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ladycomfort:
here comes the oko iyawo that just registered today

I don't know what oko means but I know iyawo means wife. If you're insinuating that I'm married to Siena, sorry to disappoint you. Someone doesn't have to be married to the man to state that the woman is lying. Then, seriously even if I was interested (which I'm not), a man that has touched Esther? Please, don't make me laugh.

There's nobody who encounters Esther who doesn't eventually see her for what she is, and pray for God to punish her thoroughly. Cos the kind of punishment Esther deserves is not the kind that is delivered by human hands! Ask her to confess the messes she created in Nigeria and the places she went before she got married, thinking she's gotten away with her evil - so that she can be free and her deliverance can start for real. Lying against people (including church members) who discovered she's not clean, so that she can discredit them before they talk has been her lifestyle right from Nigeria. If she's the good person she wants to portray here, not even one of her people or in-laws took her in or called Siena to order? But you're believing the stupid witch whose plans backfired.

Esther, I know you will read this. Know I am praying for you that Siena will ask you to take him back and you must do so. You must stay married to the father of your children oh!

Coolesther:
I wish there was gold to dig, but that man ain’t got NOTHING. Go ask

If you're telling the truth about being beaten, it's probably talking like this (to someone who is much bigger than you) that got you slapped and beaten silly. Silly girl.

Coolesther:
Let me tell you he not only did quarter he did the whole lot, a man who wanted kids so he could be collecting their benefits. He took their money right from when they were babies up until some months ago, my first daughter would be 9 in July so please do the calculations, up till now he is still being chased for Child Maintenance. He left his job all because he didn’t want to pay for his children and ran from England to Scotland, well he is still in the UK and I know the law of the land will definitely catch him soon. As for saying I contributed, to him being who he is that’s a big FAT lie, if you want to talk about a loyal, hardworking, respectful woman you don’t have to look by further. Like I mentioned earlier on my only offence was to LOVE him just was it was supposed to be.

You are saying I contributed up him sleeping with a friend in our house who came on vacation, what about him having an online affair with other nairalander, who he sent to insult and humiliate me both online and offline, or you want to talk about his girlfriend buying my children’s Christmas gifts, pls don’t let me start.

Or I contributed to the fact that he refused paying rent for months and we were kicked out of our home, we had to go stay in a hotel before he abandoned me and my children to go to Uganda to go meet another woman.

So, you knew a man was having children to collect benefits but you kept contributing your body to help him? He was taking their money from when they were babies, what were you doing ma? Enabling him! Mother of the year, I hail. Other mothers fight for their children's rights but your own is different. You don't even love your children, so who can you love? He used them for benefits, you used them to look married! Evil woman. You see why I said your children don't deserve either of you as parents?

Lol! Liar. Esther, you KNEW exactly what Siena was like but you married him because you're exactly the same. Can you swear you didn't know Siena was violent? Has Siena not bragged openly about terrible things he has done? He deliberately smashed someone's leg in a car door; you heard that but you didn't run! Instead, you allowed him father your kids cos you're greedy and wicked. Ahhhhh, you thought he can do bad to others but not to you; what are you, God? No good woman can be with a man who's polite to her but rude to a waiter. You gauge a man's character from how he treats others, not just you!

This bad marriage was the beginning of your karma for the evil you do/did behind closed doors. You lie against others and think it can be well with you. God isn't asleep after all; it's just that He's patient. Your juju expired or did you forget to top up? SMH. Some of you desperately evil women do all sorts to travel out to marry while claiming to serve God; they do work for you but don't tell you the other side. Don't sit in one place, oh. Keep jumping from pillar to post, mixing and matching, thinking you're mocking God. See now? Has God not shown you He's more crafty than you? I'm sure when your marriage seemed to be working, you thought you had gotten away with evil and were concentrating on peppering your so-called haters. Not knowing God was giving you opportunity to repent.

People like to say how women are queens, forgetting that Jezebel was also a queen! Before you talk about how you want a good man, ask if you DESERVE a good man. Esther, would you even know what to do or how to interact with a good man? You were damaged before Siena met you; that's why he was drawn to you. He recognized his soulmate. Soulmate isn't just about Hollywood and happily ever after. Those who have encountered and tried to love you learn with time that you're just a violent, mean-spirited, envious, abusive person who is angry at life and has no morals, empathy or self-esteem. You cover your issues up well with church. But if a sane, good man had ended up with you, you'd have killed him after breaking him. I don't know if you're naturally like that or it's your idea of defending yourself cos of the abuse YOU SAY you suffered when you were a child. I make it a point to say "you say" cos the narrative of the evil stepmother and weak father always makes people pity you. But your character is so bad and you're such a good actress, that nobody knows when you're lying. So after all you claim you went through in Nigeria, you gave a man your ALL while refusing to develop yourself and you want applause? Even some call girls don't do what you did. Is there noodles where your brain should be? In the UK where you had all the opportunities! Are you not a fool?

So, yes dear, you got what/who you truly deserve in Siena. The only people to pity in this are your children who don't deserve either of you as parents. Now on top of all your nonsense, you're also BITTER, saying you won't give anybody else opportunity to damage you. You'll look for an innocent man to punish, become a misandry champion and say it's feminism.

Esther Emeobume or whatever you call yourself, go and repent! Getting your papers isn't the end of it. UK government is not God. Papers get revoked everyday, you just don't hear of it. You think your problems are over, but you're mistaken. The so-called friends you think you have, or attending church cannot save you cos you're a bad person. You cannot make other people cry, yet think smiling is for you. This relief you think you have, is temporary. And the next wave that will hit you will wipe you out and make people know that God cannot be mocked. When you do bad to people and they keep you quiet, it's not cos they're weak or stupid. Some don't answer you cos they know where to carry your matter. The more time that passes, the worse your losses will be. Esther, look for the people you grievously offended (especially those that didn't talk back), KNEEL DOWN, apologise and make restitution. If not, you'll return to Nigeria with nothing but the clothes on your back.