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Guys, I needs your Advice about my Girlfriend, Kindly Advice me.. I don’t even understand myself. ========== I have a girlfriend. She is 21 while I am 25. She is using Blackberry and iPhone while I am using Nokia torch. I bought the phones for her because I love her so much. I send 400 naira card to her every day but she doesn’t call me. She only flashes me. Whenever we go to a restaurant, I buy her Red wine, Juices and fried rice while I drink only pure water and eat groundnut. One day, I bought 400 naira card for her. When we were together, she called another guy and told the guy that she loves him and will marry him. When I asked her who she was calling, she said that she was only joking. She has never ever visited my house and she doesn’t allow me to visit her house. Whenever I want to hug her, she would shout at me harshly. What should I do? Should I increase the recharge card I buy for her to 600 naira? Or should I buy another Blackberry phone (N100,000) for her and iPhone6 (N458, 000) for her too? I know that she loves me very much, but she’s just pretending as if she doesn’t.

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CountDracula:
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LAGOS — JP Morgan has threatened to remove
Nigeria from its Government Bond Index (GBI-EM)
by the year-end unless the Central Bank of
Nigeria, CBN, restores liquidity to foreign
exchange market to allow foreign investors
tracking the benchmark to transact with minimal
hurdles.
The bank said, weekend, it had extended the
deadline to eject Nigeria by another six months to
take into account the arrival of President
Muhammadu Buhari.
Nigeria held closely-fought presidential elections
in March, in which opposition leader Buhari
defeated incumbent President Goodluck Jonathan
in the country’s first transition of power through
the ballot box.
JPMorgan, which runs the most commonly used
emerging debt indexes, placed Nigeria on a
negative index watch in January and then said it
would assess its place on the index over a three
to five months period.
“Nigeria’s status in the GBI-EM series will be
finalized in the coming months but no later than
year-end,” JPMorgan said.
Implications
Removal from the index would force funds
tracking it to sell Nigerian bonds from their
portfolios, potentially resulting in significant
capital outflows. This in turn would raise
borrowing costs for Africa’s largest economy,
already suffering from a sharp drop revenue
following a plunged in oil prices.
Nigeria’s forex and bond markets have come
under pressure after the price of oil, Nigeria’s
main export, plunged. In response, the central
bank fixed the exchange rate in February after
devaluing the naira last year and tightened
trading rules to curb speculation. The naira has
lost 8.5 percent this year.
“If we are unable to verify these factors, a review
of Nigeria’s status within the benchmark for
removal will be triggered,” it said in report, adding
that the factors included a liquid currency market.
Analysts did not expect JPMorgan to remove
Nigeria.
JPMorgan added Nigeria to the widely followed
index in 2012, when liquidity was improving,
making it only the second African country after
South Africa to be included. It added Nigeria’s
2014, 2019, 2022 and 2024 bonds.
The bank said Nigeria continues to remain eligible
for the GBI-EM index, which has around $210
billion in assets under management benchmarked
to it, with a weight of 1.8 percent.
The central bank last week made a tiny
adjustment to its exchange rate peg to the dollar,
which one analyst said may indicate that it is
beginning to think.

