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HARDDON:
As it stands, she is @ fault.
N u wudnt ever contact her again untill she begs, n appologise for her childish airs

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Thank you. I really appreciate.

HARDDON:
one more thing, was there any incriminating evidence on your phone that day?
is there any message, from whoever gurl, that shows u are blowing some1 else?

cos it might surprise you to know that what you r even suspecting is not really the issue

not at all.. after i yelled at her on the phone, she called me back asking me y i was rude towards her, i angrily banged d call on her. few days later i decided 2 call her and i apologized. her attitude skyrocketed after the apologies..
the thing is i suspected she was attracted 2 me for maybe for some wild sex like a real player, which i failed woefully. I'm also good looking.

HARDDON:
is her sister married?
do you know any of her friends( hawt ones) ?


whatever you do, start ignoring her henceforth while we work this out.
block her on social media, block her line, block her off. no contact whatsoever.

i dont even know why im doing this, your motive seems wrong.

if you dont really fancy her but just wano get your rep back by correcting whatever impression you thing she has about you, I would advise you let her go.

but if she is really some1 you want for keeps, then we cud give it a try

thanks once again. her sister is married and i haven't seen any of her friends. and yes i need her for keeps. we haven't been in contact 4 about 2weeks now.

CuteCeo:
Whew. I finally finished the thread after 3 days of intense reading and practice. Hello Harddon, i really appreciate what you're doing for us out here. You don't know how much you've impacted into people's lives. This is my own story. I've always been a shy guy and throughout my university education, i wasn't intimate with any lady, partly due to my shyness and also due to the fact that i don't really fancy meeting girls and all. But during my final semester, i decided to find a girl. So, there's this girl I met on social media, and from there I got her contact. But having read the thread, i know I've been doing everything wrong. I always chat with the girl everyday. Boring conversations, and she's even the one always spicing up the convos, cos she's very jovial and friendly. We've gone on a date once after my final exams. And I've been the nice guy, always complimenting her. Also, she has already told me about her relationships and she doesn't intend to settle for another one unless she's sure it was going to last. and I've stupidly also told her I've never had a girlfriend. Then few months after, i professed my love to her, which she turned down saying she doesn't want to start any relationship that's not going to last. I said OK, and we continued talking, But things started changing gradually, and the talks subsided. Now she complained of my boring chats and how they are cliché (Which of course i knew they were). So, i now encountered this thread 3 days ago. Since then, i have not messaged her, and she hasn't too. Pls what can i do to get her back and how can i take control of the situation.

learn from my mistake. try and meet her somewhere cool and secluded, make sure u get intimate with her, even if its just touching or kissing. but make sure u touch her sensitively.

Adasun:
believe me eh!if oga Harddon da boss c dis ur jaggons eh.ur punishment no go be hear



na ur type dey make am provoke wella,infact e make i just short up da wait.

Adasun:
believe me eh!if oga Harddon da boss c dis ur jaggons eh.ur punishment no go be hear



na ur type dey make am provoke wella,infact e make i just short up da wait.

lol.. no skin me alive'oo.. I swear d thing be me like juju, unlike me.
I guess the best thing for me is to let her be.

HARDDON:
@ bolded 1, if u r all so so n no go go, why did u bother tuning her up @ all? there r situation where u can afford to do this n get away wit it, not just this one! N
U call ear loop none sensitive ? Like u didnt feel her twitch wen u did that? ARrrhh!!!


@ bolded 2, i put it to u that u didnt want to take it slow! U were just out of ur wits n breath! U didnt know how to smoothly transit raggae into blues moves or u were scared she might turn u down or her sis might walk in on u guys or u dont really fancy her festures.
Any of these reasons, i wud accept, but not taking it Slow with a tubbing JR n a wet n Willing Winnie.


@Bolded 3, u cant just show up like that to anybody's crib n expect positive response most especially after what happened ealier. N what were u thinking letting a gurl get under Ur skin n u go raising ur voice?
JR must hv been very despirate n u ofcos transfered that tru d phone to her. Who wudnt run?

@bolder 4, hit urself with a pitchbook! We wrong gurls, n still make them apologise. A man worth his ballzs rarely apologise for his actions or inactions! We make fun outa it or form vex n elicit appologies from em.

After your appologies, she can read tru u n know that u r despirate. N that drove her futher off.she no more sees u like she did b4, rather as one who is just interested in getting into her pants.


@Next bolded! Ur pvssy despiration kept pushing u on n on n then u committed the worst of all RED BLUNDERS! blurring out LOVE!
how hugely pathetic! I easily forgive u for all d other goofs but his one? I skin ur ballzs n dry them under A blazing Sun!

Is this even logically tenable? How do u explain this? That some1 has been ignoring u cos of ur acute despiration n d best u cud do to win her over is to preach that over used , super abused LUV gospel?
I'M RED FACED RIGHT NOW. NO CLASS NO HONOUR, NO COLOUR.

Luckily 4 u, , u knew u were blabbing. Saving grace.

The last bolded is what got u into this ish!
Wake up dude! Unless ofcos u wano go commiting d crime of rape, she aint coming back!

Exception: due to some act of unnatural hand or some def moves

Uve falling from d peek of perfetion where she once held u, to d dust of humiliation, despiration brought u.




To all reading this:
One thing u should know about crush is: it's called crush n just as it came consuming d cruher, it can easily get crushed. Just one wrong step, it Vapourizes n u sit wondering where it all went wrong. Hoping to give ur soul to hv it back.

U might have it back but ur soul is gone, so u wudnt still enjoy it. Itz a lose-lose situation......Just move it on

lol.. u really destroyed me.
thank you anyways.

(Exception: due to some act of unnatural hand or some def moves)) how do i go about this?

liljboy:
you've already tanked your boat.

tanked? I don't get that

HARDDON:

please help with the above.

Please I have an issue help me out.
There is this girl, she was all over me. So one day i went 2 see her, she lives with her senior sis but she was out. She gave me all the green light but for some bizarre reason i didn't make a move, not that i was scared because i played with her, lifting her up, licking her ear and all that. But that was all, no kissing and no sensitive touches. I wanted 2 take it slowly. So after that day she changed, she started acting up. So i decided 2 visit her again and give her d banging she wanted but i guess its already late. Was close 2 her house called her, she told me she wasn't around i got so angry that i yelled at her for her attitude. Few days later i called and apologized, told her i want 2 see her she promised she will come 2 my office ( managing my dad's business). Didn't see her, called her she didn't pick up, called her for more several days no pickup.. One day i saw her and her sister, they actually packed in front of my office, i came out called her 2 come inside, didn't see her i was so embarrassed. Days later i sent her a text, it was straight 2 d point, telling her i love her, how i was taking it slowly so feelings won't quench so quickly bla bla bla.. Yet no reply ever since..
I really Need 2 Bleep that girl 2 redeem my image. Please what's your advice?