Family › Re: Pregnant And Depressed. by Twaci(f): 11:29pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
bbmpin: [color=#000050]Take into consideration the fact that she is a single mother and is possibly struggling to feed the first!
She has a life ahead of her, How does having another fatherless child aid her future?
Do you have a child? Do you have any idea the demands it entails? Do you think that it is logical for a child to be born fatherless? Committing an innocent child to a future without promise or love is wrong!
You have every right to air and stand by your opinions but try to empathize things from the view of the child
If you can't love and provide for kids DON'T HAVE THEM! #think about the child. [/color] Dude seems like you are screaming  Easy there  Troubledheart, I'll use his words now; If you can't love and provide for kids DON'T HAVE THEM! #think about the child ...but if you can, why waste it? |
Family › Re: Pregnant And Depressed. by Twaci(f): 11:00pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
bbmpin: [color=#000050] I see!
Bringing an innocent child into this world to suffer just because "you" want to protect a "religiously incentivized moral sanity"
Got nothing against being "moral" but when it's blinds your will to empathize then its questionable
Think about that child and the kind of life he/she will live in this world
No love from the father, dysfunctional home: I don't need to be a psychologist to understand that such upbringings lead to damaging consequences
Look at it this way he or she will most likely become an unruly individual that will cause harm to multiple people
There are many "abortions should have beens" out there, lets be real! [/color] My opinion has nothing to do with religion. What I'm just trying to say is; if she's able to go through whatever she went through for the first child and raised him/her to this point, I do not see why this second child shouldn't be offered the same chance. **modified** Point of correction, not all kids without the love of a father becomes unruly and harmful. Most times it doesn't even end up in a dysfunctional mess. Beautiful kids with great minds have survived these situations so I don't see why this should be a problem. Troubledheart, if you'd be unable to cater for this child, tell his/her father. And if he refuses to take up its responsibility, it's definitely up to you to do away with it. |
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Family › Re: Pregnant And Depressed. by Twaci(f): 10:37pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Not an easy option, but I'd advise that you keep the child. You might have made a couple of mistakes but I assure you that the child isn't one.
If you don't want to tell your ex, fine. But the truth cannot be hidden for long...
Not to sound like a jerk but you are already a single mother, what's going to change if you add another? You've already been burnt by the fires of stigmatization, what more will the world do to get under your skin? Nothing that you can't handle.
Lastly, be careful next time. |
Jokes Etc › Re: Virgin Mary by Twaci(f): 10:00pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Well who can blame her? She said it herself that she's feeling crazy  |
Romance › Re: Question For The Ladies And Gentlemen Of Nairaland. by Twaci(f): 9:47pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
comshots: Like when you need an iPhone or Samsung note you will run to him ba?
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Romance › Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Twaci(f): 9:41pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
It's not easy you know, easier said than done. |
Romance › Re: Please Is It All The Ladies That Have Camel Toe? by Twaci(f): 9:40pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
kinginvagina:
I want to know the origin of camel toe. lalasticlala
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Literature › Re: The Journal Of A Nymphomaniac by Twaci(op): 9:37pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Question For The Ladies And Gentlemen Of Nairaland. by Twaci(f): 9:19pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
darkmarky: yes and if your parents don't have, he is the last resort. na wa o only ladies I know have financial troubles, at the end you'll see them using the money they extort from guys to buy make up and wears.
who da hell date guys for the purpose of getting help if she encounters financial difficulties? lol I never said we should go into relationships just cause of needs and wants...you insinuated that. Secondly we don't extort money for makeup and whatnots, at least not all of us, we do have other reasons for existence asides those. Could be to support our business, to start one or to create avenue for better investments. My opinion stands, I can't be in a relationship where the guy will be unable to support me. |
Romance › Re: Question For The Ladies And Gentlemen Of Nairaland. by Twaci(f): 9:03pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
darkmarky: but he is not your parents. isn't that what parents do? I can't stay under them forever y'know  So say as an independent lady I get into some sort of trouble and needs financial help, and come up to you as a boyfriend to help me, you will refer me to my parents? Really?  |
Romance › Re: Question For The Ladies And Gentlemen Of Nairaland. by Twaci(f): 8:44pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Without sex...no.
