Why are you such a miserable person Did your bf or husband leave u for a Saffer? Firstly you made an ignorant comment saying all Nigerians are fraudsters and "you are not nigerian" so they wat is your problem and why do you care what "us Nigerians" do

Desola:

Girl, this is not the place to be for a girl with child.

Go on, go and suck a Naija lollypop, your baby needs it!

Stup1d woman coming here to argue when she should be eating carrots and crushing on ice.

You better leave this place for the sake of your foetus, oni yeye!

So when did this topic become Nigerian women vs South African women thing Truth is the vast majority of Nigerians marry Nigerians and South Africans marry South Africans etc so why are some people making a big deal about a few who are married to Non-Nigerians? This is just silly. For me i could not care less who strangers decide to marry after all is it my bf/husband they are marrying. I actually think it's sweet that the women are fighting for their rights and men and kudos to them. Also everyone has their own preferences, some "latina", SA, Nigerian, White etc that is up to them and does not make them less Nigerian or South African etc. Lets learn to respect one another. We are all africans

Glad to know there are still some good blk men left

xynerise: Bash my wife and you go no say a/c no be fan

Men in a society degrade their women when they themselves feel no power. Its a sign of insecurity. Men with power and security are more appreciative of their women. When men feel disadvantaged in the larger power structure they need someone to push down below them...and whose easier than their own women? They have their machismo, anti female violence and misogyny to rely on (see hip hop culture). The lack of appreciation, lack of respect, and often times even resentment towards Black women is just another form of pathological self destructive behavior in the Black especially African American community that was planted many years ago. When women aren't respected, proper family structures cannot exist. When men don't provide for and protect their women and children its a sure fire way to ensure long lasting economic disadvantage. Its like when you take out your anger on the wrong person...often times the person closest to you who may even be trying to help you.

Obviously, this is far from the general rule, but I feel like this issue subconsciously affects enough people, even if mildly, for it to now be a cultural phenomenon among the powerless and powerful alike.

Wow some of the replies are just sad. Firstly you need to speak to her about the reason she is abstaining. She is not a virgin or perhaps if it's for religious purposes then i can understand. Secondly be honest with yourself, if you cannot control yourself for the next 3years then it's best to be honest and call it quits before you cheat on her. If you really love her and see a future with her then you can do anything for her including waiting 3yrs

i did for a while but u know nairaland can be addictive

CAMEROONPRIDE: ^ thot you left NL

lol

CAMEROONPRIDE: i wrapped your sister na?

It has to be Royal Charm. That guy just is a cyber bully. Never stops yabbing

lmfao

Temismith: Itsmodella. Just wait and see, she will soon carry her sabi sabi come her to prove wat i just said.

lol she seemed fed up. They chased her away, dunno if she"ll be back though [quote author=shymexx]Where's untouchablebela??

That chic is fionee!! [/quot

We get that you hate him so wat else now. This is a public forum. Visitors, youths etc visit this site.

الملكي فوق الله: Those are Ya Pics...Lmfao@denying ya Own Face.

This niqqah Retardedd Yo..LmL

Dnt worry. I dnt get how someone can hate someone they have never met. It's a faceless forum ppl shud just take things with a grain of salt and move on. But kudos for not insulting back

shymexx: They're not my pics, I already got banned for 200 years for posting them...

Seun will tell you more about what happened between him and owner of the pictures...

I had my own stuffs I had to deal with...

it was very bad. I mean even if i dislike someone i would not steep so low. I guess we have alot of vultures online

itsekiri89: @Royal

Were those really shymexx's pictures? If so, then what you did was cold blooded! Did he snatch your girlfriend?