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Beorn1:
The emboldened is totally wrong. It can't be "deemed" anything. Like Laycon would say, opinions don't care about your feelings.


That you deem hugging and caressing a kiss, or Laycon deemed it that way, doesn't make it a kiss. Hug is hug. Caressing of back is what it is, caressing of back. It's not even caressing of nipplęs. If Laycon is actually using that incident as the second occasion, then he is 100% wrong

scondy:
He said they were both tipsy. For someone that has a crush on another....intimate hugging, pecks and caressing of ears and back can be deemed an almost kiss. If you dont want to kiss me why will u pull me into a close hug and then ur fingers are caressing my ears and back? ....right after i planted a peck on your forehead and then your cheeks. Isnt that a sexual move?

what do we refer to as signals. Erica may claim that wasnt her intention but she did send signals that made it seem she wanted a kiss.

Erica cannot be absolved of the act of always stringing laycon along. For some reason, she wanted him to keep wanting her. U may deny it , but it is nothing but Facts. He was meant to be the emotional cushion for her anytime Kidd messed up. If they had been on good terms that saturday night ....we would have seen her talk to Laycon again and see them hug and let each other... reason she went berserk. No one to offload her emotions to.

We are so fickle minded in this country. Especially the ladies. Once someone isnt in a poshly packaged appearance, we write them off. I took an interest in Laycon from the 1st day.

Elites could not fathom how an ordinary looking dude would nurse a romantic interest in a fine babe like erica? Na by fine? content and quality over looks and quantity any day. While it's not compulsory for Erica to feel anything for him .....a simple...Laycon I only see u as a friend and I am not attracted to you in anyway will clear the issue. Then telling kidd...please respect laycon by reducing the PDA in his presence will show she respects his friendship and appreciates whatever feeling he had.

But no, Laycon and Kidd will be playing a game....it is that time u would go and sit on his Laps and start kissing. Knowing fully well the guy has feelings for u. U can say she can do whatever, but its called courtesy and nconsideration for another. It's called decorum .

anyway sha, her lack of emotional intelligence and maturity is the reason she is out of the house now. Hopefully, she sits down, reflects and understand areas she got it wrong. But with deluded fans and e.nablers like yours, I doubt it.

Alexaonfleek:
Everyone is quick to condemn someones weakness.
That girl is a fighter and also hard-working. She's part of the whole fun and drama in the show and it will be unfair to condemn all her contribution cos of a weakness of hers.
I doubt if she would not have won that show. That girl got a brighter destiny ahead of her. She need a good manager and spiritual father to excel more. None among them all will go far than her.
She has alot to offer...let her work on her emotions and she will be fine.
Erica go and make sure u excel. Don't let this be a setback...see it as one of the crossroads.


Saw this on a comment on fp and this is my reply to froshloaded and zzor.
We will be alright laslas

Elites,we move!!!!!

Agbgift:
I feel he should accept her apology and his fans should do same, whether she means it or not. As for staying far from her when he gets out, I think both of them needs that... They should just settle their issue and then move on.

Agbgift:
Some bloggers will not make heaven I swear. Yesterday I read on some blogs that Erica was not stable mentally, hence she doesn't have access to her phone/ internet yet. Only for me to see the interview she did more than 12 hours ago. I mean why lie to gain traffic?
Any way Icons the girl has said she doesn't hate Laycon oooo. So make una let her rest.

Acidosis:
Rethink the Dora o. She's the strongest contender in that house after Laycon!

From a legit source, 5000 people donated money for her for the finals. Her fans don't make noise but they're strategic.

pongwa:
Now that Laycon is safe, who do I waste 2500 + 1700 votes on sef?

switlily25:
Exactly!

Demnan:
I remember him stressing this fact when he told Vee and Neo after the garden incidence. He said we almost kissed.

ebunchi:
We almost kissed not that she wanted to kiss you hmmmm o ga oo

Threebear:
The biggest victory for your laycon would be defeating Erica on stage .

If she's gone it will always be a case of she could have won if she wasn't disqualified.

The result has not been shown since week 1.

Her apologies outside the house will fetch her more sympathizers .

She is by far smarter than Tacha and with the management I'm hearing about , she'll fix her image and reputation .

She'll come out as the biggest winner of the show .

A damsel in distress.

The pure woman who was bullied by Nigerians for rejecting a man and was frustrated into disqualification.

Feminists will arise .

NGOs will come out .

Laycon's victory will be meaningless ( that's if it even happens) .

Most of you never look at the big picture.

You're consumed by your emotions just like Erica and it makes you pursue ephemeral desires.

Tacha's disqualification was easy because everyone wanted her out except her Titans and she never really improved ...Erica has lots of sympathizers that are not necessarily her fans .

If she's disqualified today ... everything I said here will happen and you'll come back to tell me I'm right again.

