₦airaland Forum

Beebah321:
Ahh you guys should allow her to showcase her curves in peace na.
No be her be the first woman way marry her papa age mate.

Dreamhighnow:
Makinde . If you at all read this post. This is not your fight. Don't let Wike the dirty fighter drag you in the mud. This is unlike you

CaveAdullam:
1. The chances of achieving your goal become impossible or ultra slim.

2. As a father you will hardly have time for yourself because you are bothered about family bills.

3. Your only joy as a father is that your kids are healthy, intelligent, and becoming responsible.

4. As a father, the love your family has for you is predicated on the magnitude of your food storage and the depth of your pocket.

5. As a father when things go sour, the respect from nuclear and extended family plummets.

6. As a mother, you must serve your husband and children. You don't have time for vacations or rest.

7. As a father you will have at least one child that will behave in such a manner that it is as if he/she hates the family and wants to ruin the family name intentionally.

8. As a father only loyalty to your vows will keep you from infidelity because your wife will become boring by the day. Ditto for the mother.

9. The flames that run the marriage don't burn on their own. To keep the marriage fresh and the union alive the husband and wife must fan the flames.

10. As a father you'll one day be shocked and remain long-standing with mouth wide open, eyes gazing far when you are being asked "what have you done for me that you are using to boast".

11. As a mother you'll be expected to lead and provide even though it is not within your jurisdiction.

Marriage is a dreadful but enjoyable journey and must only be engaged by men and women who will be accountable and deliberate enough to hold to their specific marriage vows. Because marriage is the building block of civilization. The man and woman must be buoyant in the financial, physical, and spiritual angles (not religious) with no emotional baggage.

Thanks.

bestdudes:
Baba, I do this thing regularly. To you it is a big deal. A piece of information I dropped freely on Nairaland years ago has been helping lives... as hard-working Nigerians took it up and made something out of it. It is not a big deal.

But I understand your point.

Deltafirstson:
The day wike only declare for Tinubu, will be the day he will lose his relevance in Rivers politics.

etrange:
Creator fund, no. But you can get paid by brands if your fan base is big enough and/or if you've got enough viewership. Here are the conditions to get access to the creator fund:

1) You must be 18.
2) Creators need to be based in the US, UK, Germany, Spain or Italy.
3) Have at least 10,000 followers.
4) Your videos need to have 100,000 views within the last 30 days.
5) You follow TikTik Community Guidelines and terms of service.

However, do not worry, TikTok said more countries will be added. Also, it appears populous countries have higher priority. So once it gets to Africa, Nigeria will surely be one of the first countries to get it.

stacyadams:
Am single and ready to marry,but my problem is even as an evening newspaper she has only 70k and can't even pay my groom price

Asgard73:
They will slip back to Pdp and align with the center

Next!

Asgard73:
Wike no get sense

See small pikin matter

Touch me and I push you..

Wait till after February and Ayu will repackage Pdp Rivers state

Na just time

LikeAking:
Nice!

No spoil mkt for our chefs ND cooks o.

Eating out is good, u no go wash plate, pot, etc..

richie240:
1. You acted as a 'woman' by confronting him and quarrelling over the (mere) 200k.
Once u knew he had played u over d 200k, u shd've known that he is a financially untrustworthy fellow. Despite that flaw, you ursef knows he's good in other areas of life. You shd've 'managed' those areas he's good in whilst ensuring u don't entrust ur finances with him. By so doing, you would've saved ur marriage whilst saving ur finances.

2. The second problem u have is 'pride'.
You so much want him by ur side but u've so much done slot of shakara dt u are so ashamed and don't know how to come down from ur high horse.

Is d 200k with what those innocent kids will lose in terms of a father-figure? I and my siblings are products of a broken marriage and even decades later, I'm still feeling d effect of a missing father-figure in my life as a kid. No matter how much a mother tries over her kids, he can't take d place of their father. There's always be that area where only a man can fill.

My advice
In economics, we were taught dt "opportunity cost is d alternative forgone in d process of making a choice".
Weigh ur options well-well. Ask itself if d seperation/divorce as a result of d 200k 'defraudment' is much more mbetter/effective than having a husband/father for your kids. Choose d better option, dassol!