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Jobs/VacanciesThe Simple Steps To Reaching Your Goals, Motivational Self Improvement by ukpai4real(op): 4:52pm On Jan 09, 2010
I'm sure this is not the first time you have heard about goal setting.

The reason you keep hearing about it is because it really is important to your life. A good definition of goals is that they are dreams with deadlines.

Yes, you can make your dreams come true.

How do you want your life to be 10 years from now?

How about 5 years, next year, or even 6 months from now.

The only difference between setting goals for your business or career, and setting personal goals is the subject matter.

With commitment and persistence, and setting goals, your life can be any way you want it.

When you actually sit down and start identifying goals, you will probably end up with a long list. Decide what is most important to you in your business and personal lives.

All goals do not have equal value. Some will be more meaningful to you. These are the goals to start on. Keep your list of the remaining goals to get back to later.

Trying to do too much at the same time can be self-defeating.

Once you have selected the goals to start on, give each goal a deadline. Short term goals, such as completing a project, will be completed in six months or less.

Medium term goals, such as increasing a customer base, or revenue, will be a yearly target. Your goal for career advancement could be in this time frame.

Long term goals can run for several years, such as where do you want your business to be in 5 years, or building your nest egg to retire in 5, 10 or 20 years.

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TV/MoviesBe An Embodiment Of The Person You’d Like To Be By Mark by ukpai4real(op): 1:54am On Jan 09, 2010
Being starts with simply being that which you would like to become. Once you mediate and hold the belief within yourself that you are what you would like to be, you start becoming that very thing, from the inside out!

Embodying what you would like to become transforms you. You already hold the traits within you that you would like to become.

In fact, it wouldn’t be possible to envision this new “person” you would like to be if you weren’t actually able to achieve that very vision. Allow yourself to feel it. And allow yourself to believe it.

Action Step:

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EducationPurpose Gives Your Life Meaning By Mike Brescia by ukpai4real(op): 1:47am On Jan 09, 2010
Purpose Gives Your Life Meaning By Mike Brescia

Look at any person, past or present, who achieved truly great things. People you know. Behind their accomplishments you will undoubtedly find a passion and love for what they do.

That deep emotion can only be aroused by a compelling purpose…

…an idea about what their life is to stand for.

So few people ever take even a few minutes and think about their purpose. Hardly anyone ever asks himself or herself, “What am I here for?” I never asked myself that question until October 1996.

In building the largest business of its type in the world, I became a slave to it. Building that business was not my purpose. So I asked myself, “What would I really love to do if I didn’t have to work to make a living?” The answer allowed me to be able to talk to tens of thousands of people every day.

And I love doing it…

Here’s a great story about being led by a great purpose:

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BusinessPurpose Gives Your Life Meaning By Mike Brescia by ukpai4real(op): 1:46am On Jan 09, 2010
Purpose Gives Your Life Meaning By Mike Brescia

Look at any person, past or present, who achieved truly great things. People you know. Behind their accomplishments you will undoubtedly find a passion and love for what they do.

That deep emotion can only be aroused by a compelling purpose…

…an idea about what their life is to stand for.

So few people ever take even a few minutes and think about their purpose. Hardly anyone ever asks himself or herself, “What am I here for?” I never asked myself that question until October 1996.

In building the largest business of its type in the world, I became a slave to it. Building that business was not my purpose. So I asked myself, “What would I really love to do if I didn’t have to work to make a living?” The answer allowed me to be able to talk to tens of thousands of people every day.

And I love doing it…

Here’s a great story about being led by a great purpose:

to continue this article click on
http://yourinnermind..com/2010/01/purpose-gives-your-life-meaning-by-mike.html
Certification And Training AdvertsPurpose Gives Your Life Meaning By Mike Brescia by ukpai4real(op): 12:44am On Jan 09, 2010
Purpose Gives Your Life Meaning By Mike Brescia

Look at any person, past or present, who achieved truly great things. People you know. Behind their accomplishments you will undoubtedly find a passion and love for what they do.

That deep emotion can only be aroused by a compelling purpose…

…an idea about what their life is to stand for.

So few people ever take even a few minutes and think about their purpose. Hardly anyone ever asks himself or herself, “What am I here for?” I never asked myself that question until October 1996.

In building the largest business of its type in the world, I became a slave to it. Building that business was not my purpose. So I asked myself, “What would I really love to do if I didn’t have to work to make a living?” The answer allowed me to be able to talk to tens of thousands of people every day.

