have nothing on me that qualifies me as such

DavidEsq:
Yet, Alaye earlier stated that the essence of pushing for a return to her roots is to avoid untimely pregnancy, which would imply that the possibilities of her having sex with area boys (wey baba done dey envy) is high. How does this reconcile with the certainty that she is a virgin? This cross-examination don dey make sense o

She had become rebellious and unruly beyond control. And God being my witness won't permit me to repair lives just to destroy them.


How come do you have accusations of me when you don't know me nor permit me hearing with objectivity?



The girl had a brother who doesn't walk but crawls on his chest my family took in along with her. Why didn't you ask the OP why she doesn't want such too along with the girl she's lying over?

Graxie:
Mmawu, does that determine virginity. Please like I stated, the woman story is different from yours or there is more to your story.

If you pick a child up at 8 years old. And lives with you till she turns let's say 15 and has remain under your custody for such a period during her formative years, would it be wrong to classify her as a virgin girl given her entire activities could be accounted for the entire years?


Mind you before this this family has nurtured and released about 5.girls like her who all left too as pure girls.

DavidEsq:
As a minister, have u come across Proverbs 19:11? This what it says: "The insight of a man certainly slows down his anger,And it is beauty on his part to overlook an offense". Do u think that there is a need to handle this issue from a scripture-based approach? U have been hollering all over the place in a rabid manner, throwing scriptural caution to the wind. The scriptures disagree with u on this and oh, pls don't whip out that "I'm not perfect" immunity clause cos none of the persons concerned here are also perfect.

But why are you seeing me as the bad party over and over when I've done nothing wrong. Why are you insistent on trying to tag me and my family as bad people by your hearsay, common one sided story?

Graxie:
Abia. This is now funny, how do you know she is a virgin?

Because I took her in since she was little and she has been under the shelter of our home for the past 8/10years

DavidEsq:
Minister wey dey spread gossip. Story jus entered NL, minister don spread gospel for all the neighbors. Shey na minister of public information u be, ni?

It is funny how its my wrongs you're seeing all. Over the place. Spreading gossip. Do you know how it feels to be back stabbed. I only. Communicated what I read here since my family's image was falsely depicted. Am I wrong for bringing the best persons in complicated issues that best known the truth of a matter to the truth of an issue?



Judge me in the spirit of truth. Or don't judge issues when you aren't privy to detailed information.

DavidEsq:
Aha! Finally person don talk am. Only I think the girl is less than a wife to him. Deep-seated resentment that goes beyond responding to someone's stubbornness, but seems more like loss of kpanshing opportunity, smells here.

The said girl is a virgin. And I only chose to pick her from where she was thrown without shelter from the goodness of my heart.


I remain a. Missionary and don't do. Premarital sex Sir.

DavidEsq:
How can I say dis thing on my mind now? Is someone kpanshing the girl in that house, but has lost the chance to continue kpanshing because she has someone else's (an area boy's) attention? The emphasis on the girl's glowing skin is becoming too much to pass unnoticed sha

She's a virgin. I'm a minister. I raised her up as a token of my heart and contribution to this world



To avoid issues as such was why immediately. I picked her from the street handed her over to my. Mum. While I only provide mentorship alone.

mofedamijo:
Evil people can do evil, you have played the role God wanted you to play, and I am 101% sure he will bless you beyond your comprehension, however, if she decides to destroy her life, thats a problem, you have played your part, God bless you and your family.

Amen Sir

Thank You Sir. I'm consoled. Thanks for your kind words

mofedamijo:
I don't know who you're Sir, but i will beg, handle this issue with the highest maturity in you, if what you're saying is true, which i want to believe, don't let that woman make you look like a bad person in the said estate, be calm, state your facts, talk to her husband, nd if he is not matured enough, leave the matter to God, you raised the girl right until she went gaga, leave mama lekan, time, karma and God will be the final judge., Shalom.

God bless you sir. I thought taking care of the kid ( feeding 4 to 5 times daily), nothing to stress the kid was me handling her good treatment. After years her skin began to glow so much that different people who come across us want to take her, some even to overseas. And where even preparing her. Mind towards this before her rebellious character from no where made her too difficult to continue with her development.