dickrider:
OH LORD

have mercy

If you want her to desire you … NEVER do these
things:
I have long considered physical intimacy between
men and women as a very unfunny cosmic joke.
Men get physical as a way to open up and
emotionally connect to their partner. Women need
to feel emotionally connected to their partners
before opening up physically. I mean, who
designed this system?
Bridging this gap in approaches is often very
difficult and exhausting for even the most
committed couples. Left on their own, couples
can end up in destructive patterns and eventually
succumb to the often devastating outcome that is
a sexless marriage — each partner feeling turned
off by the other.
But this sexless outcome is not inevitable. When
approached well, s*x in marriage is usually more
frequent and better than that of single lovers.
Which means many married couples keep their
s*x lives hot!
How do those husbands do it? The secret to
turning your wife on, gentlemen, is also knowing
(and avoiding) what seriously turns her OFF. So,
if you’re doing any of these oh-so unattractive
things — please stop!
1. Letting yourself go
While it is commonly accepted that men are the
visual creatures, women also desire physical
attractiveness in their partners. I don’t think it’s
fair to expect anybody’s body to remain
unchanged throughout the years, but making an
effort to maintain your appearance is a signal to
your wife that she’s worth making an effort for.
Unless bad breath, body odor, scratchy face, beer
belly, and worn out, dumpy clothes are what she
fell in love with, lose them now.
2. Randomly groping her body
While my husband assures me that men would
love it if their wives spontaneously grabbed their
junk, most women do NOT feel the same way.
Being groped every time they walk by, as if “a
b*tt” or “b**bs” is all they are does not endear
women to men (nor wives to their husbands).
Neither does touching them only when you desire
s*x.
Instead, try offering physical affection with no
strings attached. It actually increases intimacy
when the time is right. And yes, women can tell
the difference between the two.
3. Half-assing pre-intimacy
I once heard a man say that pre-intimacy should
begin as soon as her last climax is over. He
wasn’t talking about physical pre-intimacy, but
emotional pre-intimacy. Women and men feel desire
differently. It’s often hard for a woman to feel
s*xual desire when she is not feeling loved,
acknowledged, and appreciated. Wherever a
woman’s mind is, her body is going to follow.
While, true, she also has a role in being open to
s*x, you can do a lot to help her get there.
Spontaneously, willingly and consistently take
something off her plate, like doing the dishes or
making lunches. Doing so can make a huge
difference in her desire for you. As does anything
that brings a bit of ease to her world. Approaches
like “Wooga, wooga baby, wanna get lucky?” —
not so much!
4. Not learning what pleases her unique body
Just as all men aren’t built the same, neither are
women. What worked with a previous partner may
not work (at all) with your wife. (This also
applies to what’s portrayed in P0*n, as well). In
addition, her ever-changing hormones can make a
huge difference in her interest and enjoyment of
s*x. True intimacy, and great s*x, happen when
you’re both enjoying yourself.
This means really focusing on what arouses and
satisfies her. That said, mechanically going
through the “routine” each and every time, so you
can get to your climax is neither generous nor
emotionally fulfilling for her. It’s also important to
remember that she may need physical arousal
before she can feel desire. I find this is true for
many women, so expecting your wife to initiate
intimacy can lead to frustration for the both of
you.
5. Sulking when you don’t get s*x
Even if you’re suffering in a truly sexless
marriage, it is a huge (repeat: HUGE) turn off if
you pout, get angry, or otherwise react badly
when she turns your advances down. I know it’s
hurtful (and even embarrassing) but your partner
always has the right to say “no” to s*x. If it
happens all the time, then it’s a real problem that
the two of you need to lovingly deal with …
together.
If it’s only an occasional occurrence that she’s
“not in the mood”, then making her feel bad will
only breed resentment towards you. And nothing
kills attraction like resentment. And, besides, do
you really want her to have s*x with you out of
guilt? (If so, she’s likely saying “no” with good
reason.)
s*x is a wonderful part of a marriage, but it’s
only one part. There’s a lot of information out
there on how to improve your s*x life. However, if
there are problems outside of the bedroom, there
will certainly be problems in it. This is especially
true if women aren’t feeling loved.
So, the most important thing you can do to make
sure your wife feels turned on is making sure your
marriage, outside the bedroom, is in a good place.

A sexy and beautiful lady was standing by the
road side waiting for taxi.
Akpos saw her and got highly attracted and
decided to try his luck.
He walked up to her and says "Hello! Angel, you
look so beautiful"
"Thanks, am flattered" replied the girl.
"I saw you and fell in love with you; please can
you be my girlfriend"
"You see, am tired of fake love from you guys"
says the girl.
Akpos looked into her eyes and say "Baby i will
do anything to prove to you that i truly love you"
"Are you sure?" asked the girl
Akpos nod his head "Yes baby"
"Ok i want you to kneel down here, close your two
eyes and tell me you love me 10 times with a loud
voice."
Akpos was shocked and he said to himself
"Anyway let me just do it but when i eat that
thing under her skirt, i go show her pepper"
He knelt down, closes his eyes and started
shouting "I LOVE U".
When his done, he opened his eyes and couldn`t
see the girl again.
Fears grip him. He then turned his back and saw
a mad woman removing her cloths
Akpos shouted "O My God!". He started running
for his life.
The mad woman ran after him shouting "I LOVE
U TOO!"
"Brother! Brother! Wake up, you had pee on the
bed" says his younger brother
Akpos jumped up and said "Thank God it was a
dream"

