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I think they should also chase the whites living with them or are their oppressors not also "foreigners"?

You called the girl after your friend confirmed he saw her at the same bar 🤣🤣

She really loves you. Just keep chasing and following her to different bar. I can assure you she'll change

Don't give up on 'love'

The online friction between Nigeria and South Africa just got another chapter.
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Following a recent match where many Nigerians apparently backed Mexico, South African activist Jacinta Zinhle MaNgobese Zuma didn't hold back. In her post, she mocked African football fans, pointing out that supporting Mexico doesn't change the underdevelopment back home.

Yowaa...... send am por my famfay and ofay, pipty million

Even as a kid I hated agriculture. I ditched that subject in Jss 2 and have never regretted it. Only thing I go to the farm for is harvesting and going to join the workers while they're enjoying. I can only invest and never participate.

emabe:
That was the point of quoting the whole BS

Okay. I use to think only ladies seek attention but here you're proving me wrong. You've gotten the attention, barbie.

Your job should only be a crooked ladder which you must strive to climb to get to your own destination. It shouldn't be your final destination but only a means to get there. Acquire more skills, get updated and walk out of there a winner. But its really difficult that's why I call it crooked.

Never get comfortable with a box. Always think outside of it.

This one too will make frontage
The month is too early to be wasted on beer.

emabe:
Very silly post. Lack of understanding of the subject matter

You could have just passed without quoting the whole post to tell me jargons

With how the country is right now, I don't even have the strength to judge anybody again Make everybody just dey run their package and face whatever comes out of it.

​Besides, she is not even as deadly as all these secondary school boys glorifying yahoo-plus and ritual killings everywhere.

Delete the videos and forget about it. What's the main aim of showing her

(But my wicked mind is telling me something else )

Delete it, forget you saw anything and vibe along. She isn't your babe!

2k per Kilogram how will I explain to my estate landlords that I want to start using charcoal in their house?

Samantha125:
You're right, there's an active blood flow that requires you to blow some steam every once in a while.

Your belief

contrary to popular belief, morning wood is not a cue to have sex. It's just a reminder that you're a man. Instead of focusing on sex, you rechannel the energy into creativity.

It's a form of energy that if properly channeled could take a man to higher places. Take sometime to read *richest man in babylon* and do some research on sexual transmutation, you'll love it

FitCorper:
She’s talking about morning wood bro, as in preek rising in the morning to wake you up. You’re far from it

Okay. Having morning woods means you wanted to dikmatize that innocent preacher evangelizing in your dream, am I right

Samantha125:
Does going celibate, becoming a Catholic priest, or a monk stop men from having a morning wood?

Not all morning woods are outcome of sexual thoughts. Sometimes you can get a boner from just sitting. Even subconsciously. Getting a boner just means there's active blood flow to your pelvic region.

Getting a boner is just male biological defunct settings for all male to show maturity and after sometime, many male might not experience it like they did in their puberty stage. So it isn't all about sex.

How about going celibate, becoming a catholic priest or a religious monk

So you've concluded you'll give birth in poverty
Please my candid advise before you reply, if you're not capable-- there's no harm in staying childless. We're tired of male and female almajiri, armed robbers, kidnappers and hookup slay queens. Enjoy your life and die peacefully. You've concluded you don't have to pass on, so why bring another human to suffer

None of the above
No other character needed

Nairaland used to be my go to page for any job agent or company info. You'll get instant info about the job or the agent before going to the interview. Saved me from lots of GNLD fake vacancy advert. The good ol' days.

tanigororo:
I can't believe I just read some long line of Rubbish, using your startup analogy.
Would you employ someone who add no value to your startup, all in the name of I am made? Absolutely, No.
In any relationship, including employee- employer relationship, you need someone who brings value to your table. Not some dirty fingers to my table to eat.

