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TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 8:44pm On Sep 15, 2019
P0c0p0c0:
Ike is far from it, I like him but truth has to be said. Except other Tier2 form alliance and back one person.

That way silicone and Noleave-noTransfer can allow is hear word.

Imagine them announcing Tacha as the winner? Rather than fall like Efe and Miracle, she will jack microphone from Ebuka amd start chanting

"99 days...no leave no transfer..."
grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 8:38pm On Sep 15, 2019
Abeg wetin dey worry Seyi? E be like say Tacha "no leave, no transfer" dey pepper am
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 8:29pm On Sep 15, 2019
It's shouting competition this night.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 6:35pm On Sep 15, 2019
Rinde01:
Now that my fave khafi is going which hms should I give my 3000 vote
I think frood will better
Frodd, please
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 6:27pm On Sep 15, 2019
Frank65:
Seyi said that he wants to sue Tacha for defamation of character cheesy cheesy
That's absurd given that he also called her unpleasant names. We watch sha
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01:
safarigirl:
I have seen on both sides. The rich and poor.

I always preach moderation in life. Don't go for anything in excess, you should build with a man, but don't be with a man that has done nothing. Let him have a foundation, then you build with it, but someone that has built finish and you want to sit in lap of luxury? Also, be ready for what comes with that.

It is well
My dear, no one can finish/has finished building as long as one is alive. The bottom line is, ensure you are adding value to your partner and vice versa.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 11:43am On Sep 15, 2019
safarigirl:
at least, if you are poor and in an abusive relationship, people will listen to your plight and help you. Na you fit no wvwn gree for help.

But anybody in an abusive relationship with a rich person, is done for. Nobody will understand, nobody will sympathize, after all, her husband is rich. You will be crying and begging for help, and nobody will see you. At least, your husband is rich, that is what you will hear. If he beats you, your problem, no money, your problem.

I have seen this thing first hand, the worst kind of jail is the one with a rich husband, but of course, when you haven't seen it, you will think those of us who have live in caves and know nothing.

To each their own sha. Let everybody choose the cross they can carry. I know better and will advise my loved ones better.
The only person that can help you leave an abusive relationship is YOU. Rich or poor is inconsequential IMO.

@ bolded. Ok. There's no convincing each other. It seems like we both formed our opinions from what we have experienced/seen around us.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 11:28am On Sep 15, 2019
P0c0p0c0:
Lets not delude ourselves, everyone marries for something.

Looks, youthfulness, virginity, submissiveness, homely skills, independence...etc.

No law that states a woman who married "for money" can't have her own money. 1 + 1 = 2. 1 + 0 = 1.

It feels good to know your man can hold things down and you need money to do that.
True. Self interest is inherent in our choice of a life partner.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 10:56am On Sep 15, 2019
Tayeni:
Mercy don tame gangster. He lost himself in the rabbit hole while chasing access to the booty.....he no know say Mercy na him grandmother. That girl has more guile in that game than anyone else....you think its easy getting maney off sugardaddies while ensuring to keep the mileage as low as possible?

TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 9:35am On Sep 15, 2019
fitzmayowa:
This morning is for Marriage discussion, Oya marriage counsellors we are jotting things down o...
grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 9:33am On Sep 15, 2019
BluntBoy:
Premodial ke?

There was no money from the beginning o. And no marriage either.

However, in prehistoric times, women spread legs for stronger men. Same with what still happens among animals. A lioness, for instance, does not need a lion that can kill prey for her. A lioness is very much capable of taking down her own prey. However, a lioness would allow a stronger male access to her because of protection, and superior stock (children).

Women sought protection (which was why nature made them relatively smaller in size by ensuring that they had less testosterone than men).

How money got into the equation is not new as well. But it is not natural. Because nature did not make women incapable of making their own money, especially in today's world.
From your post, its not difficult to deduce how money got into the equation. Money is the protection.

I agree with you that women also have the capacity to make money. In some homes, women are breadwinners and a number of young ladies now understand the place of financial independence.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 9:21am On Sep 15, 2019
nazablossom:
Free advice from a married woman. If you want to earn your respect from a man, make your own damn money. Nothing beats financial independence.It's as simple as that.

Good morning all and happy Sunday to you all!!
True. This cannot be overemphasized.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 9:06am On Sep 15, 2019
safarigirl:
You did not understwnd my point at all

I never said money is bad, I said money being the ONLY thing, or making it your TOP priority is BAD

There are too many wealthy couples in sad and abysive relationship. You are looking for a life partner, not a master. When your purpose for marrying a person is because of his money, you will end up sad and unfulfilled, because money without character and personality is empty.

I can't believe you misconstrued my words this much.
Not that I misunderstand your point but I hope you know that there are many poor couples in equally sad and abusive relationships. Abuse has nothing to do with being rich or poor.