thanks for notifying the public about this post

You might not want to hear this but
congratulations girl! You had a boyfriend in your
life who thought that his sexual desire was more
important than your wishes and your desires.
Nobody has ‘rights’ over the body of another. We
share our bodies with our partners because we
choose to express our desire for them in that
way. Even within marriage, sex is not a right.
Good for you for getting out of this situation
before it went horribly wrong.
You might not feel fantastic right now. You might
even be heart-broken but take heart. Love and
romantic relationships only flourish between
people who take their partners wishes into
consideration. It seems to be a paradox but the
only way you can fully give yourself to another is
if you know that they respect your rights and the
boundaries you set for that sharing. The more
respect a man has for a woman’s body, the more
she is likely to share it with him freely. If he
abuses that privilege then she can take it away,
as you have.
A man who thinks that a woman’s body is his,
denies her the opportunity to give, and he denies
himself the opportunity to receive. If a woman
turned around and made the same demands on a
man, she too would be denying herself the
opportunity to receive his gift freely.
Stay focused on the fact that you have treated
yourself with respect and high esteem. You will
miss him and remember all the things he does
right because, of course, there was a reason you
were with him and nobody is totally horrible. The
point here is not to demonize him but to choose
better for yourself. You will have to keep making
that choice each time you feel the urge to call
him, or he calls you. You will get through this.

Causes of male infertility include:
-Using steroid- this causes the testicles to shrink
thereby rendering the man infertile.
-Malnutrition and anaemia.
-Wearing tight pants and boxers- this causes
infertility by decreasing the production of sperm
due to the heat created by the tight underwear,
this heat affects the scrotum negatively.
-Lots of intense workouts- Too much of high
intense exercise is capable of rendering a man
infertile as this causes the body to produce lots
of adrenal steroid hormones, which then cause a
testosterone deficiency.
-Smoking– this significantly decreases both
sperm count and sperm cell motility, which is the
ability to move spontaneously and actively.
-A prolonged use of marijuana and other
recreational drugs.
-Chronic alcohol abuse.
-Lack of adequate vitamin C and Zinc in the diet.
The above show that male infertility depends a lot
on health, so, men who live a healthy lifestyle are
more likely to produce healthy sperm, thereby
their reducing chances of infertility.

the singer performing without a bra live on stage.

Casual sex is sex for physical pleasure only,
without emotional connection, no strings
attached. Often it’s a one-time occurrence. It
includes any kind of sex act with anyone,
heterosexual or homosexual. In its rawest form it
involves total strangers—no names, no history, no
tomorrow. It coldly seeks to suppress the
development of any type of relationship.
Casual sex has been glamorized in movies and on
television. Casual sex membership websites, often
accompanied with pornographic material, make it
easy for partners to hook up. Many authors praise
its advantages. They assure us of the thrilling
excitement of the casual sex lifestyle. Its joys are
made to appear unquestionable.
The philosophy underlying all this hype is that
marriage is out; casual sex is harmless fun;
everyone is doing it; you are missing out—just do
it!

Being in relationship is not as simple and rosy as
it seems when you think of it; it is complicated
and you need to put in some sugar and spice to
turn it into a healthy relationship. Every human is
different from the other one; living together for
twenty four hours and seven days a week
becomes challenging in the long run. This write
up is exclusively focused on seven effective ways
of how to be happy in a relationship!
7. Honesty Is The Best Policy!
This holds true for every step of your life but
becomes a key to a contented and happy
relationship between two human beings. Being
honest with your partner will gain you the
valuable trust in relationship, which makes the
foundation of a strong and happy relationship in
the long run. Remember lies reveal themselves
one day or the other; so it is definitely not a good
choice especially with the one whom you have
given a special place in your life.
6. Spend Quality Time With Your Better Half
Spending quality time with your better half will
help you keep the relationship alive and will make
you happy. This is the key factor while
considering how to be happy in a relationship.
There is nothing joyous in the world than to have
walking with your partner in a good mood or
having a cup of coffee. There can be endless
options; you can plan a hike or a picnic on
weekend, watch a movie, go on date, play
something that both of you enjoy and there can
be many more.
5. Be Clear And Open In Communication
Clear and open communication is really important
while talking of how to be happy in a relationship.
You should feel comfortable to openly express
your feelings to your life partner as he/she is the
one you are going to spend your life with. If
something annoys you your partner can see the
change in facial expressions but he/she might not
read the reason so you need to be openly
communicating about such things in order to
avoid misunderstandings. This will help both of
you to make adjustments in accordance with each
other’s feelings. This does not mean that you
make objections on everything but the ones that
genuinely bother you.
4. Learn To Be A Good Listener
Giving respect to what the partner is saying
makes him/her feel that you respect and care for
his/her opinion, which helps to strengthen
relationship and boost happiness.
3. Find Some Collective Goals To Achieve
There should be some element of collectivity
especially in terms of future which will make your
bond stronger and fulfilling than ever before.
Working together to achieve one goal can even
bring enemies closer; so imagine the power of
this factor in your relationship.
2. Discuss Things With Patience
A vital element of how to be happy in a
relationship is to have fair fights. Discussion is by
no means bad; it is a healthy activity but within
limits and fair rules. Yelling and becoming loud
while fighting and fighting over the same thing
again and again is going to spoil the relationship.
Remember stay calm and never get over
emotional to prove yourself right. Your goal is to
have a happy relationship not to be Mr. Right.
1. Respect Your Partner’s “Me Time”
Like everyone in the world your partner and you
need some me time; respect this fact and give
him/her some space and comfort whenever
required.
How to be happy in a relationship is not a difficult
task; maintaining a happy relationship by working
out on above mentioned areas will help you keep
yourself and your partner happy.

