₦airaland Forum

Cassandraloius:
God will bring one for you, not just anyone but the one your heart desire.

madridguy:
As woman plenty reach you know see woman to marry?

BigBlackPreek:
Rivers should be number 1 on the list. a zinc house per room here goes for nothing less than 70k

franchasofficia:
Do not make that mistake of marrying anyhow please. Man no de old so long as he is doing well financially.


All will be well, don't give up, but in all you do, marry a kind lady, a lady with human conscience, an empathetic lady who has respect not just for her family members but for others

franchasofficia:
You are not yet ready to marry bro.


I am happily married going 5 years soon and I was a street smart guy before I married, I also suffered a lot financially so I am in a position to advice you well because I have been on both sides of life.



If you want to remain financially buoyant and successful, you must consider this when picking a wife.


Don't marry out of pity because ladies don't marry out of pity, they marry the best available man to them. If they tell you how many guys some married and single ladies have rejected before picking their current husband or fiance, you will stop pitying ladies when making your own relationship decisions.


Ladies consider a lot before accepting a man as husband. Top on the things ladies consider are:


1.) His financial status
2.) His academic background
3.) His ability to spend and cater for them.



But unfortunately guys consider stupid qualifies when picking a wife and that is why many guys remain poor or go back broke after marriage.


Guys consider foolish qualities like:

Buttocks size
Boobs size
How hard it was for them to get the girl; mumu guys take girls that suffer them before saying yes as wife material.


If you want to marry and not go broke after marriage, please forget all those yeye physical qualities of big ass, big boobs, etc cos no matter how big your wife ass or boobs is or how fine she is, majority of men will still cheat or want to experience small ass girls after marrying big ass lady lolz, men are that confused so don't waste your time picking physical attributes of a lady over crucial qualities that will sustain your wealth after marriage.



To avoid going broke after marriage, marry a lady from a good family background with good career. Men should learn how to dig gold too, gold digging is not bad, ladies have been digging gold since BC and the world didn't end.


If u are a guy doing well financially, to avoid going broke after marriage, go for career ladies from established family backgrounds, they full ground, even as a married guy I de see them everyday. Unless you are a broke or struggling single guy, then it will be hard for you to get such high caliber ladies, sadly

easyfem:
But why this gov always borrow and u expect you naija currency not to loose value . This is part of reason why our currency is failing . I no won too blame tinubu like that but as for BUARI , he no go die well

henrycryptmento:
sent. Join the group if you are serious about increasing your wealth online.

henrycryptmento:
sent. Join if you serious about increasing wealth

StrongAlphMale:
You need to reach out to your sister asap for her sanity to be restored.

The situation with the op's mom is understandable because she's already an old woman of 62, so no need for any make up or too much dressing. Na old woman she be already. True. Thanks

But you see the case of your sister, she might end up becoming 44 and yet no single man go approach her. Men are moved by what they see. Tell her to avoid religion and start dressing like a lady should! (Not walking around naked oo) make she dress smart and sharp and not like an old woman

God1000:
Nice one, but no Nigerian female referee among them

Mcslize:
I understand how you feel. You are not alone. But I must tell you, you can't afford to be with the wrong woman as a man. She will make life miserable for you. You need to get it right and this is where you have to be intentional about it but not with desperation.

Taking Williams Uchemba as an example. When Uchemba was looking to settling down, before he met his current wife he is married to now, he said he has other ladies he was relating with at the time.

However, those particular ladies didn't tick the major box for him. They were still lacking in some important qualities he really wants in a woman.

He felt quite confused at the time, and guess what he did! He said he fervently prayed about it asking God to give him the right woman. Take note, he prayed for the right woman.

After sometimes, miraculously, he ended up meeting this his present wife. He examined her and discovered that she actually ticked all the major boxes for him in terms of being with the right woman.

That's why I earlier said that when it comes to finding the right woman, it's not something you do alone with your human wisdom. You need to seek a celestial help from above. You need to intentionally pray about it, asking whichever God you serve to guide you, depending on your religion. You need to seek devine direction.

Now this verse of the Bible comes to mind.

biblegateway.com

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. - Philippians 4:6 NIV.

Now, let me tell you 1 to 2 of the reasons Uchemba married that his wife. He said he married his wife because;

1. She is godly, loyal and has respect

2. She gives him peace of mind

3. She isn't materialistic

4. She is supportive

Those are the different boxes she ticks for him. Having dated her for sometimes, he discovered she was the one for him. How did he arrive at that? He prayed for it and he got exactly what he asked for. He discovered this particular lady was different from the rest of the ladies he was relating with.

So, as young men who are due for marriage, let's borrow some lessons from Williams Uchemba as we look out for that rightful one.

Kingrshd3:
You waiting for so long too doesn't mean u will still meet the right person.
Marriage is luck and grace and there is now how you date the girl just to fish out if she is right or wrong ..
It's all about risk and get some needs or what u need from a woman at least 70% is fine...
Thanks

Then start don't wait until u will turn 60years when u will need them or when u might have retired and by then who will train them 🤔

So it's earliar you decide and I pray u get it right 👍

Mcslize:
The issue is not really about getting married. There are many young guys that are ripe and actually ready for marriage. But one major problem is the issue of finding the right one.

Looking at how damaged our young ladies of today have become, many guys that are ready for marriage get discouraged.

To meet the right lady is not a day job. You can't do it by yourself. You need to seek devine help from above.

Meeting the right one will come naturally when you are hopeful and less desperate. But when you get bothered over your age and always filled with the thought of all your mate getting married already, you will feel desperate. And when you are desperate, you will end up simping for women which might make you end up investing in the wrong lady that might later end up leaving you for another guy while using you to get material things.

So, the best thing to do as a man, is to calm down and make sure you take your time to find that special, well brought up, virtuous lady that will give you peace of mind and treat you like a king.

In fact, as a man, you can get married even at 50. Men never outgrown marriage, only women do, due to menopause.

So, never allow desperation of marriage make you invest in the wrong woman or date a wrong woman for marriage.

Namaster:
[/b]Forget marriage. Marriage is NEVER late for men.[b]

If you have the money, LEAVE Nigeria. Don't even think twice.

There's no reason to stay in Nigeria unless you are part of the cabals.

KingLennon:
The worst thing that can happen to any nigga now, is marrying a girl without the fear of God

You go explain tire

Fremantle:
You've been added 👍