₦airaland Forum

Ashewo gown.

Another angle to this. Guys use your head.

Oracleee:
Still I get friend wey dey use over 10m plan wedding. I advised him to rent filling station and even if na 1000 litre make e take start than wasting that sum on feeding ungrateful folks that might still find the flaw in his plans.

Dude wife to be don advise dude to ostracize me as I no be good company.

10M ? In this economy. The wife funny though.

Oracleee:
Depends on your definition of mediocre. A friend got married last week. He point blank told me ORE ko si owo. Dude went to court with is bride and family in ebonyi and afterwards, shared the snacks he can among the few families who came in. He even told me from the onset not to bother coming, I should convert the fuel money into gift if possible. After the court thing, they did prayer room wedding for them in his church and next thing he said he ordered 30k cake for himself and bride alone inside their new home. Funnily, he spent less than 400k and he jokingly told me he met the lady a virgin so he's planning getting her a car before 1 year together.


I always say, regardless of your pocket, there is always a market for you. Even 50 naira okirika dey.

Oh wow. Wahala for who dey look for event
centres

lereinter:
Eni toba taja erupe, a gba owo okuta

Ododo oro.

Church is not immune from corruption.

Have given up on Arsenal already. If we graduate with the top four, great. The league is out of reach.

lereinter:
Wan sokun fun e

Epe re o

The violent taketh it by force

ThaThinka:
The poster already read my mind! I don't feel sorry for him. It's not my thing to feel sorry for people who exhibited foolishness when I expected them to know better.

It's ridiculous.

Starzo:
Thunder ooooooo

Fire Tinubu.

Sheuns:
Agbaya

😅😅
DSS is coming for you.

Mtcheeew. Olodo president.

Tinubu did this one successfully.

idahme:
This is me, I can't, my wedding cost for a day can't be more than my marriage cost for one year. People just set themselves up for failure. Tell these women who push men around to contribute 25% of the cost and see how they will break up the wedding they dream about. Women don't give a damn about you it's just what they want so why play into that game?

The only reason why women want men majorly is because of that mindset that someone will take up that responsibility which they themselves should cater as an adult, ability to provide. Once you loose that ability by your intention to do what women want same woman will leave you because you have lost that ability to provide. Men should stay smart at all times

No lie detected here. You are absolutely right on this.

ElliotP:
Why do people think weddings must be big, get both families with few close friends together, do small thing then go home and rest, it's better to spend that huge amount on something that would last rather than spending it on a one day celebration, money wey you for use buy baby hanger, baby food and some kind things you don use am feed people, wetin your pikin go come chop when you born.

One bottle of Valetta wine for you.🍾

Nicepoker:
6million for a used Nigerian woman?

Be nice with your words na.

illicit:
Oya I am ready...

Send the bill.

Seunpapa65:
Moral lesson never try to please woman the can push the way u go take fall even to stand up again go hard you

Exactly. And she will still blame you for it.

illicit:
Why not...

Holla me when you are ready.

Crestaria:
3M for a wedding? To me that's even too much

Abi o.

Nonexisting1:
And he will still borrow to do paternity test on his children soon. What a foolish man.

😅😅😅

illicit:
Oh...

Should I bank roll your wedding illicit?

saintmm:
The man has set himself up for failure in marriage because debt repayment will make him financially responsible enough in marriage and many things will be lagging which will result to issues in marriage.
Always plan your event according to your size. There's no competition in this thing.
Get a good concept, plan ahead and be realistic with yourself. You will end up having very minimal bill to settle afterwards and you will be financially viable to take care of your responsibilities at home.
Peace!

You nailed it.

thesicilian:
How many people do you think can plan a wedding according to their budget ? We need to be realistic sometimes. Even a so called mediocre wedding nowadays can still cost more than a million naira, how many people do you think have that saved somewhere.

I understand your points but the parties involved have to agreed on not to exceed their budget. Besides some saved up for their wedding without necessary borrowing. If it's 500k you have, do your stuff and have peace of mind. Peradventure I have 20M in my account breathing, I won't spend more than 3M on my wedding. We have more important things to invest our money on.

nicho450:
He must pay back

By fire by force.

Babangidapikin:
At least they both have bills to pay jointly ...

dauntless15:
Now someone who doesn't know how he worked hard to build the palatial mansion will come from nowhere and mismanage everything he work for, cuz people tend to mismanage things they didn't work for, too bad the man couldn't take it with him to the grave, no rush life by saying I'll do anything it takes to become rich cuz at the end it won't matter, all your hardwork will be left at the mercy of someone who knew nothing about what you went through, if you're lucky someone wise might take over after you're gone and keep your legacy alive, but that's rare.

Word.

Keep resting.

Men, plan your wedding according to your budget. Don't allow anyone set you up for failure.

Carry on. Nigeria is behind you.