1. Whisper in their ears.
When we're getting our sexy on, we obviously
want to feel sexy and when you whisper in our
ear how sexy we are, it really gets us going. Tell
us why you enjoy being with us and I guarantee
we'll reciprocate your efforts.
2. Tell them why you think we're beautiful.
Every girl wants to feel beautiful, duh. But it’s not
just enough to tell us that we are beautiful; us
emotionally complicated creatures want
assurance as to why you believe this to be true.
Yes, we love that you think we have a "sexy ass”
and “amazing tits,” but while you're under those
sheets, we'd also like to be reminded of our
beautiful smile and our amazing eyes. Every lady
wants to be beautiful from head to toe, not just
boobs to ass. We want to be the women of your
dreams, not just the women of your fantasies.
3. Ask them what they like … and really mean it.
Every single girl I know has been with at least one
guy who was going at it while saying things like,
“You like that? Oh yeah baby, you like that!” Um,
if you're telling us that we like it, chances are you
didn't even bother to ask us. So ask! And when
you ask us, we want you to really ask us. Don’t
make the act of asking a rhetorical ego booster
that makes you feel like you're “doing us right.”
Ask if we like what you're doing because you
really want to do us right, not because you're
assuring yourself that you are. Trust us, ladies
want to be having just as much fun as you would
like to think we are having, but we don't all like
the same things so do yourself a favor and find
out what gets us going.
4. More pre-intimacy!
Most men I know can go from 0 to 60 in half a
second but it takes women a lot longer. Sure, a
quickie is nice every once in a while, but why rush
it? We want and need pre-intimacy to get us ready for
the grand finale. We know you're excited but give
us a little time to get there as well. Not to
mention that not only does pre-intimacy feel hella
good, but knowing that you're focused on making
our entire body tingle will make us want to return
the favor.
5. We want less control. I mean more. I mean ...
This one was a split pole when I questioned my
friends. Half wanted their men to take charge and
rough it up a bit. " He's so respectful of me that
he's almost afraid of using any force in the
bedroom but what I really want is for him to grab
me and take control," said one of my friends. I'm
obviously not suggesting turning up the
roughness to full volume without your woman's
consent but you'd be surprised how many of us
enjoy playing a more passive role in the bedroom
and want nothing more than for you to run the
show. That's one opinion. The other other half of
my friends said they wanted their man to back off
a bit and let them take the reins. " I feel like as a
woman I have a lot less control in the real world
than a man does and there's nothing hotter than
switching that up and being the one in charge in
the bedroom," another friend said. So for this one
men, please refer to #3 and find out which side of
this opinion your lady leans to.
6. Make sure we both finish.
This seems SO obvious, except apparently it isn’t.
If you’re going to cum and then flop down beside
us before we finish, we didn’t really need to be
there because they make blow-up dolls for that.
This sex thing, it takes (at least) two people so
make sure both of those people reap the rewards
of their participation.
7. Change it up.
We're women, which means you'll never
completely understand us because we constantly
change our minds! One day we want romance and
the next, we want something else. So basically, in
order for you to give us what we want, you're
going to have to constantly change what you give
us. We love rose petals on the bed and candles
around the tub because we love romance but we
also love the thrill of being whisked away for
semi-public sex. Not only will the change-up in
sex excite us, but it'll let us know that you're
interested in keeping things fresh.
8. Bring in reinforcements.
As much as we like your man parts, sometimes
they just don’t quite hit the spot for us. In those
cases, we want you to grab a few extra batteries
and a buzzing little toy to help us get to where
we need to be. As frustrating as it might be for
you to not be able to finish us off with nothing
more than your manhood, it’s even more
frustrating for us to be left unsatisfied. Just
because we need a little more, doesn’t mean you
weren’t enough; it just means you’re man enough
to do what it takes to please your lady. Trust us,
we applaud you for your efforts.
9. Read their body language.
While we may want it rougher in some areas,
there are a few areas - namely the clitoris and
the nipples - where we'd like it gentler.
Unfortunately, a lot of you dudes get so caught
up in the moment that you fail to decipher our
"ooo's" and "ah's" from our "ah's!" and "ouch's!"
As my friends agree, we want you to be in tune
with our cues so that you know when to lighten it
up a little bit. Good sex starts with good
communication, so be a great partner and listen
to what our body is telling you, especially if our
body is flinching, fidgeting, or jumping. Ouch!

