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EmilyShoton:
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Hello

sorry I am seeing this late. First your sister didn't marry an impotent man. What your husband has is called "Sexual Exhaustion" which is the cause of his ED.

It has to do with his brain on porn. It happens to most men who used porn to masturbate at a very early age so their brain is twisted to porn and not reality.

To know nothing is wrong with your husband, when you visit a urologist, he will definitely tell you nothing is wrong after series of test.

It is not a permanent problem but a temporary problem and it takes the two of them to work this out.

How old is your sister? because maturity in solving this is very essential.

1. If your husband is still masturbating, he should stop that and porn. sit him don and tell him what you discovered. I believe both of you are very close so you can open up to each other, you are husband and wife

2. He should go 30 days pure without any sexual activity and then introduce sex unto it little by little. After 30 days, you will see immense improvement if you true to the 30 days but you wont be totally cured as it takes 90 days to recover from sexual exhaustion. after the first 30 days, introduce sex maybe twice a week which is necessary to re-wire the brain back to reality. He could also take supplements, eat a lot of fruits and drink a lot of water and also with a lot of exercise. This hasten the whole process. Some men have been said to recover within two weeks of sexual exhaustion.

3. you have to have that connection to be helpful, cuddle him, make him connect with you. You are even lucky he has an erection at all, some don't do so can't know if it is psychological or physiological. I married my husband with PIED and that is when I started making research on this health issue. I couldn't even make him have an erection but when he watches porn of masturbates, it is soooo hard and erect so we went through this process and now I even beg him to stop that I am tired . Once any man has an erection at all during sexual intimacy with a woman, he is not impotent so many factors can contribute to his sexual dysfunction which is very reversible.

4. google on "sexual exhaustion" and both of you should go through this together she will feel better when you discover its not the end of the world or your marriage.

This process takes a while so please be patient with him. He will also experience flat lines along this period so don't freak out during this periods

Her husband might not even know he had such until he decided to have a penetration with her so don't tag him a devil.

PIED (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction) is common among many men. Its psychological and very reversible so your sister should not freak out.

When having sex, both of them should relax and also see a doctor.

Lastly, please keep issues to you both, seek help together if you require but dont start telling friends and relatives. This is not maturity in marriage and be very careful so you dont spoil your marriage because that man will definitely recover if you both work together.

cheers

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