Bulldozer90:
MY JUDGEMENT
*clears throat*

Having considered the events of last night seriously, I will now give my assessment of the situation.

ERICA: she is too real, genuine and good to the point of naivety. She wants to be good to everybody and offend none. She is too loyal to people and expect complete loyalty from them too. She completely gives all and try to make everybody happy, even when she owes them nothing. When she picked kid as deputy, she did her best not to make laycon feel bad by explaining to him. Same happened to prince. She feels she owes prince a favour for being the one who "stopped him" from winning HOH when he came close the most, and even had to explain to ozo why she didnt choose tricky. You can say she is "loose" considering the way she gave kid all, but her mild and firm insistence that she is not attracted to laycon shows at least for what we see, that she is not a slut.For people who trust totally, betrayal of such loyalty provokes wild emotional reaction. We just saw it this morning.

KIDWAYA: He thinks he is playing game by not being loyal. How can you not be on her side when she has always been for you? Does he even know that laycon hates him more than Erica because laycon feels he took Erica from him. Laycon will still stab him deep in the back. Erica got her strikes largely because of her loyalty. Why didn't he make any effort at restraining Erica. He thinks if she gets disqualified he'll nave more fans? Lol

LAYCON: Dude is manipulative. Yes! He wanted to use Erica to trend and gain sympathy when Erica told him she wasn't attracted to him. Went about telling people she wanted to kiss him "a couple of times". Even Erica got visibly enraged the moment Ebuka revealed it. later When she asked for explanation, you waved her aside but when you saw that she has had a feel of drunkenness late night after the party, you suddenly developed interest over the issue. Such a snake. Is that how you pay her back for being your friend when everyone else looked down on you?

PRINCE: A bad dude, a wicked fellow and kid's asslicker. Erica that you are discussing about with dora and lucy is the same person who saved your failed ass from eviction today. No attempt to call a spade nor to stop you from acting out of order because you feel siding against her increases your chances and make you friend with kid after the show. This dude has been hiding his real aggressive, violent lying and malicious self the most in the house. Erica was right to call him all those names. Disloyal friends!

TRICYTEE: Although she owes Erika nothing, he is afraid of saying the truth and offending kid whom he asslicks. I learnt he later blamed laycon, prince and kid when they were not around. That shows he knows the truth. All these disloyalty had Erica frustrated, especially from people who owe her loyalty in return. Even ozo would have acted better if he was sober.

If she is punished I won't be shocked, but a disqualification may not be very fair considering that her previous strikes and the latest incident didn't involve physical violence. Considering also that Laycon, Neo and Vee also misbehaved and violated rules in varying degrees.

Mariinee:
First of all, I would like to say I'm ashamed of every single person that made an excuse for Erica's malevolent behavior last night. No reasonable person should have an excuse for the unprintable names she called another human being. Having said that, the first time I said on here that Erica is a narcissist, her fans came for my head. They said she's the purest of all the housemates, blah blah blah. But over the course of the show, Erica has proven that she is not the pure person she pretends to be. Her smile is a fake accessory plastered on her face to hide the vile persona beneath her beautiful face.

Erica is a highly pretentious and manipulative person, and she made this obvious right from the beginning of the show. In the first place, she manipulated Kiddwaya into being with her. That did not happen naturally. She practically pushed herself on him. To the average person, you may think that she did this because she actually likes him. Personally, I don't believe that Erica likes Kidd as hard as she likes to portray. The only reason she wanted/wants to be with him is because she knows/believes Kidd is the biggest catch among the guys in the house. Narcissists are not really the type to be with someone unless there is something to benefit from that person. Erica believes that Kidd is a prize, as she has made this evident from the things she says.

In the first week of the show, Erica tried to attach herself with Nengi so that they can become best friends in the house. Why did Erica try to do this? The first reason is that she believes Nengi is the only girl in the house that can compare and compete with her in terms of looks, which is why she said
they are the two hottest girls in the house. The second reason why Erica wanted to befriend Nengi is to block them from having to fight for the biggest catch in the house, which would be Kidd. She felt that Nengi is the only other girl that could catch Kidd's eye. In fact, I have reasons to believe that Erica is a colorist. This explains why she saw Nengi as her only threat. Erica also tried to befriend Nengi because of her narcissistic tendency to associate herself with the perceived best people in a group.

Erica, in her usual manipulative fashion, sought out Laycon because he probably seemed like an easy target. Firstly, she wanted someone (a guy) that she could always use as a fallback plan whenever she has issues with her main prize. Erica was never 'mentally attracted' to Laycon. She only saw an intelligent person that she could use to her advantage. Even though Erica clearly wanted to be with Kidd, she continued to do things to make Laycon stay with her as well. Basically, she wanted to eat her cake and still have it. Why? She knew Laycon was intelligent and attaching herself to him would help in one way or the other. That is the only reason she wanted to be friends. Oh, let me not forget and say that Erica believed Laycon was an easy target because of his looks. She believes that she is a beautiful girl and Laycon is an unattractive guy that would jump at any opportunity to be with a fine girl like her. This, precisely, is why she was perplexed and annoyed when Laycon didn't want to keep talking or being friends with her. In her words, "He should feel lucky to have me as his friends." This statement comes from the perception that Laycon is beneath her.