Understanding sex addiction
Research varies on the prevalence of sex
addiction and it is difficult to state with certainty
that one gender has a higher incidence of sex
addiction than the other does. Estimates of sex
addiction range from three to ten percent within
the general population. Dr. Patrick Carnes’
research has indicated that approximately 20% of
those seeking help for sex addiction are female.
This male female ratio is consistent with that
found among recovering alcoholics.
Some of the factors that push sex addiction
include the need to medicate emotional pain or
escape an unsatisfactory situation, and the
impulsive or even compulsive quest to satisfy
unmet emotional needs. In short, sex addiction is
best viewed as an attachment or intimacy
disorder.
Regardless of gender, sex addicts are prone to
multiple addictions and typically come from
severely dysfunctional families. This is not always
the case, however. In the majority of cases, at
least one other member of the family has an
addiction as well. Multiple addictions occur when
an addict is addicted to sex and at least one
other thing. For females, eating disorders are
common, as is chemical dependency, and
compulsions for work, spending, and gambling.
Women continue to be underrepresented in health
and addiction studies. Many individuals, both
professionals and non professionals, assume sex
addiction is for men only. Research demonstrates
that the majority of abuse survivors are female,
making them more susceptible to addiction.
Sadly, however, many females will go
undiagnosed and often treatment of past sex
abuse will be too limited to prevent later sex
addiction. Even if counselors recognize that
females can be sexually addicted, they may fail to
recognize the feminine nuances that typically
define female sex addiction.

probably we no nothing about does courses that why we don't apply for them.

