₦airaland Forum

Well if our culture has insisted that men must pay exorbitant prices as bride price,while the women just exist,then no one should hold men to such standards expected of women.
A man's money covers his waywardness.
Both genders are exploited by the marriage phenomenon.
Men are exploited of their money, while women are exploited of their morals.
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They don't understand what it takes to marry a woman.

They want expensive weddings when they do not deserve it

EMEKUSBOY9:
So you mean everything you understand about good women is " Non virgins & virgins" ?

NA WA!

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So you mean a lady that gives her self for free to a man and expect another man to pay is a wise woman?


LOL!

[color=#006600][/color]se you go help pay him debt [/quote]

I no owe you

[quote author=BEATNEST post=93673655]fool if her parents ask for 10 naira you could give then 5 naira na rubbish
bride price na bride price,no be you want marry am?
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Them don chop this one on credit!

More like buying a tokumbo car for the price of a new one. However, if the woman's status befits a handome bride price,why not?[/quote]Baba, if another man don chop her for free, she no deserve full payment.


You can not go to the shopping mall to buy a product with a broken seal. Such products are usually returned to the seller and you get your money back

Paying a huge amount as bride price for a non virgin Nigerian girl is the third most foolish things on earth.


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My brother, it is a sad thing!

The men who honoured their wives by paying their bride price and fulfilling all the marital requirements would testify to the fact that it is not easy to marry a woman.


Sometimes inorder to meet up, some guys even go stealing and borrowing based on the heavy requirements on the marriage list and other things as regards the marriage.


But the sad truth is, most cases these girls whose parents demand heavy bride price and big wedding requirements have been "chopped" for free by numerous guys and committed numerous abortions in the process.


It is very sad that a man will do all these and pass through pains for a very second hand product, especially when the man is a virgin


Non virgin ladies do not deserve full bride price, except if she was raped!


If you are not the person that disvirgin your girlfriend/fiancee my brother pay her bride price according to her worth.