Again, people marry for different reasons. Marriage is based on self interest.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 8:46am On Sep 15, 2019
Mimirabelle4:
Your hate for Mercy is legendary though. I think she & Ike are both money driven.
Thank you jare. People will applaud a man for the same thing they'll send a woman to the gallows for. Mercy merely echoed the thoughts of many Nigerian women.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 10:11pm On Sep 13, 2019
Seyi wins ooo. Even BB wants him to win. Sucre papito
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 10:04pm On Sep 13, 2019
Ike did well with the puzzle ooo but the key delayed him small.

Ike Ike Ike our guy grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 10:02pm On Sep 13, 2019
switlily25:
We are celebrating Tacha's victory because of tye hatred people like you have towards her!
You guys expected her to get buzzed out but she disappointed you all!
I am sure if she had finished earlier,you guys would have still complained!
Tatashe don enter all of una eyes!!!!
Haq haq haq!
Hey, its not hatred. She has been associated with being buzzed out for so long. Now that she's performing better, "haters" (according to Tacha's fans) will adjust their expectations.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 9:56pm On Sep 13, 2019
No doubt, Tacha has improved and it seems to me like she's making efforts to perform better at the arena games. However, the way some of her fans celebrate here ehn, you'll think she has the best time grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 7:58pm On Sep 13, 2019
sanusi44z:
It is occasionally, i believe. And i guess it is getting worse.

Seyi covered his nose while sitting beside her through out last eviction show.
I think Seyi was just trying to irk her by covering his nose. It's possible that the body odour thing can be remedied with proper hygiene. I hope she takes it in good faith and try to improve personal hygiene.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 6:52pm On Sep 13, 2019
evavista:
But most hms have perceived it, because Khafi doesn't have a sensitive nose doesn't mean the odour is absent
grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 1:37am On Sep 13, 2019
dominique:
Now he has gone to beg her and he's prophesying his love. I give up, off to bed
I knew this was going to happen. Not surprised at all. Ike is a snake but I still like him though
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 1:21am On Sep 13, 2019
I really wish Ebuka would ask Ike questions about this conversation he's having with Tacha and Frodd. It will be interesting to watch.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 1:16am On Sep 13, 2019
Beorn1:
Listening to Ike, I feel that the dude maybe ruined his game with the relationship he fell into.


Ike would've been the total package. He'd have been the controversial bad boy to set the house on fire and have ladies like Kim and Ellah fighting over each him. Ike would've been the playboy the season lacked, but Mercy managed to tame him. A love he's now regretting. I don't know the intricacies of their relationship but I feel Ike would've been better off without being in a relationship.


The strikes too also terribly calmed him down. Kudos to him for still showing his potentials.
I agree with you totally. Mercy seems to be benefitting more from their "situationship". However, Ike needs to grow balls and cut off from her if he feels its not beneficial to him rather than gossiping about her with other housemates.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 12:45am On Sep 13, 2019
scondy:
Ike wants to smash.....and he is getting fustrated..all d lover boy has not yielded that stuff....so like normal guy man....he is thinking....wetin i gain? .....y not just quit...
Hmmm... Another angle
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 11:43pm On Sep 12, 2019
Yakahot:
This Omashola is really vengeful.
So that zero Mercy scored him still dey im mind.
I've noticed he's been watching my girl. He feels threatened. He notices how driven and sweet she is and he tries to tarnish her image with every chance he gets. Teasing and giving subtle hints at the same time not knowing Mercy sees through him.

Let me not even waste my spit on this small fish. He cannot even win.
He's really bitter about the 0 score... The thing still dey pain am well well.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 11:41pm On Sep 12, 2019
scondy:
The way she poison Frodd abi...lol....

Omashola is a fake human being.....not original at all....thats y i hardly talk about him.....

"He who is not real to me.....does not exist to me"
Omoshola is still pissed she scored his team 0.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 11:39pm On Sep 12, 2019
Brownsun:
wow. that description fit Tacha more tho.
grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 10:29pm On Sep 12, 2019
fitzmayowa:
Mercy just hailed Khafi for imitating her well, Khafi did good this night...cheesy cheesy cheesy
I like what she did because some persons were already waiting to call her bitter. I hope she doesn't complain later sha.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 10:25pm On Sep 12, 2019
FrankGiel:
Pls what does ''no leave no transfer" mean??
It means "she's going nowhere. Haters take note" grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 10:22pm On Sep 12, 2019
Brownsun:
so biggie dashed legends d wager this week.



Nonsense!!!! My Mercy wont take this well oooo. I smell fight tonight.


Goodnight mbok.
So far, she is taking it well. She just hugged Khafi
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 10:29pm On Sep 08, 2019
Chibabe005:
This is why maybe I may like ike..


quite different from the ologbu crew

Dude might talk behind you,listen to whatever they gossip but comes to your presence calm, and listen to know if the impression about you is right or wrong..


He's smart.
Hmmm, he's smart because he's "gossiping" with Tacha abi?
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Ujay01: 10:26pm On Sep 08, 2019
Threebear:
Tacha - I'm happy to see her go .
She also admitted that she was awed by Venita's talents that she even had to ask her if there was any thing she couldn't do.

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