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nkemdi89:
I am addicted to self service and I am not stopping soon.

You should, that's chaser effect you are giving in to..
I quitted for 7 months and I know I saw a great improvement in some aspects of my life... I was back to the gutter this past month, I am clean on day 2 today
I am willing to stop having chaser effect control me..
I hope you can join us here..

https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

Mitsurugi:
You really don't defeat anything. You take it one day at a time. I "defeated" wanking and porn for two years and a vulnerable period got me back. I stayed away for a long while and then boom. In all of it I am reminded that it is not by my power or might but by God. We live by God's grace as we continually strive towards perfection till you meet God. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak and so it's a constant fight and it'd be hypocrisy to say you win all fights. God knows us all and our hearts. For all the dependence on addiction there are many sins we willfully commit everyday. There are sins we overlook. Gossiping and gluttony for one are addictions but we are all fixated on sexual addictions because they're "worst sins." I know wanking and porn are not so good for me, so I continue to fight. This morning I cleared my phone. Project restart

You can join us here, you are welcomed.. to anyone who wishes to quit masturbation

https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread