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Cutehector:
wen i registered did u tell me welcome? Its over

But

After everything we have been through

Welcome!

I was enjoying this

OP

BrideOfDracula:
The irony of him with "thug" on his moniker

it'd be a lie if u said that didn't cross my mind too

Pastor

See his face.

CrazyScientist:
Twaci! So you're alive...

Hey Crazy!

Happy Sunday!

kannymoore:
Shebi nah?

wink wink

I comment my reserve

kannymoore:
you sef...

do you apologize when you MESS... I bet YOURS has far more microbes innit??!!!

I TRUST YoU... Fine Girls FARTS never disappoint!!!

BrideOfDracula:
It's not about being superwoman. IDK but I dislike people who crumble, sob & be annoying in the face of danger. Remain calm & never let them see you sweat.

Your problem is that you high-tailed out of there & left your woman to fend for herself. A soldier ant would have defended her better than you did She's right to get rid of you. You're girly

Preach on sister!

Cutehector:
yeah yeah. Rite. Bak den I told myself I wouldn't wana hav anythn to do with yoruba inlaws... I think i'm tryn to reconsider cuz the kind of yoruba gals i"v been meetin so far hav made me Change thoughts on dat

Yoruba girls are lit! I wouldn't blame you bro

Cutehector:
oh really.. d last thing a yoruba guy will do is to throw the first punch...

Not when they are drunk oh!

Then they just need the tiniest excuse to lash out.

Have u tried aloe vera?

Its gel work better than creams....and its natural

Cutehector:
Twaci hav u been to lagos?

Yes. Partially grew up there

Not when he is drunk though

vicstar:
heyo!! What do u think about me coz am tatty tiwi years old

Eni suuru! I shall think about it

Frankly, I prefer older men. Like 7 - 10 years older than I am.

I feel they have outgrown their youthful exuberance, probably realized their goals and ready to commit themselves in a relationship/marriage.

But then, love can actually be found within any age bracket

kaboninc:
Are you also going to claim that you're also a hybrid?

No, I am female

safarigirl:
like I said, I'm a hybrid. Like a girl, I want to be called, like a guy, I don't want to be smothered with attention.

Once every two days is okay....last last, we take turns in calling each other

You have really done a great job here girl!

I am humbled by your intelligence, yours and every girl that contributed here.

Thanks

Fkhalifa:
lool, :' if I say I haven't been surprised with your experience and intelligent responses, I would be lying, from your photos I've seen in the past,I always imagine you are one very young girl, ajebutter with little or no experience about life...
Anyways, me love that, you good.

Thanks

Fkhalifa:
Twaci I want to know why you feel uneasy around virgins?

I don't want to break anyone's heart or be anyone's first love as I can not say that I am a perfect lover.

I can not have anyone saying I ruined his first love.

kaboninc:
Thread Prefect!!!!

Maybe he has some personal experiences about ladies. Especially about the lying aspect. Maybe he thinks the responses here are not a true reflection of them ladies.

Let's hear him na

Good.

Odunharry:
kaboninc nice questions there...
Got alot of questions to answer and lik naijaboiy said, many aren't even true to themselves.

brb make I charge

This thread has gotten this far without issues, why try to start one now?

This thread was created for those with questions, not those who believe they already have the answers. If you feel u can do better, start up yours.

Respect is reciprocal.

kaboninc:
If she doesn't like you she doesn't.

If she wants to be a friend, so be it

Whatever rocks your boat

dollyjoy:
Twaci kudos

Thanks

Dmarketter:
very very long time ago. Does doing that count as romance ? The kiss and love professing thing. Also please on events like her birthday, is it only in remembering that makes me romantic? Wat else could one do on such a day dat could be romantic for a lady

Just start with these dear. OK?

thagift:
all these sermon just for?

.....not for you

Fkforyou:
It seems I came late to the party.

So here goes my question.