As a man, I don't need her money. I need something greater than money from which include intellect, loyalty, submissiveness, among others. Because I need someone I can trust to help breed my next generation while I am busy making provision more readily available for them.
Yes, a woman must bring something to the table, beyond her look, shape, and VJ.

We’re on the same page. We both agree that a woman’s financial status or the size of her purse isn't the yardstick for a man. There is massive value in what a woman brings to the table aside cast—like the peace of mind and stability I mentioned earlier. That is a non-negotiable asset.
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It’s the same way the corporate world is shifting. They are hiring fresh graduates over "veterans" because of one thing: modern mindset and high-level skill sets.

​With just one high-stakes interview, a smart recruiter can easily filter the wheat from the chaff. They can tell who has a sharp, agile brain from the one who is just peacocking a paper degree.
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Are you telling me a firm wouldn’t hire a young developer who understands modern AI-driven coding or cloud architecture just because some older guy has "10 years of experience" using Windows XP and outdated Excel?

​That "experience" is often just repeating the same mistakes for a decade. The world doesn't pay for tenure anymore; it pays for execution.
​The same logic applies to your relationships. Don't look for the woman with the most "achievements" or the most material things to show off or even the ones that can pay your bills. Look for the one with the right mindset, the capacity to learn, and the character to build with you.
​Real growth is about future potential not splitting bills.

​Let’s be completely honest with ourselves for a minute.
​Have you ever felt a sudden, sharp sting in your chest when someone close to you succeeded? Perhaps a friend got a massive career breakthrough or a salary upgrade you’ve been grinding for. Maybe someone received the exact attention, respect, or platform you wished you had. Or maybe you are just watching another person’s life unfold effortlessly, exactly the way you dreamed yours would.

​That feeling has a name: Jealousy.

​We see it every day on this forum and in real life. Jealousy has destroyed lifelong friendships. It has ruined solid relationships. It has torn families apart and turned genuine admiration into bitter hatred. Yet, almost everyone has felt it at some point—that uncomfortable, toxic friction when someone else gets what you desperately wanted.
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What many people fail to realize is that jealousy is rarely about the other person. It is a mirror reflecting the hidden wounds inside you.
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The Psychological Breakdown: The Mirror Effect
​Most people look at jealousy simply as a sign of wickedness, bad belle, or weakness. However, psychology reveals something far more complex.
​Psychologists believe that jealousy emerges when another person's success shines a blinding light on your own personal insecurities. The other person’s achievement is not the actual problem. The real problem is what that achievement reminds you of—your own failures, your deepest fears, your unmet goals, and your doubts about your own capacity.
​Jealousy triggers a defense mechanism when we perceive a threat to our social status, recognition, or self-worth. The brain naturally interprets another person’s sudden advantage as evidence that you are losing ground on the chessboard of life. This is why two people can witness the exact same event and react completely differently. One person looks at a successful man and sees inspiration, while another looks at the same man and sees competition.

​How Jealousy Distorts Your Reality
​The dangerous thing about a jealous mind is that it completely warps your perception. Once jealousy takes over, the brain enters a toxic cycle of comparison. You stop seeing the years of silent hard work, sleepless nights, and sacrifices the other person made, and you only see the reward. You stop appreciating your own current blessings and become obsessively hyper-focused on what others possess.

​Before you know it, this mindset turns a friend into a rival, a partner into a threat, and a stranger into an enemy.

​The Reality Check: Comparison is a battle you will never win. There will always be someone richer, someone smarter, someone more attractive, or someone moving faster than you. If your peace of mind depends on being ahead of everyone else, you are running a race with no finish line.

​The Paradigm Shift: Jealousy as a Strategy Map
​Here is the most powerful truth about this emotion: Jealousy is actually a map.
​The people you envy are often revealing the exact dreams you have abandoned, the goals you have neglected, and the potential you have ignored within yourself. Jealousy doesn’t just come out of nowhere; it points directly at the things that matter most to your ego and your future.