And I love doing it…

Here’s a great story about being led by a great purpose:

to continue with this article click on.
http://yourinnermind..com/2010/01/purpose-gives-your-life-meaning-by-mike.html
Nairaland GeneralThe Power Of Self-image by ukpai4real(op): 6:02am On Jan 06, 2010
Visualizing yourself as a success in your field of endeavor is the inside tip in accomplishing anything you want. If you can specifically imagine being the person you want to become, you will attain that reality.

Forgive yourself. Just as you would another person, tell yourself that it's okay for all those mistakes, or the should-haves that keep popping up in your mind. Don't dwell on the past and get blocked by events from long ago.

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Christianity EtcCan Followers Be Motivated By Leadership Styles? by ukpai4real(op): 5:55am On Jan 06, 2010
creating a Submissive Corporate Culture

“Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord.” (Ephesians 5:22) This is exactly what companies are expecting from their followers. They are making their followers feel obligated to being loyal and have taken it out of context, just as readers of the cited scripture do. What happened to the rest of the scripture which states in Ephesians 5:21 “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ?” The command advises a two-way relationship and that part of the scripture appears to have been ignored. Companies that serve their followers will receive superior service from them if they cultivate a serving relationship.

How are results-oriented companies able to compete in a world full of results oriented businesses? They recruit followers as potential future leaders and direct them to be compliant toward a desired goal. The follower’s career path is based on the direction of the customer. The training plan is already created and the only thing the follower has to do is select “I commit” to the appropriate training plan. The follower either complies or doesn’t have a job with this type of company.

When the goal is to do what is best for the customer, the company conveys behaviors they require to achieve success in a high performance culture. This type of culture is one in which performance goals and commitments are blatantly clear. A high performance culture, according to Reid and Hubbell (March/April 2005), “is based on discipline. This discipline promotes decisiveness and standards of excellence and ensures direct accountability.” I currently work for an organization that cultivates a high performance culture. Each employee is provided with a two page template of performance goals. In previous organizations I’ve worked for, the leader would collaborate with me to determine my performance goals. In my current organization, my leader emailed me a mandatory set of goals for my review. I deleted those I didn’t agree with, put them in my final document and emailed the final document to her. Upon her receipt of my performance plan, she contacted me and stated that the goals were formatted so that they would fit neatly into my document. I was quite shocked by this. Where was the collaboration? Apparently this was a one-way relationship and I am expected to agree with the policies.

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http://leadership4you..com/2010/01/can-followers-be-motivated-by.html
PoliticsCan Followers Be Motivated By Leadership Styles? by ukpai4real(op): 5:50am On Jan 06, 2010
creating a Submissive Corporate Culture

“Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord.” (Ephesians 5:22) This is exactly what companies are expecting from their followers. They are making their followers feel obligated to being loyal and have taken it out of context, just as readers of the cited scripture do. What happened to the rest of the scripture which states in Ephesians 5:21 “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ?” The command advises a two-way relationship and that part of the scripture appears to have been ignored. Companies that serve their followers will receive superior service from them if they cultivate a serving relationship.

How are results-oriented companies able to compete in a world full of results oriented businesses? They recruit followers as potential future leaders and direct them to be compliant toward a desired goal. The follower’s career path is based on the direction of the customer. The training plan is already created and the only thing the follower has to do is select “I commit” to the appropriate training plan. The follower either complies or doesn’t have a job with this type of company.

When the goal is to do what is best for the customer, the company conveys behaviors they require to achieve success in a high performance culture. This type of culture is one in which performance goals and commitments are blatantly clear. A high performance culture, according to Reid and Hubbell (March/April 2005), “is based on discipline. This discipline promotes decisiveness and standards of excellence and ensures direct accountability.” I currently work for an organization that cultivates a high performance culture. Each employee is provided with a two page template of performance goals. In previous organizations I’ve worked for, the leader would collaborate with me to determine my performance goals. In my current organization, my leader emailed me a mandatory set of goals for my review. I deleted those I didn’t agree with, put them in my final document and emailed the final document to her. Upon her receipt of my performance plan, she contacted me and stated that the goals were formatted so that they would fit neatly into my document. I was quite shocked by this. Where was the collaboration? Apparently this was a one-way relationship and I am expected to agree with the policies.

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http://leadership4you..com/2010/01/can-followers-be-motivated-by.html
Family6 Things You Must Do To Become An Effective Leader In The Midst Of Change by ukpai4real(op): 4:29am On Jan 06, 2010
All progress is the result of change. But not all change is progress. Some changes don’t make any sense. In fact, some leadership behaviors actually create more stress for yourself and your coworkers.

