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Kondomatic:
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Kondomatic:
You are not an introvert right?

Kondomatic:
Alone

AfroSamurai:
You're wise.

alexialin:
True as well.. It should at least balance up in a way..
Ok

AfroSamurai:
What about you working if he's jobless and you giving him the respect he deserve?

You should know who you prefer. I'm not the one to tell you. Like I said, it's easy to talk but very hard to take action. This I know.

Lawlahdey:
It isn't.
You prolly didn't read through it very well.

Lawlahdey:
To the OP, the only part I want to address is the part where you said Olu Jacobs has never cheated on Joke silva.
How do you know this? Because Joke Silva hasn't come on social media to announce it? We don't know anything about the challenges of her marriage, we don't know how much she endures. We only know that they have a happy marriage and we all wish for the same. Joke silva is a virtuous woman, do not use her as a comparism for the silly girls of this generation.

And just because it looks like most of us lack simple comprehension skills, i'll explain my post again in simpler words.

No man should cheat if it can be avoided. But, it's barely avoidable in this century. So, if your man cheats and you can't forgive him and endure, then walk the hell outta the marriage.
Those who you see happy are those who endured. But if you can't,no one is holding you.

Reality check: Forget feminism and all, it really is a MAN'S world and men are predators by nature, they prey on available females.

AfroSamurai:
So tell me, which would bother you more:

1. Your husband cheats.

2. Your husband can't feed you and the kids?

Mizk:
what do you expect from someone who named himself royal.slowpoke

AfroSamurai:
I'm not saying it is right to cheat, don't get me wrong. What I'm saying is "why bother yourself about it".

AfroSamurai:
Nope! It makes you a strong wife who endures. Strength, that is real strength is shown in perseverance.

If your husband cheats on you, will you bother to even ask him why he cheated in the place? Or just go into a rage and storm out of the house?

The OP used Joke Silver as a point of reference, you jumped to the conclusion that Olu Jacobs doesn't cheat. But hey, what if he cheated in the past? What if he cheated when social media isn't the 'in thing'? And Joke Silver, like a good wife, asked him why he did it, got her answer and kept it away from people? Now that perseverance.

Even everyone knows Tubaba cheats. Now why isn't Annie Idibia shouting and crying over it like a new born babe deprived of breast milk?

AfroSamurai:
Stop thinking about sex in marriages, it narrows your line of thought.

A man who wants to cheat on you will cheat on you, be him a reverend father or a monk.

There's more to marriage beside cheating. If you truly know why you got married to that man in the first place, you will never bother your head if he cheat on you.

AfroSamurai:
No one is telling you to embrace it, just be truthful to yourself.

You know, it's very easy to talk and very hard to take action. Don't be surprised many of the girls who say they'll leave the relationship if their boyfriend or husband cheat are still very young. Probably in their teens or early twenties.

So, by the time they spend almost their entire life waiting for Mr-I-Don't-Cheat, they'll learn to look the other way.

obiorathesubtle:



Well, we're meeting now, and it's definitely very nice to meet you..

You look like early morning brukutu and fresh palm wine mixed together..

You strike me as someone I would form a formidable long-lasting friendship with, I would love, as much as anything to get to talk with you privately..

obiorathesubtle:



Hey gorgeous..

You're a familiar spirit, have we met before?


If No, let's meet now..

If yes, let's continue the meeting and maybe slide into dms.. Away from this moral catastrophe..

Lawlahdey:
Have you been watching your words?
And who told you that I have been trying hard to keep any man?? Dumb again. Making assumptions without basis is Dumb dumb dumb.
PS: I'm not the one that sent my nudes to a guy just to please him and still got heartbroken

I know why you are like this, you won't condone shii but you indulge in shii shii shii? BULLSHIT.

SorftWerk:
marked ur moniker sha, thank you!

*Runs outta thread*

Blacklister:
Lol thank you,ma.
@bolded, u already know where u belong in my write up
Have a nice day,fam.

Laveda:
Oh lawd!

Lilyqueeny:
There is a tendency for a guy to have an extra marital affair since he is into sexual immorality right from the onset.


A man who is not into pre marital sex would find it difficult to cheat on his wife.

Kondomatic:
In spirit.


That reminds me, You were here around 2am dizz morning

have you joined the Flying Girls Association Of Nigeria?

Kondomatic:
The fight is worth it sometimes but it's better to ignore when you can.