Many times, Erica has talked down on a lot of people in the house. From Laycon to Lucy to Wathoni and even Kidd, she has said despicable things that should make any right-thinking person cringe in disbelief. Erica has constantly asked Kidd, "Who do you think you are?" When I say this is because she thinks Kidd should be glad she is in his life, you all might laugh; but that is the truth. Erica is delusional, plain and simple. Even though she knows the kind of person Kidd is in and outside the house, she actually believes that she should be special to him. Erica believes that Laycon uses her to trend outside the house. She says this with confidence as if she has firsthand knowledge of the things happening outside the house. Why would she think Laycon is using her to trend? Because she thinks the viewers' brains work like hers. She is confident that she has plenty fans outside the house and Laycon doesn't because she is beautiful and Laycon is 'ugly.'

Last night, Erica said everything she has always had in mind about Laycon. Everything she said last night were things she already had in mind about him. I know that a lot of people believe Erica misbehaves when she's high because she can't hold her alcohol. I don't believe this. I believe Erica uses alcohol as a mask to say the things that she has in mind about everybody. She doesn't want to let go of her good girl cover, so she uses her drunken state to carry out her malicious intentions. Before I forget, Erica hates Vee for literally no reason. Yes, Vee also dislikes Erica but I think this is because she saw and figured out the game Erica was playing with Laycon. I completely understand Vee's disposition towards her because I also stopped liking her after deciphering her personality. In the beginning, I sincerely thought Nengi was the one who would display the behavior Erica is displaying because of how she wanted to string plenty guys along. Glad I was proven wrong. I could go on and on about the things Erica has done to prove she isn't the person her fans claim she is, but I think I have said enough.

I would like to conclude that Erica is a vile, pretentious, manipulative, and malevolent human being. She has poor self-esteem, but she tries to mask this by talking down on others. She is vile, but she hides the vileness behind her smile. She is insecure, but again, she hides this by talking down on the person she is insecure about. Erica is in desperate need of psychological help.

Instead of planning Erica and Kidd's wedding, elites should start saving to get her the help she needs. Selah.




A million gbosa for this post . Thank you for sharing..Honestly na fine girl syndrome things ooo dey worry Erica . unfortunately she bit more than she could chew with Kidd and Laycon

Threebear:
I've never seen anyone get a strike for flipping the camera or not sharing the HOH room .

Does Erica deserve a strike for everything she did last night? .
Definitely yes.


Did she deserve her first two strikes ?

No way in hell .

Biggie would be wrong to disqualify her today .

Give her a punishment or something , but outright disqualification would be wrong .


Let's try to be fair ....Erica deserves a place in the finale .

She's one of the most entertaining and competitive persons in the house and a worthy potential winner .

topboss:
I JUST WANT TO ADD DAT, IF OZO WAS YORUBA AND NENGI TRIED EVERYTHING SHE HAS BEEN DOING, THE VICE PRESIDENT YEMI OZINBAJO WOULD HAVE ORDERED FOR BIG BROTHER TO BE PULLED OFF AIR.


LAST SEASON, YORUBA PROBLEM WAS CEEC BECAUSE SHE REFUSE TO OPEN LEG FOR TOBI.

Ehhh..




THIS SEASON IT IS ERICA FOR SIMILAR REASON.



THIS SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT EHEN, I DONT KNOW WHERE U PEOPLE GET IT.




Y HAVE IGBOS NOT COMPLAINED ABOUT NENGI TREATMENT OF OZO?



FOOD FOR THOUGHT.

Threebear:
Erica's first two strikes were unjust and unnecessary.

If biggie disqualifies her today it will be the biggest L to the show.


They better not .


And you icons if you're such a formidable team , why do you want Erica's disqualification ?

fitzmayowa:
This is the reality show we paid for and that what we are getting....

fitzmayowa:
Erica just talked herself out of the show for no reason whatsoever, this is just terrible to watch so much potential to win....

When she gets out and sees that she has a lot of support that could have given her the money she will sure begin to regret every of her missteps....


Also biggie made a big mess by mandating HOH to pick DHOH of opposite gender and for mandating them to sleep on the same bed....

fitzmayowa:
Nope she was referring to Prince your first paragraph....

Aileexa1:
That is her game...her strategy.... Act a little movie then play the victim.. And yet, Elites would be calling Laycon manipulative.


Anyway, she has the right to act however she damn please even though it gives her disqualification. She herself said she would do anything to be famous. Just as Laycon can do anything he damn well wants. Its a fucking game!!!