So what works?

Based on my 22 years of consulting and speaking to organizations around the world, I’ve found six things you must do to become an effective leader in the midst of change.

1. Don't beat yourself up.

You did not cause the tough, changing times in your industry, and you could not have predicted all the changes coming down the pike. The nature of change is unpredictable.

For example, who could have predicted the change in fashion? Do you remember when clothing tags were worn on the inside? Now if you go to the malls, you will see many teenagers wearing them on the outside.

Who could have predicted the change in lifestyle behaviors between generations? Do you remember when safe sex meant your parents did not find out? Now some parents "equip" their kids for sex.

Or, who could have predicted the change in the marketplace? The great movie mogul, Harry Warner, couldn't in 1922, when he said, "Who the ---- wants to hear actors talk?"

The founder of IBM, Tom Watson, Senior, couldn't in 1943 when he said, "I think there is a world market for about five computers."

Ken Olsen, the President of Digital Equipment Corporation couldn't in 1973 when he said, "There is no reason for anyone to have a computer in his house."

So don't beat yourself up for not being able to predict or prevent tough changing times. This will deflate you, and you need to be out there motivating your colleagues.
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Politics6 Things You Must Do To Become An Effective Leader In The Midst Of Change by ukpai4real(op): 3:20am On Jan 06, 2010
All progress is the result of change. But not all change is progress. Some changes don’t make any sense. In fact, some leadership behaviors actually create more stress for yourself and your coworkers.

So what works?

Based on my 22 years of consulting and speaking to organizations around the world, I’ve found six things you must do to become an effective leader in the midst of change.

1. Don't beat yourself up.

You did not cause the tough, changing times in your industry, and you could not have predicted all the changes coming down the pike. The nature of change is unpredictable.

For example, who could have predicted the change in fashion? Do you remember when clothing tags were worn on the inside? Now if you go to the malls, you will see many teenagers wearing them on the outside.

Who could have predicted the change in lifestyle behaviors between generations? Do you remember when safe sex meant your parents did not find out? Now some parents "equip" their kids for sex.

Or, who could have predicted the change in the marketplace? The great movie mogul, Harry Warner, couldn't in 1922, when he said, "Who the ---- wants to hear actors talk?"

The founder of IBM, Tom Watson, Senior, couldn't in 1943 when he said, "I think there is a world market for about five computers."

Ken Olsen, the President of Digital Equipment Corporation couldn't in 1973 when he said, "There is no reason for anyone to have a computer in his house."

So don't beat yourself up for not being able to predict or prevent tough changing times. This will deflate you, and you need to be out there motivating your colleagues.

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http://leadership4you..com/2010/01/organizational-change-6-things-you-must.html

Thankx
Nairaland General5 Great Techniques To Realize Your Goals This Year 2010 by ukpai4real(op): 10:02pm On Jan 04, 2010
oals keep us motivated. But sometimes, people find it too hard to achieve their goals. Maybe because they have set long-term goals before setting short-term ones, or they did not plan their goals carefully.

Goal-setting strategies are important especially for those who want to achieve long-term goals. Here are five goal-setting techniques to help you realize them.

1. Start with short-term goals that will lead you to long-term ones. Sometimes, people start with short-term goals unconsciously. Why unconsciously? Some of them may have considered the goals to be long-term at the time they planned them; and after achieving a goal, they realize that they are in fact, looking forward to a longer one. Some are contented with their short-term goals, but after a while will realize that they also need to attain long-term ones. Short-term goals seem to be our set off for longer ones. They will motivate the person to plan for longer goals, which will usually take some time before achieving them in full.

to continue with the article click this link below.
http://yourinnermind..com/2010/01/5-great-techniques-to-realize-your.html

Hope this article have help you .

Thankx
Properties5 Great Techniques To Realize Your Goals This Year 2010 by ukpai4real(op): 10:01pm On Jan 04, 2010
oals keep us motivated. But sometimes, people find it too hard to achieve their goals. Maybe because they have set long-term goals before setting short-term ones, or they did not plan their goals carefully.

Goal-setting strategies are important especially for those who want to achieve long-term goals. Here are five goal-setting techniques to help you realize them.

