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EfemenaXY:
Advice her to stop being desperate.

Even if it takes her another 10-20 years to find the RIGHT person, then so be it. The importance of one's happiness and emotional well being cannot be over emphasized. That should come first, even before kids.

And even if she never finds the "right one", so what? It isn't the crime of the century to be single. As for having kids, she can either have her biological kids outside of marriage, or she can adopt. Heavens knows there are thousands of vulnerable, needy orphans in desperate need of a loving home.


am in support of what u said.she should stop being desperate. secondly, i believe she has been in succesful relationships before wich she couldnt conver to marriage. so she should try and reflect on her past life trying to remember the reason for which she broke up with the guys in herpast. she should check if allof them was because of her or not. then from there, she can make amends.