10 step to make a girl fall in love with you.You probably start feeling closer
to her and may even find yourself falling in love
with her. But her feelings may still remain a
mystery to you. You’re not even sure whether
you’re doing things right. How can you get her to
fall in love with you? Here are 10 ways that you
can make a woman fall in love with you, and at
the end of it, she’s sure to be crazy about you.
1. Display maturity
It’s always said that women mature faster than
guys and are often found complaining about how
immature they act. Impress her with the way you
deal with situations and your outlook on the
whole. Show her how responsible you are about
finances, or serious you are about your career.
And demonstrate your ability to think clearly and
rationally when disagreements crop up or a
conflict of interests presents itself.
TIP: Women love it when a guy takes interest in
their likes, dislikes, interests, family, childhood
and so many other areas. Talking to her about
herself is the best way to make her fall in love.
' Tell Me Honey...2000 Questions for Couples ' is a
best-selling book from Amazon that will help you
draw out a woman with questions. This book has
2000 questions across 75 categories including
love, romance, sex and relationships. Let her
reveal herself to you, one question at a time and
before you know it, she'll be in love with you!
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2. Romance her
Make her feel good by keeping the romance alive
in the relationship. You don’t have to spend a
whole lot of money doing this. Sure, there isn’t a
woman alive who doesn’t adore flowers and gifts,
but you can also do things that don’t cost a lot
but can still enhance your relationship. Write her
little notes or send her a mushy card. Call her up
just to tell her you’re thinking about her and can’t
wait to see her again. Be attentive and make her
feel cherished and truly special.
3. Faithful
Don’t ever give her occasion to doubt you. Let
her know that you have eyes only for her and the
rest of the world takes a backseat. Let her sense
your commitment to her and your relationship.
Being able to trust someone and truly rely on him
is a very powerful feeling. So many people
profess deep feelings and then cheat on their
partners. Don’t just tell her but show her that she
can count on you. Women need to feel secure and
once that is established, it takes the relationship
to a higher level.
4. Time spent with her is precious
Make it clear that you really treasure the time you
spend with her, irrespective of what you’re doing
together. And prove it! For instance, if she
suddenly tells you she’d like to meet you because
she’s finishing work early and you had something
else lined up, cancel it for her. That doesn’t mean
you cater to her to the exclusion of everything
else, just that you sometimes sacrifice something
you care about to be with her. If she begs you to
come see a movie and you had plans with your
buddies, do it for her and let her know subtly that
you did. She will surely reward you! Women also
love it if you do some girly stuff with them like
shopping for lingerie, and aren’t afraid of
sacrificing your masculinity in the process. It just
makes you more of a man in their eyes!
5. Compliment her
You don’t have to go over the top always telling
her how good she looks or how gorgeous her hair
is or what a lovely outfit she’s wearing. A
compliment has more effect when it is sincere,
well timed and often, out of the blue. While a
woman always loves hearing that she’s looking
good, you can’t keep telling her that. It will lose
its charm eventually. A compliment is valued
when there is a surprise element to it. Telling her
how witty you find her, how her intelligence turns
you on, appreciating how thoughtful and generous
she can be, or her gentle nature, all these are
deeper compliments, which, when paid sincerely,
make the recipient feel ten feet tall.
6. Laughter
Use humor as your biggest ally. If she enjoys
your company and looks forward to seeing you
again, you’re rapidly becoming an addiction, and
that’s just what you’re aiming for. It’s not about
making her laugh over your one-liners and finding
you hilarious. It’s more about being on the same
wavelength and enjoying the other’s sense of
humor too. Or finding humor in similar situations
or having a favorite serial or sitcom, which you
talk about and cracks you up. Finding the same
joke funny, or sharing a smile, draws you closer
and makes you feel like kindred spirits. It’s a
great feeling!
7. Learn what turns her on
And use it to advantage. Find out just the kind of
touch that excites her, how she loves to be
kissed. Don’t ever push her for sex or make her
uncomfortable by coming on too strong. Let her
see the effect she has on you, yet keep a strong
rein on your passions if she decides she wants to
call a stop to it. Let her set the pace, and ensure
she understands that while your desires for her
are strong, you will respect the limits she sets.
Respect her and her body and she will appreciate
you more for it. Women love it when they can see
how much they turn you on and yet find you
willing to take it slow for their sake. Also, when
you make love to her, don’t always kiss her or
caress her as a lead up to having sex. Do it just
to make her feel special and because you want to
convey that to her, and she will adore you for it.
8. Give her space
Don’t be possessive and make her account to you
regarding her whereabouts. Let her know you
trust her. Don’t expect her to spend all her free
time with you. Let her have her own life too.
Often when in a relationship, people make the
mistake of spending every waking moment that
they can manage together, and in the process,
alienate themselves from friends and even lose
their identity. Let her be her own person.
9. Thoughtful
You remember little things she told you, and
remind her of it at opportune moments. It may be
that she once mentioned she loves having chicken
soup when she’s got a cold, and you land up with
some when she’s got the sniffles. Or she’s told
you how she adores a particular entrée at a
popular restaurant and the next time you go
there, you order it and surprise her. It makes her
feel like you genuinely listen to her and take the
trouble to act on it and make her happy.
10. “I love you”
And of course, while showing her should give her
the message, there’s a lot to be said for saying it
loud and clear. Tell her how important she is to
you. You might want to think about when you’re
first going to tell her those three words. If it's too
early in the relationship, she might be skeptical
that you could feel so deeply so soon. And
thereafter, it's not just choosing the right
moment, but making every small moment count.
You don’t have to wait only till you’re kissing her,
or in bed. Saying it when it's least expected
makes it all the more precious. She might be
telling you something and the feeling just
overwhelms you – tell her at that instant. She
won’t mind being interrupted mid-sentence!