1. Start with short-term goals that will lead you to long-term ones. Sometimes, people start with short-term goals unconsciously. Why unconsciously? Some of them may have considered the goals to be long-term at the time they planned them; and after achieving a goal, they realize that they are in fact, looking forward to a longer one. Some are contented with their short-term goals, but after a while will realize that they also need to attain long-term ones. Short-term goals seem to be our set off for longer ones. They will motivate the person to plan for longer goals, which will usually take some time before achieving them in full.

to continue with the article click this link below.
http://yourinnermind..com/2010/01/5-great-techniques-to-realize-your.html

Hope this article have help you .

Thankx
Education5 Great Techniques To Realize Your Goals This Year 2010 by ukpai4real(op): 9:55pm On Jan 04, 2010
oals keep us motivated. But sometimes, people find it too hard to achieve their goals. Maybe because they have set long-term goals before setting short-term ones, or they did not plan their goals carefully.

Goal-setting strategies are important especially for those who want to achieve long-term goals. Here are five goal-setting techniques to help you realize them.

1. Start with short-term goals that will lead you to long-term ones. Sometimes, people start with short-term goals unconsciously. Why unconsciously? Some of them may have considered the goals to be long-term at the time they planned them; and after achieving a goal, they realize that they are in fact, looking forward to a longer one. Some are contented with their short-term goals, but after a while will realize that they also need to attain long-term ones. Short-term goals seem to be our set off for longer ones. They will motivate the person to plan for longer goals, which will usually take some time before achieving them in full.

to continue with the article click this link below.
http://yourinnermind..com/2010/01/5-great-techniques-to-realize-your.html

Hope this article have help you .

Thankx
Nairaland General5 Great Techniques To Realize Your Goals This Year 2010 by ukpai4real(op): 9:54pm On Jan 04, 2010
Goals keep us motivated. But sometimes, people find it too hard to achieve their goals. Maybe because they have set long-term goals before setting short-term ones, or they did not plan their goals carefully.

Goal-setting strategies are important especially for those who want to achieve long-term goals. Here are five goal-setting techniques to help you realize them.

1. Start with short-term goals that will lead you to long-term ones. Sometimes, people start with short-term goals unconsciously. Why unconsciously? Some of them may have considered the goals to be long-term at the time they planned them; and after achieving a goal, they realize that they are in fact, looking forward to a longer one. Some are contented with their short-term goals, but after a while will realize that they also need to attain long-term ones. Short-term goals seem to be our set off for longer ones. They will motivate the person to plan for longer goals, which will usually take some time before achieving them in full.

to continue with the article click this link below.
http://yourinnermind..com/2010/01/5-great-techniques-to-realize-your.html

Hope this article have help you .

Thankx
BusinessHow To Accomplish Anything You Want In Life This Year 2010 by ukpai4real(op): 9:48pm On Jan 04, 2010
Hello Friend,

It is possible for you to accomplished anything you want in your life this year 2010,
it is very possible if you will follow this step critically and carefully, And always apply what you learn.
Do more research about what you are reading.

Click this link to read the article on how to accomplish anything you want in life this year 2010.

http://yourinnermind..com/2010/01/how-to-accomplish-anything-you-want-in.html

Hope you will find the article using for you to achieve greatness.

Thankx
AdvertsHow To Accomplish Anything You Want In Life This Year 2010 by ukpai4real(op): 9:45pm On Jan 04, 2010
Hello Friend,

It is possible for you to accomplished anything you want in your life this year 2010,
it is very possible if you will follow this step critically and carefully, And always apply what you learn.
Do more research about what you are reading.

Click this link to read the article on how to accomplish anything you want in life this year 2010.

http://yourinnermind..com/2010/01/how-to-accomplish-anything-you-want-in.html

Hope you will find the article using for you to achieve greatness.

Thankx
Education10 Things That Kill Your Motivation This Year As A Student by ukpai4real(op): 6:37am On Dec 31, 2009
Dear Friend,
there is nothing so frustrating than when your lack motivation for doing things.

Here you will see 10 things that kill your motivation, which you must be very careful about this year. check it out.

http://yourinnermind..com/2009/12/10-things-that-kill-motivation.html

Hope you will find this one interesting and note it you so you dont make any mistake this year.

Thankx
Nairaland GeneralFlying Into Headwinds By Brian Tracy by ukpai4real(op): 6:25am On Dec 31, 2009
Welcome to the era of achieving greater things this season as we are into the year 2010,

We will need to fly into headwinds this year.

Check the strong motivation by Brian Tracy,

http://yourinnermind..com/2009/12/flying-into-headwinds-by-brian-tracy.html

Hope you will motivate yourself to achieve great things this year.

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