₦airaland Forum

Yorubasgreat:
Continue with thy self denial.. Smh!

You are the one deceiving yourself oga. You think they are a bigot like you?

Lies from the pit of hell, a Canadian mayor can't say this rubbish.

Smh, see as dem dey laugh, their children hooking themselves to continue the looting. Yet some people will want to kill themselves on top their matter.

Even though this is a good news for Nigeria, I don't know why the OP is been mischievous with the topic, I am a Yoruba man, but we are trying to do away with ethnic bigotry especially on Nairaland

Why always ABU? And this used to be a well respected tertiary institution in Nigeria, they are gradually losing it, no thanks to the Dino Melaye saga, and now this. The Senate must call the VC again to defend this one too.
The guy fit be Dino mate.

Dino seems to be doubting himself, why posting pictures again when the VC have confirmed he graduated from ABU?

nasha1:
no pained at all, i leave u with ritual and fraud too.

PDP seems too hot for Dickson now after the infamous committee report, he may be looking for safe landing steadily and slowly.

However, I don't see anything bad in wishing Tinubu a happy birthday, they may have a relationship that is much more than politics which is unknown to us.
Everything don't have to be politicised.

TonyeBarcanista:
As 2019 approaches, Nigerians must ensure that their PVC is ready to sack Buhari and his APC team from office. Enough is enough....



@Topic:RIP Mayowa

Hope you don't have PDP in mind?

The Hadith questions the manhood of a person who beats his wife up during the day and derives pleasure from her during the night. Good marriages require patience, kindness, humility, sacrifice, empathy, love, understanding, forgiveness, and hard work. Following these basic principles should help any marriage to improve. The essence of them all can be summed up in one sentence: Always treat your spouse the way you would like to be treated.

Amidst busy schedules and tasks on the parts of both women and men, Muslim husbands and wives tend to forget the real reasons behind marriage and likewise the rights of each other. Subsequently, they deprive themselves, their mates and their children of the happiness and tranquillity that is the bedrock of a successful family. This unbalanced vision towards a couple’s ideal relationship is bad enough to plunge the family into a situation laden with troubles and worries.

Negative Relationship between Husband & Wife
Some Muslim spouses relate to each other like adversaries rather than life time partners. The husband assumes the position of dictator, and whatever he says is not law. The wife on the other hand feels that she must squeeze everything she can out of her husband. Some wives do not express their gratitude to their husbands irrespective of how much the man may do for her. Instead they adopt an attitude of ‘never enough’ and make the husband feel like a failure if he does not provide every want and desire their extravagant lifestyles dictate. Some husbands speak very harshly to their wives, humiliate them, and even physically abuse them. Their wives have no voice or opinion in family matters. Moreover certain husbands become so cold and miserly that even the basic expenditure for the house is difficult to come by.

Nikah - A divine institution
The Nikah bond has been divinely established for the welfare and upkeep of a healthy and progressive community. This divine prescription has been unjustly utilised as a vehicle to perpetrate oppression, deception, humiliation, and abuse. Allah Ta’ala describes marriage very differently in the Noble Quran: ‘And from his signs are, He created for you wives from among yourselves, so that you may live in tranquillity with them, and instilled love and mercy between your (hearts) . . . “(30:21)

Head of the Home
The position Islam has accorded to the man as the head of the home is a responsibility which will be accounted for, rather than a privilege which should be abused. We are taught to treat our wives well. Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) has reported to have said: ‘The person possessing the most perfect faith is one who has excellent behaviour, and the best among you are those who are best towards their wives" (Mishkat)

Be Partners in Decision Making
Follow the principle of ‘Shura," (consultation) and make decisions as a family. Implementing this Sunnah within the home increases harmony and love between family members. It will also assist in enhancing trust and loyalty between spouses and the children.

Abuse
Abstain totally from every form of emotional, mental, or physical abuse to your spouse.

Watch Your Words
Be very careful what you say when you are upset. The wounds afflicted to the heart of a person by words will never heal and remain a lifelong memory. Sometimes you will say things that you would never say when you were not angry. Apply the directives found in the Hadith for suppression of anger.

Work Together in the House
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) consistently assisted his wives with household chores. When Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) did not consider the housework trivial, how can we today obligate our wives to all the house work and much more?

