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FamilyRe: Flogged My Kids In School Today. by Uche7779(op): 6:37pm On Feb 14, 2025
Prophit:
There are a lot of things that I want to say to you, but what would be the point?

Your kids, not mine.

I just wish the teacher were someone more connected or a financial monster.

I wish you well o.

And to all the teachers out there. Please don't flog again.

If kids want to become animals, let them be.
Just do your job, teach what is on your scheme.

Whether a child understands or not is not up to you.

The only sad thing is that such children will get to be called Nigerians just like me.
So parents belong to different school of thought, I dont subscribe to using cane, However, a child should be disciplined when He misbehaves. There are many ways this can be done...
FamilyRe: Flogged My Kids In School Today. by Uche7779(op): 6:27pm On Feb 14, 2025
Prophit:
He won't follow this suggestion because he just wants to destroy the life of an innocent teacher.

He just wants to show that he too is an oppressor.
I withdrew my kids already and they would be resuming elsewhere after the mid term. I am willing to take the collateral damage of wasting the fees over messing up the sanity of my child
FamilyRe: Flogged My Kids In School Today. by Uche7779(op): 6:25pm On Feb 14, 2025
Prophit:
Congratulations on your well deserved victory.
That teacher will pay for damages. I swear.

Funny how you and your lot can only seek so called justice when it involves someone you can opress.

A teacher who probably just wanted to correct your child and prevent him/her from becoming uncouth.


I will not raise failed kids mate, I know my kids and can vouch for them. All I said was, dont whip my kids, they are not animals, I dont and would not allow a deranged sociopath venting his anger on an innocent child.

Corporal punishment is outlawed.

Like I told the man and the school, we would play a little for damaging the mental health of my child and myself too.

The boy woke up visibly scared to go to school because of a useless God forbidden teacher. Lets see how it pans out.
FamilyRe: Flogged My Kids In School Today. by Uche7779(op): 5:37pm On Feb 14, 2025
The teacher has been arrested and detained and case would be in court on Monday...


We start from there and the school will get sued for damages too.

We are not animals here...
FamilyFlogged My Kids In School Today. by Uche7779(op):
Update,

The teacher has been arrested and detained and case would go to court on Monday.

A petition against the school will follow suit.

Nigeria is not a zoo, if you are okay with assault, I AM NOT, and nobody has the morality or right to assault my kids.

So guys, I just relocated my kids to Lagos and had to enroll them in a primary school where I paid excess of 600k as tuition for 2 kids. ( 6 and 8 years old)

My son in basic 1 came back with story of being flogged, same story for the one in basic 3. I am going bananas right there. Called the school and the teacher confirmed He flogged them both lightly. I can only imagine the action I would take there tomorrow.

Is this a norm in Lagos schools as I am compelled to ask?

A completely crazy practice to me.
Technology MarketInverter Versus Regular Ac's~please Advice by Uche7779(op): 7:31pm On Nov 05, 2024
Hello folks, I hear inverter AC conserve electricity. So I recently bought a 1.5HP LG not installed yet, but want to also get 2 non inverters. So my question is for the experts,

How much would I spend on a typical night with all the three AC's on. How many units if they run from 6pm to 6am, before person go use him hand but wahala.

I need pro advice please....
SportsMancity Just Killed Me, I Need Sure 2 Odd. by Uche7779(op): 3:49pm On Sep 28, 2024
Guys I just lost 250k. I need your help for 2 sure odds. I wan use like 500k run am now.

Hope you guys will help. Please
AutosRe: 2015 Lexus RX350 BASE AWD FOR 18m (Need Gone ASAP) (SOLD !!!) by Uche7779: 3:56am On Sep 09, 2024
13M cash
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Do People Still Get High Paying Jobs Nowadays by Uche7779: 5:13pm On Aug 17, 2024
I net over 1.5M monthly, for a daily of 6. Trust me, it's worth a little above 200k of a single guy earnings. School fess for 4 kids thrice a year, that's no child's play man. Regardless, I dey try ball small. Body no be firewood!
FashionRecommend A Perfume For An Alpha Male by Uche7779(op): 9:33pm On Aug 06, 2024
Hello Peeps,

Kindly recommend a long lasting dominant perfume for an alpha male. Price unde a 100k.

I woukld appreciate all inputs please.

MOD please help give more visibility.
RomanceDo You Pick Calls From Unknown Number by Uche7779(op): 9:57am On Jun 02, 2024
Dear Narialand, This is for a reseaech purpose only please do not ban me ooo.

My question.

Do you pick random calls on your phone.(Numbers not in your phone book)

If yes, please give a little reason, if no still give reason.