1. I hear girls say this a lot, "They like making friends with guys cos girls have issues bla bla" are they saying this just to impress a guy or it's the truth. If it's the truth, then what's the issue?

2. Why do girls get worked up easily? as in create drama over the most mundane of things.

3. I here people say this a lot, that most girls are bisexual, how true is this? Does it mean that you guys get turned on by both genders.? Does it mean that you guys are sexually unstable.?

1. No, we ain't making it up. Its true. Most of my friends are guys. I like the way you guys think and the fact that guys move on from a quarrel quickly is another added bonus.

2. Most of us are drama queens! We feel adding a little emotion can get the guy do whatever we want. Its selfish, I know, but no better way of persuading has been found yet. Though I must say that some of these emotions are actually true and heartfelt. Just know the kind of girl you are dealing with.

3. I have no experience in this. Sorry.

Now lemme correct a notion here. Being romantic do not mean u spend on her at all time, nor does it mean attending to all her wants and whims.

Lemme tell u a short story.

Ade has a girlfriend (Susan). Ade trys his best as an individual to please his girlfriend. He buys her gifts, takes her out on a date and spoils her. Still she's not satisfied.

"He's not romantic", Susan said. "He doesn't have time for me...no time to talk about me or my feelings. Yes he spends on me, but I don't want his money. I want those little moments where we just lie down and I lie on his chest or those little gestures when he sneaks up on me and kisses me on the neck."

"I am not asking for a poem", Susan said, "but I feel he should always profess his love for me. A little love note or a simple flower would do. I don't want gifts, I want my man".

Here is the moral of this story. Doing little things like remembering her birthday, getting her flowers or even planning a surprise dinner go a long way.

Lemme ask this question: when last did u plant a kiss on her forehead and remind her how precious she is to you?

Genny?

Ayomide93:
Lol. Good point. Let me tell a story of something that happened to me. I was a medical student for two years before I left to study economics(don't ask me why I left, but it wasn't because I failed though, lol). There is this pretty colleague of mine, we got along so well, she was sweet. We got pretty close when we stopped being colleagues sha. We visit and hang out so well. I loved her so much and when I say love, she was the only girl I ever truly loved. I told her my mind and she refused bluntly that she only loves me as a friend and I kept trying. Along the line we still got close, I could remember her birthday in 2014 I made a painting of her and gave her, she took me out two weeks later too to celebrate my own birthday.
Her 2015 birthday also, I was broke kinda but I still managed to make her a cake and bought her a wine and fortunately enough I got some money after that and gave her 15k to add to what I did before. On my birthday she came to my house cooked for me brought stuffs and I felt loved. Still I kept trying to make us a couple. She was so free that I could still some kisses sef, even touch her bum jokingly. We flirted but nothing happened. I knew 3 of her close friends and we got talking, I told them my mind and they said they would talk to her. Mid 2015 she started withdrawing, she doesn't even pick up calls again and reply text too. We were like this for 11months. We later got talking last april again and she was still her old sef. She said her friend actually spoke to her but they acted somehow in the course, those friends stopped picking my calls also.
It was hard getting over her cos I loved her truly. But had to at a time. I asked her just last week if she has someone now and she said yes. I had a feeling of lust, love and hatred all combined but I later sat down and thought about all of it. She doesn't deserve me really. You would ask why, she didn't see the best in me, she didn't believe in me, she claimed to love me but couldn't even date me cause of whatever her friends told her.
In the long run, I concluded, no matter how hard you try what is not yours would never be. Gladly I told my mom about this and her answer surprises me. She said she has study me so well and she saw that I am going to be a selfish lover and commitment for me is hard. She told me that even though I look after people I still resent them in a way and that maybe her friends saw that which she didn't and they warned her to leave. She later said irrespective of that, if she is truly yours, she would seek you herself eventually in a way that would marvel you. Since then, I have decided to be the best, make money and make myself worthy of any woman no matter her status.

Nice experience! Though I must say u tried your best.