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Hello to all I am new to this site, I am sending this today because almost 9 years ago I was involved with a man born in Nigeria grew up for the most part in London, anyway we dated and had a relationship for 4 years then he made a decision to return back to Nigeria We just saw one another for the first time in 9 years and I realized there is still something there alot of feelings emotions etc. He wanted to be intimate but I couldn't because I no I love him but I am not in love with him and he is just going away again back to London Then Nigeria and I don't no how long it will be before we see one another again, he asked me to have a baby with him? any input from that? I have been re: married and DIVORCED AND HAD ANOTHER CHILD ALL IN THESE last 9 years but he doesn't care, I didn't even ask if he was married or involved with anyone and he did not offer any information. Does the Nigerian culture even accept not only interracial couple/relationships but I am American and Californian he is well educated well traveled successful and well to do, I am just a boring stay at home mommy with a vocational training education that lives pay check to pay check, is he really still interested or is he just trying to relive a moment in time and then fly away again?