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Politics / Re: South African Wives Of Nigerians Protest In Johannesburg by totalbaby(f): 7:39pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
Why are you such a miserable person Did your bf or husband leave u for a Saffer? Firstly you made an ignorant comment saying all Nigerians are fraudsters and "you are not nigerian" so they wat is your problem and why do you care what "us Nigerians" do Desola: 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: South African Wives Of Nigerians Protest In Johannesburg by totalbaby(f): 7:37pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
So when did this topic become Nigerian women vs South African women thing Truth is the vast majority of Nigerians marry Nigerians and South Africans marry South Africans etc so why are some people making a big deal about a few who are married to Non-Nigerians? This is just silly. For me i could not care less who strangers decide to marry after all is it my bf/husband they are marrying. I actually think it's sweet that the women are fighting for their rights and men and kudos to them. Also everyone has their own preferences, some "latina", SA, Nigerian, White etc that is up to them and does not make them less Nigerian or South African etc. Lets learn to respect one another. We are all africans |
Romance / Re: Why Don't Black Men Protect Black Women by totalbaby(f): 10:38am On Mar 21, 2013 |
Glad to know there are still some good blk men left xynerise: Bash my wife and you go no say a/c no be fan |
Romance / Re: Why Don't Black Men Protect Black Women by totalbaby(f): 10:36am On Mar 21, 2013 |
Men in a society degrade their women when they themselves feel no power. Its a sign of insecurity. Men with power and security are more appreciative of their women. When men feel disadvantaged in the larger power structure they need someone to push down below them...and whose easier than their own women? They have their machismo, anti female violence and misogyny to rely on (see hip hop culture). The lack of appreciation, lack of respect, and often times even resentment towards Black women is just another form of pathological self destructive behavior in the Black especially African American community that was planted many years ago. When women aren't respected, proper family structures cannot exist. When men don't provide for and protect their women and children its a sure fire way to ensure long lasting economic disadvantage. Its like when you take out your anger on the wrong person...often times the person closest to you who may even be trying to help you. Obviously, this is far from the general rule, but I feel like this issue subconsciously affects enough people, even if mildly, for it to now be a cultural phenomenon among the powerless and powerful alike. 11 Likes |
Romance / Re: She Want Us To Abstain From S*x! by totalbaby(f): 11:17am On Mar 16, 2013 |
Wow some of the replies are just sad. Firstly you need to speak to her about the reason she is abstaining. She is not a virgin or perhaps if it's for religious purposes then i can understand. Secondly be honest with yourself, if you cannot control yourself for the next 3years then it's best to be honest and call it quits before you cheat on her. If you really love her and see a future with her then you can do anything for her including waiting 3yrs |
Nairaland / General / Re: Who Is The Most Annoying Person On Nairaland And Why by totalbaby(f): 1:24am On Mar 16, 2013 |
i did for a while but u know nairaland can be addictive CAMEROONPRIDE: ^ thot you left NL |
Nairaland / General / Re: Who Is The Most Annoying Person On Nairaland And Why by totalbaby(f): 1:21am On Mar 16, 2013 |
lol CAMEROONPRIDE: i wrapped your sister na? |
Nairaland / General / Re: Who Is The Most Annoying Person On Nairaland And Why by totalbaby(f): 1:32am On Mar 14, 2013 |
It has to be Royal Charm. That guy just is a cyber bully. Never stops yabbing |
Nairaland / General / Re: Who Is The Most Annoying Person On Nairaland And Why by totalbaby(f): 1:31am On Mar 14, 2013 |
lmfao Temismith: Itsmodella. Just wait and see, she will soon carry her sabi sabi come her to prove wat i just said. |
Romance / Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by totalbaby(f): 1:30am On Mar 14, 2013 |
lol she seemed fed up. They chased her away, dunno if she"ll be back though [quote author=shymexx]Where's untouchablebela?? That chic is fionee!! [/quot |
Romance / Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by totalbaby(f): 1:28am On Mar 14, 2013 |
We get that you hate him so wat else now. This is a public forum. Visitors, youths etc visit this site. الملكي فوق الله: Those are Ya Pics...Lmfao@denying ya Own Face. |
Romance / Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by totalbaby(f): 1:26am On Mar 14, 2013 |
Dnt worry. I dnt get how someone can hate someone they have never met. It's a faceless forum ppl shud just take things with a grain of salt and move on. But kudos for not insulting back shymexx: They're not my pics, I already got banned for 200 years for posting them... |
Romance / Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by totalbaby(f): 1:20am On Mar 14, 2013 |
it was very bad. I mean even if i dislike someone i would not steep so low. I guess we have alot of vultures online itsekiri89: @Royal |
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