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MrOreo:
Scratch what I said earlier. You deserve a crate.

Haha!
Thank you🙏🏽

Double0h7:
Maybe you could put the link in your-personal text- section on your profile because only members with a signature can see your signature. That way guests can also see the link without having to log in or register. Best wishes

You are far too kind! Thank you.

Sonnobax15:
God bless you ma'am.

You're one of the few sensible woman on here and I'm happy to know this.

Thank you🙏🏽

FaAbData:
Guys, are you sure it's a woman that just typed this? Are you sure it's a Nigerian woman for that matter?

Haha, I’m 100% Nigerian! 🇳🇬

I just believe it’s a journey for everyone.
While flaws exist on both sides, I truly wish more of us would focus on the intentional preparation that actually attracts the kind of men we desire.
There’s so much more power in working on our own hearts than in just pointing out what’s wrong out there.

neonly:
One of the few good women spotted
U will make a good wife /mother if truly u belief in yur say

Thanks🙏🏽

jericco1:
8

If not that you are married I would have come for you

Lol, thank you 🙏🏽

yemre:
The most sensible comment I've read here today. I wish most of our spinsters can reason this way. God bless you.

Thank you!
Amen🙏🏽

odinga1of:
God bless you for this comment.

Comment of the day

Amen!
Thank you.

TechBaron:
I'll support the Goldberg with one full cat fish.

Haha
Thank you!

Zocalite:
You are a rare nigerian woman to speak such way

Maybe you aren't a nigerian Sha

Stay Blessed

I am a Nigerian.
Thank you🙏🏽

One of the biggest mistakes we make is preparing for a wedding instead of a marriage. A wedding is an event; a marriage is an assignment. Are you building the character that can sustain what you are praying for?

ManknowThyself:
God bless and protect you always!!!!!!!

Truth is bitter, you got few likes

Many want a man but not ready to the healing process of being a peaceful wife.

Kings need peace, stability and growth.

Not noise and chaos

Amen!

I appreciate everyone stopping by to read this. One thing I want to add is that intentionality is the luxury of the wise.

Many of us spend more time planning a 6-hour wedding than we do preparing for a 50-year marriage.

If you find yourself in a season of waiting, don't see it as a delay. See it as a refining fire. Use this time to do the internal audit, check your character, heal your heart, and find your purpose.

When the foundation is solid, the building stays standing.
Who else feels like the waiting season is actually a hidden blessing?

MrOreo:
One bottle of Goldberg for you.

Haha!
It's much better to be sober and prepared for the journey of marriage than to go in blind. Glad the message resonated with you.

While it is important to identify the types of people to avoid, we must also ask: 'Am I the type of woman a godly, purposeful man is looking for?'

We often spend so much time studying the 'wrong men' that we neglect the internal work required to recognize and sustain a relationship with a 'right' one.

Readiness is a magnet. When you conduct a spiritual and emotional audit of your own life, you stop being a victim of 'wrong choices' and start choosing from a place of wholeness.

Don't just look for a man who fits a checklist, become the woman whose character and purpose are already aligned with the marriage you desire.
May GOD continually help us all.

Sisters, let’s talk heart-to-heart.

We spend so much time praying for the "Who"- the God-fearing man, the provider, the protector. But we often ignore the most important question: Have you worked on the "YOU"?

One thing I’ve realized is that marriage isn’t a reward for being patient; it is a responsibility for the READY. In my journey, I discovered that many of us are only "Waiting" instead of "Preparing." We are waiting for a ring to magically turn us into wives, not realizing that you must become a wife spiritually and mentally before the man even shows up.

Don’t enter marriage guessing. I wrote my new guide, "How to Become the Woman GOD Prepared for Marriage," to share the exact codes I used to shift from "Waiting" to "Becoming Prepared."

Inside the book, we dive into:
✅ The "Deborah" & "Ruth" Positioning: How to position yourself spiritually.
✅ Healing the Baggage: Why you must let GOD heal your heart before He hands you a home.
✅ The Assignment: Understanding that you are a "Help Mate/Meet" and you can't help a man if you too are not prepared.
✅ Stopping the "Clock": How to kill the anxiety of the waiting season and start living with purpose.

Marriage is sacred and too serious for "trial and error." You cannot afford to "learn on the job."
Stop leaving your future to chance. Start becoming the woman GOD prepared for the marriage you desire.

Enter your season PREPARED.
I have placed the link to my e-guide in my signature below. You can also comment 'READY,' and I will forward it to you.

Check @eande_lagos

Liposure:
kayamata go do am