Without money...you should be able to take care of me in my difficult times. |
Romance › Re: The Control Freaks CUTE OR NOT ? by Twaci(f): 8:39pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Never endearing  Most people wrongly see this and arrogance as confidence, there's a line between these. |
Events › Re: NLDERS Hook Up With Your Birth Day Mate. by Twaci(f): 5:11pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
August 26  |
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Romance › Re: An Open Letter To My Future Wife by Twaci(f): 4:33pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Alondra: You never told us mamagee is your future wife. Only a clown will put up with this Cold just catch me now 
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Romance › Re: My Pre-wedding Photoshoot by Twaci(f): 7:27am On Dec 27, 2016 |
Very lovely pictures!  You two look good together. I love the simplicity in the pictures and the message each shot sends... |
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Romance › Re: Nairaland Beach Party 2017. Come Here.... by Twaci(f): 10:38pm On Dec 26, 2016 |
Mediapace: Lanicky aminat508 twaci laveda myfantasies, you're all coming right? Nah, I'll be busy that day  |
Romance › Re: Pictures Of Nairalanders Having Fun Together by Twaci(f): 10:16pm On Dec 26, 2016 |
Good one  |
Family › Re: Pls Advice Urgently Nairalanders... by Twaci(f): 9:13pm On Dec 26, 2016 |
Hmm
What exactly are his reasons for his behavior? He must be upset about something for him to continuously act this way...
Ask your mum or better still a close relative. Or you may also reevaluate yourself, you may think you're simple, less complicated and with no issues but might actually be unconsciously doing things he does not like...
And if there's no tangible reason, have a family meeting setup and tell them what's going on. Worst case scenario, he's sent out of the house to start his own life and stop bugging yours. |
Romance › Re: Am Hot :-( Dis Is Wat I Nid by Twaci(f): 7:28am On Dec 26, 2016 |
Hmmmmm |
Romance › Re: Wish That Special Romancelander A Merry Christmas!! by Twaci(f): 7:57am On Dec 25, 2016 |
makydebbie: Merry christmas hun Merry Christmas dearie  Make sure you have fun today! |
Romance › Re: Wish A Nairalander A Merry Christmas And A Lovely End Of Year by Twaci(f): 7:56am On Dec 25, 2016 |
crazygod: OK. These writers made nairaland worthwhile for me this year. Merry Xmas to Bibijay123 Mrsexplorer Twaci
But most especially Bibijay123. Thanks a lot dear. Do have a very Merry Christmas and a prosperous new year  |
Romance › Re: Wish A Nairalander A Merry Christmas And A Lovely End Of Year by Twaci(f): 7:55am On Dec 25, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Upload Your Pics Here by Twaci(f): 7:53am On Dec 25, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: If Romancelanders Were High School Students by Twaci(f): 7:52am On Dec 25, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Wish That Special Romancelander A Merry Christmas!! by Twaci(f): 7:51am On Dec 25, 2016 |
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Merry Christmas dearie!  Merry Christmas to you all mentioned above too!  |
Romance › Re: Upload Your Pics Here by Twaci(f): 12:11am On Dec 25, 2016 |
ThuGnificenX: you are deceptive...  Did it start with 070 or 080? Hmmm Okay since it's Christmas, here's my number: 08025122016 Please call later today, it's late for calls. Deleting soon  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Merry Christmas to everybody in Nigeria. by Twaci(f): 12:07am On Dec 25, 2016 |
GeniusDavid: Merry Christmas Twaci. Merry Christmas David  |
Romance › Re: Upload Your Pics Here by Twaci(f): 12:07am On Dec 25, 2016 |
ThuGnificenX: next is to comb your topics for your number... expect my call tmrw morning. Oya na, let's see. It's a.m. already  |
Romance › Re: Upload Your Pics Here by Twaci(f): 11:54pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
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