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Is he trying to say we have no right to be opinionated when married?

We should agree to whatever our "masters" say?

This particular sermon is unsettling

WindUpMerchant:
alright miss twaci, I have kept you here long enough. you should go back studying.

Already did. Later then

WindUpMerchant:
Sure I can. An atm card cannot do all monetary transactions.

That's true. Just be patient.

WindUpMerchant:
nothing much dear. as usual the future, money on my mind. I wan go bank before, but the rain ruined my plans

Kpele. U can always go later. Abi don't u have an atm card?

WindUpMerchant:
well, I expect u to move with friends who will aid ur acad work, not a chatterbox .I have my dear,I had pasta and corn flakes. I hope u are not stressing urself too much in school.eat well, sleep well.it'll help you focus well

Thanks a lot . I sure will.

So what have u been up to?

WindUpMerchant:
slow day. its being raining all day, nothing is moving. you could study with friends, that will be much be interesting.

Friends would cause distractions biko

Funny enough it's not raining here. Don't worry the day will get better. Hope u have eaten...

WindUpMerchant:
its okay miss, I hold no grudges. an apology goes a long way in mending bruised feeling, which uve done. How is your day going?

Boring....

Been preparing for exams. Just took a break from my books.

And you? How's the cafe going?

saintfellow:
SMH what if the guy is a ritualist, meet him at ur own perry. "mayb the babalawo told him to find a black lady 4rm nairaland.

Lol!

I don't think so. He's a nice guy

WindUpMerchant:
I have never claimed you upset me miss twaci. You succeeded in upsetting me by ignoring me last night

I am so sorry

Please forgive me

WindUpMerchant:
I completed my ban yesterday, and I had not seen miss twaci here for a while.I promptly asked about her wellbeing from her friends laveda.they told me she was fine. Yesterday I saw her comment on a thread,then I quoted her but she ignored. I though it was a mistake or maybe she didn't see it.I quote her next post, yet she still ignored me.

Hey Merchant. Am so sorry. Just didn't want to upset u like u always claim I do.

Can we talk now?

I even look older than her

groundnutoil:
Same miss .eminent biochemists school of solid chicks. Hope u slept well u preparing for exams

Haha! SOSC? We are no longer under SOSC....it's SOBS now. Biological sciences.

I am reading....just hope it's enough

groundnutoil:
Same stay at eziobodo chemical engineering.dept?

Biochemistry.

Good morning

coolkris:
what number, r u demented

Good night Chris. Nice talking to you

coolkris:
seriously I hate u

U don collect the number?

coolkris:
kindly fvck off

Please na gimme eba!

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coolkris:
Co's I hate u

Oh! Cool

Pick a number dear

coolkris:
I will ban twaci

Ha! Why?

Finally this "gold" chain won't be more than N1500....

groundnutoil:
Sorry miss u look very familiar(not a toasting line i mean it)are u a studnt of futo? Stay in nddc?

Yes I school in futo but I don't stay in nndc. I stay off camp...

You?

Muvacci:
Not too close... but close enough that #50 can take me to the Govt house and back if I'm going by keke or cab. That's about how close.


I guess you hardly ever step out of that vicinity..?

No I don't really. It's more about school for me

Good morning

Muvacci:
Never expected you to shaa cos its far from where you are.

Its the orange and ash coloured semi-scrapper right adjacent the Govt house. Very popular right now. Can be spotted on that pic too.

Yeah! Now I can.

You stay close?

Muvacci:
Can you spot Rock-View in that pic?

Ummmm the thing is I don't really go out and don't know what it looks like.

But I have heard of the place.

mhiz:
Shift your bumbum for me, I bought popcorn

Abeg carry your big bombom shift small

Gimme popcorn na

Fynestboi:
See as Twaci carry first to comment.

Who no like better thing?

Observing...

This is sad

Nigerians how do we tackle this issue effectively? Because whatever we have been doing is not working.

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Happy new month guys..

May Almighty Allah bless y'all this month..

Thanks dearie!

Same wishes to you

knuckbuck:
Thank you. My mother is sad about all this. My mother-in-law will not even pick up her calls. I have talked to my wife, pastors have spoken to her, older women have spoken to her. She insists her mother is not happy with me and because of that her mother's happiness is what's important to her. She said her mother has suffered too much for her to turn her back on her. As far as our kids are concerned, the law of the land favors her because she is the mother. She thinks getting a house and receiving child support is enough. I'm this society it is best to raise your kids together. At the end of the day, we are just another set of black immigrants. I tried to make my wife understand this but to no avail.

I still don't think divorce is a good idea. Insist on separation for the meantime.

But if the matter continues this way, let her do what she wants. You will just have to move on.

But here's an advice that comes from experience, no matter what happens, do not let them distance your kids from u. Always keep in touch no matter what it takes.

Hmmm your MIL is something else....

Where exactly is your mother? She could help talk some sense into your wife and her mother and stand for you in this "fight".

You could also sit your wife down and find out what truly is wrong with her and in the process let her know what she'd be losing should she insist on a divorce. Suggest separation instead and if she agrees, let her go alone(not with your kids).

Something about issues like these is that the person u are looking out for will not listen to you until the bitter conquences reveal themselves. So don't fight it. Let her go and learn.

.....Also if I were a religious person, I would say u should pray about it too. Could be spiritual ties and blindfolds on your wife

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