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dannyben5:
thanks twaci,mimzy and others for the answers

Its our pleasure dear.

dannyben5:
av been observing, now my quest.why is it that girls can never summon the courage to walk up to a guy she like even if she dying imside to have that guy?

Could be she's shy, or waiting and hoping you notice her first.

There's this mentality that if a girl steps up to a guy, she's cheap. That could be another reason.

Or she's watching and studying you, waiting for the right time to strike.

Good luck bro

Cutehector:
Fourth Question

When a girl visits a guy in his house/lodge and they are just new in dating, is it appropriate for the guy to initiate any form of intimacy

or is it advisable for him to be patient enough until when she is very much confortable with him so as to avoid any form of awkward moments

I'd advice he be patient. She could be testing waters, to see what he's really all about. Is he really in for sex? Or commitment?

Announcer007:
I am very impressed with the both of your opinions almost like an expert marriage counselors. But unfortunately I am opposite of the man you described in your writeup. I shower my with complements buy her gifts every now and then , she drives the best suvs in my garage but recently I got proof that she's fvckin the driver. Even when she refuses me on the claims that she's tired from her business or tear she had over 10 yes during child birth is still paining her. Why this behavior

Like I said, communication matters.

Do not beat around the bush, tell her what you have noticed and let her defend herself.

Now ask yourself;

Is she remorseful?

Is she willing to try again?

Do you love her enough to carry on?

The answers to these questions will help you make a decision.

Smellymouth:
What is the most commonly missed activity or action in the bedroom that all guys should be doing?

pre-intimacy!

We do not want a slambam!

Make us want to give it up, u'know.

firstking01:
My humble question...what do girls really want in life, i bet the op can't answer this question cos even google sef no know am

They want to be truly happy.

RoyalBlak007:
But in case there happens to be a glitch in the relationship..

[color=#AB56BA]they get promoted immediately ....true again innit?[/color]

Not true.

I won't say I haven't heard of such cases. But most times those friends usually remain friends...unless they prove they are better than just that.

RoyalBlak007:
Girls always have "assistant boyfriends"..Which is so true...there is always that other guy who's better than their current bf...who might be 'just a friend' or 'my cousins friend' or 'my bf's elder broda'

[color=#AB56BA]Say something to this....true innit?[/color]

True. Do not think that they are not there.

But here's what should count, we chose you guys over them. We chose to spend our time and affection on you not them. We love you not them.

Cutehector:
Third question

In your opinion ladies, what are those things you don't like that guys always form a habit of doing

1. Do not give me the dream of forever when its not.

2. You can have female friends but I should come first.

3. No passwords on phones please (just joking oh!)

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]Thanks for your answer

One thing that bothers me again about girls


You express your feelings for a girl you truly like, and she's like'' you just want to use and dump me''

I don't get why some of them think like this

Cc: Twaci and other ladies here[/color]

Once bitten, twice shy, they say.

Could be she's been hurt before and wouldn't want to go through that path again.

True love is when you make her forget it all.

JoeCutie:
So it's safe to say you're not an advocate for gender equality then?

No I am not.

Announcer007:
Why do women refuse their husbands sex but still go fvck houseboys , plumber, driver or securityman?

Could be she's unsatisfied with her marital sex life.

Communication (true and heartfelt communication) is advised here.

JeffreyJamez:
Twaci answer me this.....why do some females expect us males to be mind readers?..

This case usually occur when the guy gives the impression that he is a Know-all.

Could be she's left clues and signs as to a particular situation but you failed to notice.

mimzy:
I'm here

Welcome darling

JoeCutie:
Why do you think men and women should be equal, but then most of the responsibilities during marriage ceremonies - traditional and white wedding- and in the family are taken up (mostly only) by the men?

Cc: Twaci, and or anybody (female) who cares to answer.

I never said men and women are equals. But then, I feel that most men feel we should be submissive even when ill-treated. Now that is what I am not in support of.

Respect, they say, is reciprocal.

Maxi112:
what abt in a situation, his guy doesn't know abt it, and the girl chooses to musterbate over giving it to her guy or even those in her friend zone? what do u think that can cause such devilish act

Its her personal business.

But IMO, it is unhealthy for her relationship then.

Cutehector:
I wish to ask a question too..




I'd use a story to explain myself. I hav this female friend, we'v been online friends for years.. way back to the very times 2go came up, up till this day, we'v not yet met ourselves in person. Well dats not the issue. She says she met a guy sometime last year and dis guy in question is the nicest man any girl can wish to have, and dat he even proposed to her.. she told me dat she doesn't love him


I'm so surprised.. like seriously, u hav someone who lavishes u with gifts, is caring, nice, gentle, cute, buh she doesn't feel any love for him.