Communication is Important
Talk to each other, communicate, have a dialogue, but do it respectfully. Husbands and wives need to talk to each other. It is better to deal with problems early and honestly than to let them pile up until they explode.

Live Simply
Do not envy or cast your gaze towards those spouses who seem to be living a more luxurious life than your family. Be pleased with what you have. The grass will always look greener on the other side. The wealthiest person is the one who has attained contentment of heart. To develop the quality of contentment, look at those people who have less than you, not those who have more. Repeatedly thank Allah Ta’ala for the many blessings in your life.

Admit Your Mistakes
When you make a mistake, admit it. When your mate makes a mistake, excuse him or her easily. If possible, never sleep angry with each other.

Past Problems
Everything that has happened is history. Repent for the past and live for the future. Do not focus discussion on the past unless it is something that will make both of you laugh.

The Duaa for a blissful marriage: "Allahumma rabana hab lana min azwaajinaa wa zurriyyatina qurrata a-ayun waj-alna lil muttaqeena imaama" (O Allah! grant us such wives and offspring who will be a source of coolness for our eyes, and make us leaders of the Allah-Fearing)

Ashleydolls:
RIP in advance bro

lol. Best comment so far. Only person wey dey under spell dey commit suicide.

I dey wait for Aunty Kemi's first post after bail.

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[quote author=Neddyogu post=55077339][/quote]what is it that I don't read in the story? There is nowhere it was stated that any life was lost, or am I missing anything?

It means this country is a joke, if the judge truly sentence the young boy to death cos he stole phone of 87k? Yet a forner governor that stole billion was given a five years jail time, and even now he's on bail due to health reason.

Except perhaps something went wrong at the point of stealing, then he deserve such judgment.

Viking007:
No more free funding from this moniker. Post & share Your games, if You're consistent You get rewarded.

Nice.

Viking007:
I've become so lazy analyzing & arranging games. I now prefer to pay others for their games...

funding go reach me?

Josmila:
Can you guys just stop already?!?! Two NIGERIANS were mentioned in that news and they're regarded as such, the Indian police and law ddoesn't care what of Nigeria they come from.

Every time afonja this, Igbos that, it's so irritating to say the least. We the youth complain here daily how the older generation have failed us, but he's me thinking the youths of today are worse than them! We're divided by religious and ethnic lines. We need to do better please

I quite understand your point bro. Thanks.

Jetleeee:
Meeh! I'm just enjoying it while it lasts .

I have a feeling these mods will soon send me to jail

lmao, na Guatemala dem go send you go

Jetleeee:
Ipob thug: "Chiiimo... Even Fayose our savior is congratulating Tinubu"

https://i.imgur.com/MaE1i5O.gif

Maazi Onikuje is next

I swear dem go soon evict you from NL at last.

Neddyogu:
Like the clinic in Aso Rock?

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I doff my hat for South West politicians, there is UNITY even in diversity.

TonyeBarcanista:
It means he will spend it in the hospital

imagine that? Nigeria law is for the poor only.

So does that bail means he won't go back to jail? I think its high time the government build a clinic that can take care of things like this. How can someone that has been sentenced to prison got bail? This country is a joke.

ShinnBet:
And somehow you consider your opinions still relevant?

lol. Wetin he do? He rape?

azimibraun:
a clown that brings good things home is a goo clown to his people.

OK, thanks for that.

azimibraun:
only a few months ago, the man you are tlking about attrcte one of the biggest and most anticipated road projects to his constituency. I want someone to dispute this.

so? Is he using his money? Does that remove the fact that he's a clown? Abeg swerve

BERNIMOORE:
you cannot jump to conclusions now until all fact are presented,the school hold exclusive rights so no case it s landslide victory for Dino

moonslide.

khadaffi:
Pls just forget about your doubts. I've seen crazy things happen in our institution. Its the academic staff that can determine if a student graduates or not and the head of the academic staff (VC) has come out to say Dino graduated and you are still hoping they will prove the VC wrong. Do you think the VC is stupid? Even if Dino did not graduate, do you think the VC cannot cover the traces? I think you guys here are underestimating the powers and influence of the VC.

Power of VC to cover up? So we may assume that was what happened? I rest my case.

decatalyst:
This man is a clown

Is this the best Kogi West can produce? What a shame!

I wonder why Kogi West people voted out an educated Smart Adeyemi for this clown