​The real question is what you are doing with that data. The low-value path is to allow it to consume you, turn into bad belle, and resort to pulling others down. This path leads straight to stagnation and bitterness. The high-value path is to use it as an analytical tool to identify your own gaps, upgrade your skills, and adjust your execution strategy. This path leads to genuine growth.

​The man who spends all his energy watching another player’s moves on the chessboard will never secure his own position.
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The next time that sharp sting of jealousy creeps into your heart, don’t ask, “Why do they have it?” Shift your frame and ask yourself instead: “What is this feeling trying to teach me about my own lack of execution?”

​The answer might reveal a lot more about your boundaries and potential than you ever wanted to admit.

​Every day online, you see the same exhausting debate: “What does a lady bring to the table?”
​Men are angry because they feel women are hypergamous, and women are defensive because they feel men are cheap. But if we are being completely honest, the men who aggressively scream "What do you bring to the table?" are usually guys who are still struggling in the trenches or just starting to see small money.
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When you are broke or managing a startup lifestyle, you naturally look for a Co-Founder—a woman who will split bills 50/50, help you pay rent, and endure suffering with you. That is valid for that stage of life.
​But once a man breaks through and begins to build a real empire, his operational requirements completely change. A wealthy man doesn't need a woman to bring raw capital, business partnerships, or financial assets to his table. He already owns the table, the chairs, and the building the table is sitting in. He doesn’t need a co-founder. What he needs is a Sovereign Partner.
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When you shift from building wealth to protecting a legacy, a woman’s value is no longer measured by production, but by preservation, discretion, and peace.

​Here is what a high-caliber woman actually brings to a wealthy man's table:
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Peace (The Ultimate Asset)
The business world in Nigeria is a brutal, chaotic battlefield. A man handling high-stakes deals, regulatory stress, and constant market pressure cannot afford to return home to another battlefield of drama, unnecessary attitude, and emotional instability. A sovereign partner provides an environment of absolute peace. That peace is not passive; it is a critical infrastructure that resets a man’s nervous system, sharpens his decision-making, and prevents the burnout that destroys empires.

​Gatekeeping and Risk Management
Men who are focused on aggressive expansion often miss subtle social cues. A high-caliber woman possesses an incredible, highly accurate skill for people's hidden motives. She can spot a snake in your circle long before you do. She acts as a secondary security layer, vetting friends, business associates, and hangers-on. While a chaotic woman is a massive liability who leaks your secrets, a sovereign partner carries herself with a level of class and discretion that protects your brand.
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The Culture of the Estate (Legacy)
An empire that dies with the creator is just a temporary business. To turn wealth into a generational dynasty, you need a woman who can govern the internal culture of the home. She ensures your children are not raised as soft, entitled rich kids who will squander your hard work, but as capable successors who understand power, discipline, and responsibility.
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Stop looking at relationships through a poverty mindset of “Can she buy me a shirt?” or “Can she pay for her own food?”
​If you are a man of substance, you don't need her money; you need her character, her loyalty, her emotional maturity, and her peace. She isn't there to lay the bricks of your empire—she is there to ensure the foundation never cracks.
​Build your wealth first, become the player on the chessboard, and you will realize that the highest value a woman can bring to your life cannot be quantified in a bank statement.

Back to AI generated photos🤥 We’ve agreed, Trump is evil 👿 take us to shekau so we can go bomb the nearest market and kidnap people in maiduguri.

Black kettle accusing the pot of being black😏

Nigerians aren’t following trump because he’s a Christian, they are following him because your uncivilized brothers belittles all other religions and can’t tolerate other religions but kill people while shouting allahu Akbar. It’s like choosing the lesser evil. So even though Christians won’t accept other trump atrocities but this particular fight against terrorists and their sympathizers. We support it fully.

Or we should support you so tomorrow you can strap a bomb to our bodies and ask us to kill our people right?

ALLAHU AKBAR!!!

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