I duno if u get my point


So my question is this


What is it dat a guy will do dat will make a girl attracted to him.. cuz from what she told me, this dude is 100 percent cool..

Hmm.

Could be his 100% ain't what she's looking for.

My cousin and i discussed an issue like this yesterday. He complained that he's been very sweet to his girl and he feels she doesn't appreciate it. What more did she want?

I told him to stop whatever he was doing and take a break from it all. Are you fond of complimenting her for almost everything she does? Reduce it. Give her compliments only when necessary. If possible, make her work for it. Only then would she value it.

If she complains about being too nice, dude buckle up your Mr. Goody goody. I am not saying you should be rude or mean, just limit it. If you always buy her flowers, limit it to only memorable occasions.

Hope you get this?

Maxi112:
is it right for a girl in a relationship to masturbate?

I feel this can be considered if her boyfriend is in support of it.

If he is okay with it, fine. If not, he'd better get ready to give it to her, whenever, wherever, however.

Cutehector:
Ladies, pls twaci shouldn't be d only one answering questions, I urge other ladies viewing to post their opinions alson on questions asked instead of moping like one zombie dat is lookin for banana.







Refiner if I catch u watching eh? U just better contribute an answer

Thanks dear

chigoizie7:
If the virginity of a girl is so important to her and also well treasured, why would she allow a guy fùck her and she enjoyed it(the sex) only to start blaming the guy for popping a cherry he didn't get by force?

Refer to this article, if you may

https://www.nairaland.com/2232099/first-time

Thanks.

rawpadgin:
ok, why is this particular girl in my street always stares at me?

May NOT be because she likes you.

Could be you look like an old friend (or enemy).....

Why not step up to her and ask

RoyalBlak007:
agat lots of Q's buh I dunno

[color=#AB56BA]if am gonna get honest answers[/color]

Let's see about that

refiner:
...present ma!!!

charijee:
☆☆☆

Welcome sisters

Ireneony! Do come in!

macdon4all:
OK here is one y do sum gals do play hard to get?

chigoizie7:
Ok, why can't some girls do without doing initial gra gra, even when dey know it is all about drilling the hole?

Not to look cheap

Okay, thats a cliche.

Let's put it like this, we feel and know that respect can only be earned. Our gragra is a way of earning that respect u'know. We feel you guys will underestimate our value if we quickly jump into a relationship without the guys working for it.

Work for it if you want it...the way you work for and treasure that fuel you queued for for two days

SANDOSKI:
*Wey my popcorn...show don start....

Welcome sis, better follow answer questions too oh

UyiIredia:
What's the best way to approach a girl ? Nice idea you had by the way.

Our first question! Yay!

Ok let's see....

Approaching a girl is actually quite tricky. Before you do stuffs like this, you need to know;
1. What type of a girl she is. Is she a romantic? Or is she one that believes romantic gestures are stupid? Is she one that can carry a conversation?

2. Her mood. At that particular moment you want to talk to her, what's her mood? Is she happy? Cranky?

3. Her likes. Most girls love guys knows what she likes. Could be her favourite shows, or a particular color. Make her feel you are really interested in her.

And just when she's totally comfortable with you, strike

Good day nairalanders!

So I was bored and thought of this; why not create an opportunity for guys to know us girls better?

So I did. This is an open thread where guys are allowed to ask questions, any question, about girls/women/ladies and I, or any female, can try to answer.

Are u confused about girls? Or moods? Is there anything you would love to know about us? Let us know and see how we can help

Ladies in the house! Who's up?

Laveda
Diddyydiva
Adeh39
Lanicky
Omotayor123
Dollyjoy
Refiner
Ivyy or ivvy
Mimzy
Optional1
Mysticalgal
Farano
Safarigirl
Misspicy
Ishilove
Estharfabian
Michella
Cherryice
Sinaj
Missmary
Charijee
Taashamania
Dechanel
Tohphaz....
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...Every girl out there!

Let's have fun

babadee1:
Pls no excuses for criminality ma.

Oga nitori Olorun, just esumo......like far away

She looks like Wizkid!

Well she used what she had to get what she wanted....

Oga I boldly put it to you that you are Mr. Barakumo!

Now stop tarnishing this girl's image and get outta here!

If u have issues with her, trash it with her and stop disturbing us with your mumbo jumbo!

That said, have a lovely night