Seeing that she glitters, albeit to a good extent character wise and her flawless skin produced pride, arrogance, uncontrollable attitude and outright rudeness and disregard for people. Seeing how overbearing it had become I asked the father to come take his kid since he wasn't tmat the lowest he was 10 years back and since the dad is not unemployed as before so wy does this woman obsess herself with this girl. I hope you can see why now



There are millions os Street kids like her she can bring into her home and train like her children if she was half as good as she projected herself. Why must it be this one...


I leave the case to God to judge. I told my neighbors they are all mad and are waiting for her

cococandy:
Sounds like a psycho to me.

All the demeaning talks .

Bla bla bla

Different Stories too

Do you know the shock I'm under. Do you know the feeling?


Can't you see how fast you are to judge in an issue other readers empathised with and didn't judge the goodness I did out of my heart and opening my house family and home to someone we felt we trusted only for her to spin things around and say all these at our backs.



Do you know how it feels to be betrayed where you invested trust?



Madam do you know how it hurts seeing this thread with all its spin lies? Do you?

Graxie:
All I am saying is that, your stories are not the same. She said her nanny mother in-law and husband wants her to go back to the village.You are painting another story. You can create your own post to address your story. Moreso, she have not been responding to others questions before you.

I have spoken all my concerns.


I am waiting for her response and we'll both take it up from there Graxie

Graxie:
There are married women doing nanny work. I don't get your question.

She posted her nanny is being taken from her. How come is a third party taken away her nanny. The girl is an adoptee that had turned reblius and unrepentant. I only asked her to help her with chores in exchange for her helping the girl with home work. How does this translate to house help! +/nanny? Ask her to. Come respond na

Graxie:
Your story seems to be different, she said the nanny is married. You are claiming the nanny is you people house help. Are you married to the nanny?

She spinned the identity to cover up identities. You should ask her if the girl. Is her nanny how come can the girl be her nanny and be someone else's gril. With someone else having control over the girl. Ask her o




If truly the girl she emphatically describes as her nnay is being sent away, how come.... How is her nanny sent away... Ask her o. I'm. Sure Nairalanders can see lies and are very intelligent people.

dalass:
Madam take it easy o. She didn't mention any name. Don't you think it may not be you that the OP mentioned or it may not be mama Lekan... Sofry sofry o

She's the one. Im a man. I checked her timeline and she's the one. Why not let her defend herself abi her daughters name. Isn't Lekan again?









Does her number not end with 00937








Did her father not die in the last one month

A girl that had close to 400 clothes eats 4 to 5.times.daily is a. Girl we treat abi. That's how psychos treat children


A girl that has never been used for any form of work nor sent to do any form. Of work in exchange for work is a. Maltreated child abi.


Does she not look cleaner than your kids. Would that have bee. Achieved if she was treated how you depicted. My neighbors have all seen your lies. Everyone around us will know of your deeds.






Just because we opened our home/family to you has turned us to psychos abi. People with status who don't want to see the poor girl. Did you tell them I picked her where the girls original. Mother threw her into the street where she was tattered couldn't talk. Washed her trained her mentored her. Trained her for a decade. Today the girl me picked on the street after a decade care doesn't fit our status abi



God will judge you.

I am. Waiting online and offline you traitor.



It's my. Mother you're calling a psycho.







I'm a psycho for refusing to have a kid who would constantly hate on our kids continue to stay because she does your chores











I should wait till she poisons our kids. Because we wanted to please you by given her continous stay to come do your chores.






I am waiting for you o.

osaweseforme:
Mama Lekan come and reply her cos you said the said girl was married and was your nanny...this woman has disputed you....please reply her somethings are not adding up from your story

I just showed our neighbors this thread and gave them the link

Everyone in the compound is waiting for you. Come and meet us in person or. Come here and defend your claims

I await her to come here and say one single maltreatment we did to a girl. Who only wakes bath wash plate go to school come back then go assist this woman till nite








So what time does she spend with us for us to maltreat her Iya Lekan. God OF Abraham will judge you and your family for this betrayer

It's because we open our home to you

Nairalanders careful people you bring to your home










I was with this woman till past 11 with my mum and she was pleading on her behalf as she did in so many occasions and we said our entire family concluded the girl was unrepentant and before she Co. Mitted acts that would cause trouble it was better she went to her father










Little did we know this girl planned behind to go pick the girl at the bus stop to her place hence why she posted this past 2 am despite being part of the meeting last night. Upon seeing us she became startled because she intended on blocking her in between and carrying her to her own house. For a girl who left her parents ten years ago with a living father o.

