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Cesarr1:
Guy if she no fit go sexual with u
Infact fucking u. She no dey really feel u sexually b that

Guy, you are right. I have also seen that toasting a girl is for men who don't know the game.
There's a way one of my street guy deals with babies that always get me surprised. Without even toasting Shai some guys bad.

A lot of the time, people discouraged you because they don't want you progress.

Before I got the position that I am occupying in my place of work, I was a contract staff. The opportunity was given to two company members but they rejected saying that one can easily get sacked.

I was on my own when I was approached by the manager for the position. I accepted it and preparation started so that I could come in.

Those two staff members and their friends discouraged me about accepting the offer. They told that you are the head in your department, giving orders and making decisions, why leave fir a place you could be sacked in a month?

I nearly reject the offer but then, I told myself that growth comes with high risk. I told myself that even though I worked for a month, as long as I've changed position, I'm fine.

Well, I'm past one year now.

In seeking for opinions, you'll be seen as immature and you will be taken for granted.

lexy2014:
which still takes us back to my question. How is taking advantage of the suffering of Nigerians and breaking the law to enrich yourself being smart?

Broke law? Oh no. All I see is business transactions between neighbors.

And those people, are they not Nigerians? Did they steal the product or buy with their own money?

You kept saying Nigerians suffering but people are being smart enough to use their money to make more money for themselves.

lexy2014:
Did I say you didn't reply?

I didnt ask you what government does or does not do.

How is taking advantage of the suffering of Nigerians and breaking the law to enrich yourself being smart?

That's where the smart ones find wealth, from the suffering of others. They take advantage. They were not the ones that created the scarcity and long queues on petrol stations however, they find opportunities and made smart use of it.

DeOTR:
You didn't give the right answer.
You consider cheating as being smart then went ahead to claim our government does that too.
It's a fact all over the world that you can have better leaders than the people, which corroborated the fact that our government is just a reflection of us the people.
Most of you complaining cut corners as much as you can every day. You'll do worse if you have better opportunities.

I might be wrong and stand to be corrected. Covid was a major boost to Biden's victory and infact, the epidemic died after he was declared the winner. Better leaders killed their citizens to regain power right?
French president was accused of selling military wares to Russia while other world leaders condemned the Russian attact. Even they, the French government condemned the invading of sovereign nation but yeah, business transactions must take place. Better leaders right?

People sees opportunity in scarcity and are making use of it, and that's being smart.

And even you, if you find yourself in the corridors of power, might likely do the same.

lexy2014:
I didnt ask you what government does or does not do.

How is taking advantage of the suffering of Nigerians and breaking the law to enrich yourself being smart?

And I just replied you.

And before you know it, he will be mingling with the new CKN for court Judgement favors.

lexy2014:
How is taking advantage of the suffering of Nigerians and breaking the law to enrich yourself being smart?

Because that's what the government do too.

We are facing fuel hardship, people are using it to cash out in other countries.

Business no go kill Nigerians.

Last last, na the smart ones dey ball the cash.

bdsm:
Groping...

Some girls like it. Pls don't attempt until u are sure.

Last week at a club a girl used her nipples to shook my back. It was fuccking deliberate

A lot of girls normally do this to me in a crowded bank hall usually, when students of a certain university back then are rushing to pay their fees.

Something is giving this man strong head. But for this life, if you no get strong head, you no go accomplish plenty things.

Soft soft no good at all.

This their matter no dey end anytime soon o.

Politics no be your mate.

eazzzy1:
Attracting women isn’t really a function of what you do but who you are. Someone could tell you this is what I do, then you try it and it doesn’t yield the same result.

The guys who attract females have some natural features or abilities that can’t be thought. Looks, height, humour, class, demure, colour, nice speaking/singing voice, talent, genius etc.

Outside of all these, the only way you can attract women is by being successful.

You may be right. He has this annoying laugh to me oooo which i find it irritating, but do you know that a guy angrily left the bar with his babe running behind him? She stares at the boy for a number of times and I believe his guy couldn't hold it again. He also accused her of genuinely laughing at the guy's gist while she hardly laughs at home.

To think that this guy is not even 6ft tall baffles me the more.

Leemzyy:
For those dirty guys who sleeps with married women...may some dirty guys also be sleeping with your wife,say amen!! nonsense man and woman

Do you entirely blame the guys?

