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aieromon:
https://nairametrics.com/2024/07/25/agf-threatens-jail-term-for-local-government-chairmen-tampering-with-faac-allocations/

Download SC Judgement on LGA autonomy here
https://media.premiumtimesng.com/wp-content/files/2024/07/Supreme-Court-Judgment-on-LG-Autonomy_watermark.pdf

aieromon:
Is this a joke? Who will reverse it?

esrinri:
Won't be surprising if the supreme court's decision is reversed.

MrBrownJay1:
nobody is suppose to be 100% in control of their emotions... thats why they are emotions. you body naturally reacts to whats happening in your life...
- so you will automatically laugh when something is funny, even if you may not want to.
- so you will automatically be sad when a dear family member dies, even if you may not want to.
- so you will automatically be upset of you just crash your brand new car, even if you are happy to be alive

the catch is that you may not want to SHOW your emotions, but nevertheless that emtion is happening whether you want to hide it or not.

czarr:
You don't love her, you are only attached emotionally to the memories you both made together.

akube34:
it happened. Give it time

Sapasenator:
You are a victim of abuse or suffering from a low self-esteem and do not know your true worth. Or, you enjoy an open-relatioship.

Exceed15:
It's because you are sick upstair.

DevilsEqual:
Dem tell u say na lust, na sex, na her body but u dey argue am


Uncle, Na your animalistic sexual instinct dey push u

If u like believe, if u like no believe am...na your cup of tea

Sirhush:
A cheat girlfriend will cheat even in marriage so if you know you can cope with a cheat wife go ahead. Simple

babzlim:
is real love when you have peace of mind without drama.

A girl that cheats on you will only make your life miserable because your actually dating yourself while she's having fun with you all.

Theama:
What you should do?

Well e fit take time to get over it.

Don't deny that you miss her just don't focus on the thought when it comes and don't encourage it.

Remind yourself why y'all split anytime the thought comes to your mind.

Thanks, this helps a bit.

Okoroawusa:
It's called "Pussy magnet". You are not in love with her. You just can't let the pussy go.

babzlim:
your losting over her is her body and sex you love bro,
that isn't love but lost.

AqualinaXYZ:
Go baff for River Niger

Theama:
Na your hormones dey worry you bro.

My brother abeg what should I do to the hormones ?

Kelklein:
If there is no blockage.. one ovary, as long as it is healthy, is enough for her..

So no fear anything.

But consult a gynaecologist to be sure tho.

Beautifulday:
You mean this is the best pay in the council

Beautifulday:
He can get you a good paying job within the local government council or use his connection, contact or anyone who is seeking favour from him to get you a good job.

Better deal, gives you contracts. If he believes in you and see you as sharp. You are made. Everything is perception

ambale:
The first question you need to answer is do you have a long standing relationship with him?

This would pave a way for you while communicating your needs to him

Nemesis0147:
Dy don use sex scatter your brain

FitCorper:
Go and listen to Jahmiel - trust issues. You go de alright.

advanceDNA:
Date someone else.....
Don't be a low self esteem/ low sense of self guy....

Oga Ade date someone else.....

GreatVocalist:
I was in this state some time last year and two years ago. It was so tough for me that at some point, it felt like I was being malicious.

I know I wanted the lady, but things didn't seem to be working out. Thankfully, I changed location towards the end of last year and for me, it has been helpful.

I miss her a lot, because she's a pretty good woman, but the distance and "busyness" have helped tremendously. Like someone said above, you need to sort out yourself, and you can't do that by seeing or communicating with her frequently. Otherwise, you'll keep hurting her and yourself.

Sort yourself out bro.

imagrg:
It means that both of you are compatible.
Marry her.

Hollybratt:
It happen. And once it happen, psychiatric doctor is needed.

EreluRoz:
You should leave her alone and sort yourself out.