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DonDemu:
“It’s Not Whether You Get Knocked Down, It’s Whether You Get Up"

The Way Get Started Is To Quit Talking And Begin Doing Bro

Thanks bro. I'll put this quote to use.

[quote author= post=68956109]I wish you all the very best in life.
Go out, stop staying indoor, the devil uses the idle hand and mind you know.
Find a job to be doing, anyone (by the way, where are you based in the country?)
Cheer up.
Life is beautiful.
You have a great and wonderful future ahead of you.
Don't feel downcast my guy.
It will all end in praise.[/quote]Thank you so much, I really appreciate your comment, I'm based in Lagos.
I'll definitely follow your advice.
Thanks so much.

Hello house, I am Tosh ( not my real name tho).

I need your advice and opinion on this one house.

I will be 27 years old this November, and to be honest with myself, i just feel like i'm utterly useless.

I left secondary school year 2008 but along the line i lost focus of where i was supposed to head in my life. I couldn't gain admission into any higher institution, i had no form of exposure or whatsoever or someone to guide me in life (although my parents are very much alive).
Year 2013 i tried FUTA's predegree program, but i failed both the school exam and jamb woefully so i decided to try Yabatech part time program.
I finished the program last year with a CGPA of 2.60 (Lower class) although i know that i put in my best but clearly my best wasn't good enough. I can't point to anything I've achieved in life.

I have no reasonable skills sets that can set me apart in the labour market, i still live with my parents and still eat their food without any form of contribution from me. I have no friends (I mostly keep to myself because I'm always ashamed of myself and progress in life), I currently have no job, at times i feel so frustrated that I sometimes contemplate suicide (but I thank God that He did not allow me to act on those thoughts).I am just so confused as to what to do next to make my life better.

Please guys, i need your moral advice. I genuinely want to put the pieces of my life back together again and be useful to my generation and people around me. But i don't know where to start from because I'm really confused with the state of my life at the moment.

I know this may not be the best of place to pour out my mind (cause its really killing me inside and outside) but i trust in the genuine comments of some good people in the house.

Thank you guys and God bless.