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I stopped going to church when I noticed that church influence mental health of a man and fake.pastors too

Do not marry a religious woman.. your marriage will be in the hand of pastor and Church. They believe what the pastor says than what the husband say. They are unproductive because they believe that their god will do it without work

OluwaBlessyn:
I’m currently on 50gb per month for 9k on MTN

Quite expensive buh I close eye buy am…

Serves me wella

MTN gave me 56gb for 12k.. *121# the thing fear me.. I just close eye buy amm

abiolert2:
This is their new cash cow, from ibom Air, to cally air, Enugu Air, we will soon see even Edo Air. In as much as the intentions are good, mismanagement of state resources will crumble the whole thing and render it counter productive. Well after each governor's tenure Efcc must catch someone especially when you are in the opposition.
Let me add that no state governor should buy refurbished aircraft for us oh.

why ibom Air never crumble? Keep saying what u don't know

Raph82:
What do U have to say in the case of a wealthy man whose wife is being screwed by a gateman?

the rich man unable to satisfy her libido.. so she will always look outside.

If you don't have money.. ur wife will leave you to another man.. she may endure at first but give her 2months.. family without money is hell..

Justdogood:
They are so entitled ehhhh.
Serve them food the start weighing the meat in the food, next thing is that the meat is too small that you look down on them that thats why you gave them small meat,
Tell them to help their sister wash plates they say you have turned them into house helps.
If my own sibling just visits for a night they insist I should tell the visitor to join in house chores (we live in a 2 bedroom flat that i alone can clean in less tha 3hrs) And its also not like my siblings don't help out oooo. My sister was the house cook for 2yrs before she travelled out.
And its not like they are working or schooling oooo. They stay at home 24/7 eating food as they like and counting all they have done for me.
So so annoying.
I don't blame them. I blame my wife who is very lazy which is why they are now the ones who she delegate to do her house chores. Which is now bringing all these talks. Its still bad that I still give stipends to them for helping with chores in a 2 bedroom flat. This i do to make them feel not being taken advantage of. But if I hear...
Am tired oooooo
My wife is another case. She just likes staying idle and pressing her phone. Even to take care of a child, just one son who is 2yrs is a big deal for her. And my wife isn't working . She is a full time stay-at-home wife, who is placed on monthly salary to meet her own needs. Still she still can't take care of our only child.

the same thing with me. My wife too don't do anything.. just stay at home doing nothing. Lazy too..

naijapikin2:
Exactly.. that's even better... Court wedding will just tie you down unnecessarily... But let me not be a devil's advocate.. if she's level headed a man can still do the court wedding. Just that such women are rare to find.

See ronaldo's Georgina for example.

me I observe my wife. She fit change anytime.. that's why I asking

Justdogood:
I am tired of my marriage.
It's is barely 4 years.
My wife's family is just so entitled and over thinks things.
They say I am taking them as slaves in my house just cos the help their sister with house chores.

Please never marry from a very very not ok family (financially)
Their mentality is always different
They always reason so much unto everything.

the same thing am passing through. I married to a poor family.. they are expecting so much from me.. immediately after marriage I have to cut off from them. I don't pick inlaws calls.

naijapikin2:
See ehn... This thread is timely. I am married (for want of a better word).. the case of divorce between her and I, has been in court for close to a year. And it's expensive. I just cleared the last installment of payment 3 weeks ago, so we both will be free say by this month end. Wahala everywhere... To marry wahala... To divorce wahala.

I won't advice ant young man to do court wedding sam sam. Just do traditional after you must have impregnated her. As for us... Our wedding didn't produce any children.

I'll come here and celebrate, maybe do giveaway when the divorce is concluded.

Nothing like peace of mind o.
. wallahi

what about doing traditional and white wedding?? Without court wedding

The worst is to marry a religious woman.