Thanks all for participating and admin please block me not.
FamilyRe: Guys Please Motivate Me-left Home For Greener Pastures. by Uche7779(op): 8:22pm On May 07, 2024
Thank you guys, I am cheering up...
FamilyGuys Please Motivate Me-left Home For Greener Pastures. by Uche7779(op): 6:42pm On May 07, 2024
Nairalanders,

As I await my night bus to fill up for my journey to Lagos, I am filled with lots of emotions.

A few mins ago, i just got a call that needed me to be in Lagos tomorrow morning for a period of 6 months and it's for good.

However, I left behind my best friends, my twin girls 3years, my first daughter 6 and my son 8 and my wife. Didn't even see them to huddle them, cos they were still in school.

Guys, Tell me whatever you can. Honestly, I am broken. Have never stayed away from family this long ever before.

Thank You all..
FamilyRe: My Husband No Dey Knack Me Well- Cheating Wife's Confession To Her Pastor(Video) by Uche7779: 8:16am On May 02, 2024
My only advise to you, Oga that woman would drive you to depression. Be very careful.
CareerIs This A Nigerian Factor- Workplace Observation by Uche7779(op): 7:51am On Apr 29, 2024
Guys,

Is this a Nigerian norm. I have been privileged to work in top companies and I find it difficult to adapt. Last October I left for one of the largest Fintechs in Nigeria and it's pretty much similar in almost everything.

. Eye service is so rife. Nigerians falling over themselves for these white guys,Indians, Lebanese damn...So annoying..

. Fellow Nigerians selling their country men out to Asian, Indians, Spaniards etc. HR, not paying close to 5% of what staff in other countries earn. Completely unbelievable.

. You take a decision in contrast to their belief system, and then you are in big trouble. As little as can we not work all Saturdays in a month or at least remote on Saturdays, then wahala.

Finally, they deceive you will multi cultural gibberish, while racism, conscious and subconscious bias is profound.

I am quitting-if I am even allowed to stay till December. Sick and tired of all these stuffs men. Bleep the pay men, I ain't wired to lick as*.

.
SportsRe: 1M For 2 Sure Odds..who Can Help. by Uche7779(op): 5:29pm On Apr 01, 2024
IOXOI:
Won
Didn't play this mate. Preferred soccer
SportsRe: 1M For 2 Sure Odds..who Can Help. by Uche7779(op): 8:03am On Apr 01, 2024
Make una put mouth for this matter nah.
SportsRe: 1M For 2 Sure Odds..who Can Help. by Uche7779(op): 11:37pm On Mar 31, 2024
Babaibeji2020:
Play ds on sporty....
715FDC6
My sporty no gree send me OTP. Can you share with me on Bet9ja
SportsRe: 1M For 2 Sure Odds..who Can Help. by Uche7779(op): 11:00pm On Mar 31, 2024
Jamesbiodun:
Just play handicap 2 for two game you are sure about, nobody fit give you sure game, na luck,
Thank me later
What's handicap,
How do I connect with you personally
Sports1M For 2 Sure Odds..who Can Help. by Uche7779(op): 10:41pm On Mar 31, 2024
Hello guys,

Because of mancity Arsenal game, I lost over 800k. Real Madrid and PSG both won.

I need 3 or 4 sure odds and I will bet with 1M. 200k for whoever brings the prediction..

Don't worry about me betting with 1M, life is all about risk and even if e cut na my one month salary so nothing spoil.

I was introduced to betting for the first time in my 38years middle of March and I have turned an addict since then.

No preaching please, just sure odds and I hope I don't get banned
RomanceI Slept With My Married Ex by Uche7779(op): 7:50pm On Mar 16, 2024
Hello Guys,

I just violated one of my biggest rules in life and I have been sober ever since.

I got into Abuja on an official assignment, A bit bored, I asked my ex to come over just to have a harmless talk. The first day she came to the officer with her daughter and it was purely just reminiscing and having a harmless laugh. We had lunch and she left.

Two days later, I invited her to my hotel and she came and the unimaginable happened.

I have been filled with guilt, my head is so full with regrets. Another man's wife.

I need help to get over this, who can I talk to please. It appears I am depressed. Can someone please make me feel better. Please!
CareerRe: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Uche7779: 7:33pm On Sep 12, 2023
ocelot2006:
I've been there and I must say that I totally agree with your wife on the need to settle down first before you move your family. The downside though is the home sickness and the cost of maintaining 2 homes in the interim. Just give yourself no later than a year to settle down (a few months should do) then move your family to join you.
Nice one bro... Thinking along this path..
CareerRe: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Uche7779: 7:25pm On Sep 12, 2023
olamilarks:
OP is either worried his wife can't manage the home while he's away or worried they'll fok his wife! OP put your mind at rest, your wife is loyal but are you? Charles009
Least of my worries...
CareerRe: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Uche7779: 7:25pm On Sep 12, 2023
Jeezuzpick:
New phase of manhood initiating.

You will now know how much you can really sacrifice for your family.

I'm speaking from a lot of experience: Bro, e no easy!

But then.......

No one said it's easy being a man.

All I will advise is, build good rapport with your coworkers and boss, be ready to cover for others so they can cover for you when you go home to see your lovelies.

Plan to go either fortnightly or once every 3 weeks.....make it regular (equally spaced) so your workplace gets used to it.

When you have the chance to move your family, then do so, but this should depend on how frequent transfers can happen.

It's not too good to shift young kids about frequently.
I've moved three states in 5years. This is the 4th so I ain't moving again. Difficult you know, but I've got to endure.

I appreciate you, thanks..
CareerRe: Never Look Down On Anybody, Nobody Knows Tomorrow by Uche7779(op): 12:12pm On Jun 18, 2023
Zonefree:
Na so life be.

You didn't even rate him to help you. You only called to get a number for your supposed helper not knowing he's your helper.
Bros no be lie. I have learnt a vital life lesson
CareerNever Look Down On Anybody, Nobody Knows Tomorrow by Uche7779(op): 11:16am On Jun 18, 2023
Last time i put up a post of how I was struggling with finances and online lending Apps and how they want to ruin my career.

I had called a few trusted persons to help me with funds, it appeared I was only exposing myself more. I don't blame them either. So I put up wife's car for sale.

This morning with a broken heart and urgency of the funds, I was about collecting a 1.6M for. 2004 Corolla out of desperation. While the guy and the mechanic where on their way, I just went to true caller and was scrolling tirelessly, hoping for a miracle, then I saw the number of one of my security guard while I managed a firm in Calabar in 2016.

So I asked him to help me send a former colleagues number that I was distressed. He enquired and I told him. He simply asked for my account number. Under 10times I got a credit alert of 200k. Shortly after again another 200k from another guy that worked as security for me in 2012.

Guys this is unbelievable. I was completely blown away. No long explanation, no plenty stories. Infact I wept. These guys have now furthered their education as I would always advise and both of them work in tech. He reminded me how I never discriminated and how I would shake their hands and tell them to always stay away from the sun. It was quite emotional. Whatever you do in life, never loose your humanity.

For this singular act, my car was not sold. I call upon the angels of the high heaven, and the God we worship to hear my fervent prayes and replenish in 10 folds wherever these young guys(Nzube and Joseph) got these monies from. Please say a prayer for them too.


I hope we all learn a lesson. Regardless of your profile or translation. Life happens to everyone and nobody knows tomorrow.
CareerRe: Please Help Me, My Career Is On The Line.. by Uche7779(op): 10:27am On May 14, 2023
dawnomike:
400k plus and embarrassment by loan app is what is making you depressed? I pray for you that may you not see real shege and may Nigeria not happen to you financially.

Anyways, brace up and good that you still have a source of income. Start paying up gradually, none of them will kill you.

Secondly, don't ever repeat that your statement to your sypporting wife ever again.

Thirdly, try to sought out alternative source of income to argument what you are presently making.

Above all, I pray for you that may God almighty restore your finances and turn your down moment to end in joy! Cheers bro
Thank You. This is why I came here. I just woke up from my unending sleep.

Thank You
CareerPlease Help Me, My Career Is On The Line.. by Uche7779(op): 9:26am On May 14, 2023
Please forgive me, I had to create a new moniker for this purpose.

While I was pondering over the trajectory of my life, I remembered that a problem shared in a problem solved. I would try and make it brief .

My predicament started exactly on August 19th 2022, when I needed to pay for mum's surgery. After raising funds from legitimate sources, I was short of about =N=300k. So I decided to patronise online lending Apps. Little did I know this would mark the beginning of my issues in life.

From that day till now, I saw myself struggling. I net over 432k monthly and those funds and commissions and many more borrowed funds were constantly thrown to the wind as I was struggling to repay loans every 7 or 14days. Rent was abandoned, I barely feed my family, school fees all mounting. Yet all monies and more were going to lending platforms.

A breath of fresh air. When Fccpc announced the licensing of some 117apps, I told myself, this may be all I need to exit this financial bondage. So I reached out and started negotiating with them. A few listened and a few outrightly shut the doors. Since most have been licensed i decided to brave it and start looking for money instead of taking from Peter to repay Paul.

Then came the worst, last two weeks a wassap message tagging me a FRAUDSTER was shared to some of my wassap contacts. It was the lowest moment in my entire life. The embarrassment was unbearable, colleagues, friends, acquaintances. A 10 year career is currently being threathened. At some point I felt like resigning, but my wife stopped it.

So today I became too depressed that I asked my wife to consider leaving me, since I could no longer cater for the home and play my role as man. She has been crying since I told her this.


As a man I am in the lowest point of my life as a human being and I need all the encouragement I can get.

If God touches your heart to help me in anyway please dm.

Regardless of all these challenges, my faith in God will not waiver..

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