I can drop your phone number so people can call and ask what time you get home even as a married woman and mother of two kids if you get home earlier than 11 pm to 1am despite being an unemployed married woman




You evil soul. If my family didn't open the doors to you, would we have ended with a knife at our backs. You traitor

I am waiting for you.



God and all neighbors from all four houses besides and opposite and church members are witnesses to how we took care of the girl.













































I have over the 100 witness that can attest to this fact against your libel

























Respond o. A fi bi san re

I am waiting for you to confront me here and prove to everyone that the kid was ever maltreated.

























































I'm daring you to lift just one occasion where the kid was maltreated.





God will judge you.


































Thank God its a matter the police officers at the station know about and adopted her seeing how spotless her skin was and how we took care of her. Come and say this to my face in person or reply me here you traitor and backstabber

Be careful of one sided stories on the Internet people













Careful to give counsel as people who are devil's will paint themselves in form of angels














Tell the OP to stop the late night's. A woman who stays up till midnight 1am.and doesn't cook for her husband




All of a sudden a girl you know nothing off becomes your nanny.



I dare you to come and meet me at home or respond here.











































Let's all take it up from here from there we shall escalate issues you traitor

God will judge your household for tarnishing the image of my family and for this libel. You betraying woman

This woman only knows this girl for some months o. Not even long. But because when the girl works she has freedom to go around the neighborhood up and down.








Doesn't attend to her family nor return home till. Midnight. Doesn't cook for her kids and husband





















Seeing all the freedom lost to her frolicking the neighborhood like an unmarried woman is why she resorted. To this blackmail











I am still in good terms and talking terms with the father. And I promise to show him this thread mummy lekan. So he will judge your character against what happened.

Let us all be careful with one sided stories people tell to absolve themselves of guilt.



I'm not related to the op nor my mum. We only knew ourselves in a church we both attended for a short while











Because I'm always busy with work and my mum is old my.






Mum permitted the girl to go help this woman with chores everyday after school and that she will be tutuored in assignment at the same time













We didn't throw the child to the street. The father now works unlike when he was about to kill himself a decade ago when we picked her.












Out of how she was transformed the father let her leave with my family. Especially since I was the one who consoled him when he wanted to kill himself ten years back and asked him to bring the two kids. Housed trained and feed them alongside my brother in law and sisters

darlenese:
the only reason who are writing this long epistle is because your own selfish reasons.


so long a letter . madam imagine your daughter in-law doing nanny job in your neighbourhood for another landlord or landlady , I am sure one of the reasons they said she is stubborn is because they asked and to stop working for you but she refused .

madam stay away from that family .


do your chores yourself till u find someone else

That is what happened. Look at how she came to the Internet to blackmail my family









The young girl had become rebellious and would stand to curse my mother to my face.


This has been happening repeatedly. The girl isn't her nanny. We only attended the same church and my mother said she couldn't teach the girl assignments and the girl should go to her house and in turn help her do her house work









This is a girl I picked from the street mentored and trained her for almost 10 years.















But she started becoming rebellious and acting against every instructions given. When we saw she has grown and doesn't want to stay with the family as she even threatened us a few times the gather stayed in a three bedroom and we stayed in a small house along with many of such issues we noticed we had lost her and before she got pregnant we asked her to go home so she won't get pregnant untimely nor do harm to our family as she had turned covetous always beating our own kids for no reasons cause she.. Oh my God. It was good I did o.










The girls mother threw her away to the street some years ago









I picked the girl up clothed her fed her trained her. Even today she left if you saw her skin its spotless clean. She eats 4 to 5 times a day














She then started receiving attention from all boys around and turned prideful and arrogant.







I took her to various pastors to speak with her different people. Before rebellion became another thing we then called this woman the OP with the aim of trying to talk to her several times
















She's just a neighbor we allowed our kid go visit and help take care of her kids. It was good we were doing






















She's only speaking from the loss of having the freedom to leave her home and her kids while the girl does the chores.



















God almighty will judge you mummy Lekan for all these lies you've spoken about me today. Heaven bears witness that you won't go unpunished for tarnishing my family's good will like this.





Can you guys now see part of the reason we had to decide that the girl go. Can you see how the girl's disloyalty opens the door for this to my family















Nairalanders be careful whom you open your family and home to



























I double dear you mummy Lekan to come speak all you typed here to my face. I'm at home