Ambassadors:
Marry a brilliant girl cos that is what will be transferred to your children. If you like go marry big breast and big yansh. I regret not marrying a brilliant woman. It robs off on everything you do. Sometimes you need your partner to discuss certain decisions. Charity begins at home. The parent esp your wife is the first teacher of your children. I can't emphasize marry smart, intelligent and God fearing lady. Forget beauty cos it would fade. If you like follow bbl, long nails, long eyelashes and bone straight on empty brain. You go explain tire no evidence.

100% true. I married a girl that we can't share business ideas together.. she is far below me.. she doesn't even know what am doing!! Sometimes when I have a bad day I always wish I have someone I can share the idea with but she no go understand. I regretted.. she come stubborn too

pocohantas:
SIR Ufotty, is there something you want to share with us?

by religious woman I mean the extreme religious women.. they don't believe on themselves, they don't believe on self development, they always believe that there is something negative chasing them, they put their pastor and church first before their husband.

Do not marry a religious woman.

Countries with billion are doing well.. those countries with billion's of population do they have fertility problems there It seems there is no fertility issues there.. this clearly shows that fertility is caused by lifestyle

I just got married .. my Dear!! Bills no be here.. most women will not support u

Please, do not Marry a religious woman.. just look for a decent girl and marry but not too religious.

FuckYeyeMods:
Courtship of less than 7months turn marriage..
All I can say is destiny.
Don't allow her to frustrate your life with her low life, low class and low self esteem. Seeing you argue with her give them the impression that they're important in your life.
Don't spend too much time trying to convince her that, "That is not what I mean" . She's injuring you small small, before you realise it, you will be less interested in most things you love to achieve as a man. i.e...hustling to buy car, want to buy another plot of land, want to do this and that.....
Don't follow them argue, just play with her, fvck her and go out there and watch football, don't take her matter too serious.
Don't even try to take her matter to heart.
They're evil.
Thank God if your wife never start to dey talk bad about you to everybody.. her family and friends.

all what u said here is what am passing through now.. she is less concerned about my finance.. only what she do is demanding!! A woman who just came into my life, just to be eating my money.. she is not impacting anything to me.. not even encouraging me.. she is so religious!! I needed someone that we can work together and grow together but this one no even send for me.. she no even care about anything.. just to be demanding!! Inlaw too won come add their problems..

Hahnemann:
A lot of women share this mindset, it's not a good one but you shouldn't have allowed it lead to a break up

we are still together and am managing her like that

FuckYeyeMods:
Same here oga...
The family na wack,
She herself wan carry low self esteem injure my life

Am passing through the same thing. I thought am the only one. How do u manage her?

Love800:
Is not about the sex. She can even love sex more than you.

But the problem with those kinds is, they are not productive. Always relying on some invisible spirits that does not exist to help dem!
You as the man will be drained, because you will be doing too much advising and guidance because those religious women cant think with their brains!

all what am going through

FuckYeyeMods:
That I can marry anybody...
Guys! You can't just marry anybody. You have to do due diligence..
Marrying just anybody can have consequences.
Don't learn the hard way.
Marriage is different from Boyfriend and Girlfriend.

Exactly what am passing through.. I saw a lady and marry her without due diligence

bigdawg7:
Never date a girl from a broke family they are always in a relationship for survival not genuine love

100% true.

imoh4king:
This is so on point. They carry Pastors and Church doctrine on their head. Never thinking outside the box. Guy, you feel my pain....

am passing through the same thing in my marriage

treatise:
Say that again. It
Beclouded unimaginable frailties that are now having horrible adverse consequences.

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves.

kaymart:
But people pray to marry religious spouse

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves.

7arrows:
Realy? I'll like to hear small gist if you can flow.

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves. If you are a man full of ambitions they will destroy it..

YourGFsnatcher:
Most wicked women I met are the most religious. I can never be close to a religious woman, NEVER

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves.

bepositive11:
Why?

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves.

Hahnemann:
She no gree give u doggy?

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves.

imoh4king:
Abeg, why? Am dating one

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves. If you are a man that is fill with ambitions and goals.. don't go for them they will destroy u.

treatise:
Say that again. It
Beclouded unimaginable frailties that are now having horrible adverse consequences.

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves.