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bigpicture001:
I forgot that in the course of our relationship I told her two jokes that is serious, about the emotional effcet both Beyonce songs "halo" and "poision" usually have on me..... because she wanders why I play them frequently on my play list..

Last weekend while spending the weekend with me, we got into a repeating argument that broke our flow down ND it was at noon, so I went out, watched football and came back at night... I didn't bother eating and went straight to bed..

I know I am wounding her with such attitude, but I wanted her to beg me... Instead of begging me, this lady pull off a big surprise on me..

She connected the MP3 with her fone and brought in by the door of the room where I was it was like say 9:30 pm. it was dark , raining and cold.. she put on just a lingerie, switch on and played "halo"..

She just didn't play Halo, sh stood by the door way, I was on the bed, wrapped in the duve and peeping at her.. with a teary eyes, sh gave me the best ever halo performance I have ever seen.. it was so so romantic and touching . This makes it perfect because sh has a tenor high pitch voice which matched Beyonce's,

She just stood there in a flood of tears and loud on the song both with her and the MP3.. the whole lyrics got into my head , I fealt tears roll down my eyes....I couldn't help but stand up ,walk to her and held her hand....ND tried walking her to bed, but she came slowly with the loud lyrics on her tenor voice, I joined her in the songs ND we both cried nd gave beyonce a proud performance.....

Well, what happened there after they say the rest is history!


U guyz should try download and listen to that song, it has a spirit in it.. same as poison, both by Beyonce

u never see anything

this uncles them, u didn't do anything n the want you down, talk more of this one u come slap, better apologise and act like a good boy before they do u bad

[uote author=Nebes post=138043254]Nigerian police did more than this for me in 2013.
I arrived in Kwara state not knowing it was election day. I needed to get to my destination and return to Lagos same day. I spoke to a policeman at the checkpoint. He took me to their oga, and I gave him the details of my mission in Kwara. This oga told two officers to drive me with their police car to my rural destination and bring me back to Ilorin for free. I will never forget the experience.[/quote]I don't believe you

I have experience it before, infact I made a post on it here,I took n did alot,did alot of research,am glad they brought it up again,my own has reduced,I cut my hair,take enough water,rest n sleep,I stopped taken medication because for how long will I continue that because it hardly works,so I try using the natural way,I reduce stress avoid alcohol n the best that really helped me was getting a massage on my head n neck, reduce the use of phone,rest really helped,take warm water,with time it will reduce n stop I really hope this help someone out there,thank you

immortalcrown:
Telling us why the marriage ended is more important than telling us thecost of the wedding. The cost of the wedding is never the reason the marriage ended.

Wedding reception quality does not determine marriage quality.

The poorest marriage can begin with the richest wedding reception, while the richest marriage can begin with the poorest wedding reception.

A poor marriage can begin with a poor wedding reception, and a rich marriage can as well begin with a rich wedding reception.

I keep using "Wedding reception", not just "wedding", because what is expensive is not wedding itself but the reception that follows the wedding.

Wedding reception is about public entertainment, not about the state of the marriage. Entertain the public well if you can afford to. But, don't use the entertainment to predict your marriage.

oga u too talk ooooh, nice message,I have learnt too

10thTenthMan:
But she is correct.

If a man does not care, then he does not bother you.

This is a fact.

The question can then be, ''What type of man goes out, comes back and sees his house in a mess with a wife at home and does not care''?

Show me that man, and I will show you a low value man without discipline. A man without a strong, respectable network of friends. A man without shame. A man without order in his life. A man who does not demand accountability because he himself lacks it. A man she will call a whimp and she will eventually cheat on with someone who demands accountability from her.

As per a man bickering with women, she is also correct.

A sensible man creates boundaries and enforces them, and never renegotiates them. Calling out a boundary MUST NOT INVOLVE Shouting and quarrelling. Don’t get into arguments with her, especially with logic and facts. Tell her once and enforce it. Remove time, remove resources, remove protection, remove provision, remove validation. No reaction/overreaction IS YOUR TRUE WEAPON. But how do you do these things when you do not have value way above her. If you can be easily replaced, then all you have is your self resect. Keep that intact and walk away from a woman who does not respect your boundaries. You are a man and easily manipulated to lose emotional control with someone you are to lead? Don't bring yourself down to that level. Why should I waste energy speaking with logic to a brain and mind run by emotions? Choose your words wisely. Not too much talk. Don’t argue like a child.

na Ur type of man we are trying to avoid. Over sabi man

U must really have time to put all this together, well-done

No ooooh,they shouldn't cook,they should keep relying on us,at this modern age,you said u can't n won't cook

I have noticed that in marriage,ones a woman stop washing her man's cloth especially if it's something she use to do before,she is already nursing an issue in her mind meaning the man isn't treating her well,I have interrogated alot of women on this issue n I have got this result.
Infact should I said if after 5years of marriage and your wife willing do your laundry for you,you should consider yourself lucky,you are treating well and she is at peace with you

You have said it all,alot of Nigerian men don't know how to treat their wives well

franchasng:
There are tell signs that most men ignore.


Women don't just change overnight, there must be obvious signs you are married to an unreliable woman or you have been maltreating her and she has been praying for an escape route via migration abroad.


No sensible woman wakes up one day and initiate divorce with her husband just because they migrated abroad; it doesn't work that way.

The truth is, most Nigerian men oppress and maltreat their wives in Nigeria just because they are the breadwinner.

Your wife and children are always in fear the moment you step into the house; that's a sign that you are a failed husband and father, and if by mistake you relocate abroad with that woman, she will so deal with you eh lol



And to the men that enjoy extramarital games, continue playing it openly without remorse, continue splashing it to her face thinking she doesn't care, she cares oh, she is burning inside oh, she is only keeping quiet and pretending that all is well simply because Nigeria have no laws that protect married women and because she is not yet financially buoyant to live her dream life without your money, once she gets financially liberated through migration abroad, just count yourself a single man, it doesn't matter how many millions you spent sponsoring her abroad.



What do I even know? Let me go back to Tel Aviv from there will make a stop at Tehran to see if Ali Khamenei was smuggled out of Iran some days ago or not, see you guys tomorrow

Good one,we need to have a positive plan about life

Woow this data increase is really going to be a problem for alot of people like me

Nice one

The sun,rain n cold is too much there,that one has always been my fear over there

Hmmmm govt people are not serious, some business people make up to 200k n more as gain per day,and someone is here offering 62k per month,unless the want their workers to begin to compromise simple

Pls how can finding this x put food on my table, I hav been trying to get an answer all this years,pls mathematician pls answer me

Nice one,Hi everyone, hope you are doing great