FRANCISTOWN:
Next time you visit the bar. Try to pick up how people went from being just a millionaire to multimillionaire, investments tactics, history and edifying conversations.
If in this current economy, someone's sexual escapades is the reason you can't sleep then you might need to have a rethink.

Life doesn't revolve around sex.

Do you know that after working for a while, you may digress? You can be blogging, YouTubing or freelancing. That one made a post late in the night doesn't mean he's been thinking of some sort of useless stuff but then, if such thoughts cribs in, I believe, nothing wrong in sharing.

Thanks anyway.

onumadu:
@OP, I don't know how young you are, but you sound young.
One advice I can give you for free is that seducing women is NOT an achievement.
At all.
Instead of learning how to seduce women, use that your brain to discover how to add value to society and probably make money in return.
Don't waste your time on pure vanity.
Adopt and implement my advice and thank me later.

I never took the talk that serious until I read these two threads in the early hours of today.

https://www.nairaland.com/8189504/regret-getting-married-why

https://www.nairaland.com/8189735/husband-caught-wife-red-handed-having

And judging from people's comments on these threads, I tend to believe that somehow, success doesn't guarantee happiness in a man's life when he knows that his other half is not truly into him.

I can't really tell though but, we share and learn in this space.

I went to a 404 bar on Sunday, and overheard a guy saying that he has slept with all the women in his workplace and this, includes the married ones. I asked him his secret and he told me that he kept them talking. How true is this?

He said "A woman will submit to you by herself when she notices that you are knacking other women and these women are all over you. He said its even better at workplaces as there'll be jealousy amongst themselves and this will make them competitive within themselves. He said a wive will still feel this jealousy if she notices you with a lot of women all over you and you still cares for her even in her angry state by making her to talk and connect.

She will try to stop you and if she can't, she will try to win your heart by loving you more and more.

He said,
One thing I have come to know is, try to be like a woman. Talk and keep them talking."


This is a big problem for me, especially as an introvert but then how true is he?

Although I believe that he is not lying because I don't even know how to start a conversation with a woman not to talk of engaging her in a long time talk. But if this is true, does it mean if your woman loves talking, she can easily be knocked?

Those things dey worry eh. But I never experienced them in years.

Politics strong.

Matter never finish sha.

This life is indeed mysterious.

Intelligent people looking for money
Rich people looking for genuine love
The poor looking to become rich
Experimenters breaking 💔
Faithful got heart broken.

A lot of things not alright.

A single guy controlling more than 10 girls both single and married.

Fragile hearts crying for love and approvals..


Life dey humble men in a way sha.

Chinjo2:
Because upon completion of his tefinary, the cabals are doing everything possible to frustrate him.
They don't want the refinery to work so that they can continue to import fuel.

If he succeeds, the cabals may use Port Harcourt and Kaduna refineries against his own.

He saw his future as a pilot even though he was a cleaner and so walked himself into becoming what he wants to be.

Lady looked surprised.

People dey o.

AllBlack:
guys that use that word deserve all the bad things a bad girl can do to them. bloody simp.

Why say so.

Knightred:
so u are trying to tell us that u divorce your wife just because she didn't serve u breakfast

with due respect sir, why are u so stupid

You are a funny dude.

Wike and Fubara men haaaa
Una no go kill me for this forum.

Rivers State fight no dey finish.

I told someone that Fubara no go rest until him see she shege for Wike hands.

Fight after Fight.

People that were like brothers before.

Na so life dey o.

Sometimes, it's not do or die affair. Just let it slide and continue the fight in a later day.

Because you are not getting your way round the senate ba.

I hear say you pack your children full for NNPC, how me want carry get there na?

There's God sha.

Great

He'll be left to serve out his tenure.

EreluRoz:
Is that what you do? 99.5% of you all can't even satisfy your woman naturally again. After sharing bills they still can't perform abi they should share performance again? Ikegwuru

Most women actually share performance with their men.

This is really sad.

Only strong people can survive at the hearing of such terrible news, that your four children gone.

Even if you survive, the pains will never go away.

shortgun:
Some wicked women have pushed many simple men to their untimely passing using emotional blackmail.
It all started in our homes, our mothers will incite our fathers to beat us mercilessly making us feel our fathers hated us.

Some women are good at this.

A lady once told me to counter community leaders who were advocating for proper channeling of waste water from a mini company I was working with.
I was like "You no get month"
Hmmmm, the guy who listened to her received a hot slap.

He felt left out. Well, APC did not win in Kano so no biggies.