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An FMCG based in Lagos is currently in need of Van Sales Representatives.
*criteria*
Must have at least one year experience in sales
Must reside in Lagos
Must be conversant with Lagos routes
Should be able to drive a manual vehicle
Minimum qualification is OND
Must not be more than 35years old
Preferably male
Must be smart and self-motivated
Salary attractive

Send CV to Adeoti.fx@gmail.com

Prosperous new year beautiful people....

Pls I have an issue bothering me..and I need advice from matured minds, parents and other people who might have been in my shoes..

In brief, I have a younger bro who is 23yrs of age, a graduate and Corper. He's d only son. I am d eldest. My parents have always had issues with him because of his lifestyle which include his drinking habits, betting, and his non-challant attitudes towards life. P.s: I come from a good christian home and our relationship with God is of greatest priority to us.

Every time we meet as a family, we discuss and rub minds togeda and also advise my brother to change his life style. Please note that my brother is an intelligent and very talented guy, he is actually blessed with talents and he relates with people easily.

This lifestyle has been an issue of concern to my parents that sometimes my mom cries and we have made it a point of duty to pray for him indivudually, in fact made him a prayer project until God rescues his soul.

Recently, during the festive period, I collected his phone just to check his pictures and all and my hand stumbled to his bbm chat(invasion of privacy you may say), well I admit but I didn't know how I went there which I don't do usually. The first chat I opened was the last I opened as I saw a lot of revelation.

It was a chat with a girl he met at camp 5days to round off from camp(November batch). The discussion entails how he drinks a lot, how he spends his money on drinks, how he is a sex freak and how he does 3som and foursome. The worst is that he has sexual intercourse raw, without protection with ladies. He mentioned a day in which he had a 3som and also slept with another girl that same day. He also mentioned that any lady he sleeps with must pregnant if not she will abort it. He mentioned a whole lot which I can't say.

One of the things we advise him on is 'savings'. He hardly saves and he worked a whole year last yr without any savings yet he buys drinks and spends on girls according to the revealation.

He was saying this things like its an achievement even the girl was enjoying it. The girl willingly said she wants to sleep with my brother and they arranged to meet. Since the day I read this chat, I havn't been myself. I never knew the issue is this bad...that he is even an addict.

Now the issue is, should I tell my mom cos I don't know if she can handle this? Or should I call him and tell him myself explaining the dangers of unprotected sex and other things? I know he will get angry at me for reading his chat but is it not better I tell as he seem to listen to my advice? I also have another suggestion...I have a minister in church who is God fearing and he is like an elder brother to me, should I tell him so he can call him and talk to him? Though my brother doesn't know him

I am just confused on the action to take. My brother's soul is not for d devil and he is a man who should lead by example and not live this kind of lifestyle. Pls help a sad sister who wants the best for his brother....

Thank u