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whippersnapper:
Theres what we call principles and standards. Some men have a boundary they don't cross no matter the money or temptation. There's a book I just read" the manipulated man" by Esther vilar. It's after I read I understand women have been controlling men from time immemorial using sex

Vilar's broader assertion is that society conditions both sexes into a system that produces this behaviour, not in the regard of control as u put it sir.

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Imalwayshorny:
You go comot belle

yes o mumu

The fact that you see nothing wrong in what she did says a lot about ur personality.Fact remains she acted out of line making that video and posting it .Some women really need to grow up 🥱

Lovelink1991:
Was she beaten or manhandled the answer says no. It is just merely words of caution that everybody good will give to their daughter and it was push on the net for others to learn from. So there is nothing wrong in what she did and who know where the little girl's helper may come from.
Where did this word came from MUMY BE CALMING DOWN? from a caution a mother was giving her son which your like will labeled humiliation but later end up tha favor of the child

🤣🤣🤣omo this woman can kill o what the f**k is this? She sounds so bitter🤣🤣Oya return her to her dad nau if the wahala choke. But how exactly is that Lady she's scolding 12years old?? Abi eyes dey pain me? 12 kor 4 years ni..

Where do you guys meet these sort of ladies from ?🤣🤣Omo!!!

True that

dmexy33:
Life is deep but many people are not experienced.

Until you have the money to finance ur temptations, don't brag about morals as too much is hidden in lack😄with that being said, never trust the loyalty of a broke man 😉

Samantha125:
Problem with some of you men is that you'll find yourselves a calm headed woman when you're broke only to start changing by disrespecting her and possibly even abusing her once you become affluent after she'd have stayed by your side through thick and thin... You'll now be chasing after those baddies who wouldn't have taken a second glance at you when you were broke.

A man's full character is determined by his bank balance, his character is not on full display until he's financially established.

Until you have the money to finance ur temptations, don't brag about morals,as too much is hidden in lack😂with that being said, Never trust the loyalty of a broke man😉

This is seriously disheartening , what a waste!!

Wow,its been over a year already I made this post😀Thanks for your input🩷you aren't exactly far from the truth, I had issues with my red blood cells which turned out it caused major strain on my cardiovascular system with my heart working harder to circulate blood, but everything is under control now.Thanks again

Originalsly:
Not in the medical field .... but take Superpack advice... go to a hospital and have an EKG test. Seems to me you have a heart problem ... something is wrong with your heart ... or blocked blood vessels .... blood is not flowing as it should. You should great this as an emergency ... stroke or heart attack is not something to gamble with.

Is everything ok at home?🤔

TotoSuckker:
Make sure you don't engage in hard and intensive sex until you have resolved this issue

Why are you like this?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

RealityKings1:
I am sure that boy that bought you the meat pie you swallowed without water still regrets it😔

Advisor Nowamagbe🤣🤣🤣.Edo to the world!!!

Stephen0mozzy:
Eweiii.... Them don go push Nowamagbe Messi to the wall o.



Well, a child that wants to be the person that elbowed a god and go scott free deserves a divine slap. Don't we all agree?

Seconded!!!✅

WatchYourSix:
God has sent you your real heart desire, but u have used your lust, social media influenced standards and superficial criteria to disqualify him..

95% of women i see with successful relationship or marriages often say the same statement, “I never liked him before cos he wasn’t my spec, but later I saw he was kind, patient and genuine, and later fell for the person inside”

Perhaps all your criteria in a man is superficial you dont try to get to know them beyond the surface
and its not just you….. men will tell you there are no good girls anymore, but the truth is they are only looking for big yansh and chest..

but when we humans get to know pple beyond the surface, we find out what we call spec is largely a truck load of nonsense that denied us from meeting good pple

Of course some pple find their superficial, lust-driven spec that also like them in return for their surface qualities ….So good luck in your search

Imalwayshorny:
you are yoruba

I'm cross-riverian why did you ask?

It's called wheatish complexion

Ilamina:
I think they are so cute

With their nice hair, lovely light brown skin

Just to add,kind-hearted people often have a strong tendency to forgive, accommodate and see the best in others, which can unfortunately make them vulnerable to people who take advantage of those qualities.kindness should be accompanied by discernment and boundaries, because having a good heart does not mean tolerating disrespect or exploitation. Ultimately, a kind person should take their time choosing a partner whose character, values and capacity for mutual care match their own.This has been a rule of thumb for me going forward

lailo:
Hmmm this really got me
This kindness should be two-way thing.
In a relationship when it is one-way, the other person can feel used and taken for granted.
No matter how kind or good or nice u are, if the other party unrepentantly exploit your kindness, you will feel exhausted and reach your breaking point.
But let me tell you the reality about life that u may not know. Kind people always end up with wicked people. The later usually and purposefully scout out for the former unknowingly to them. Meanwhile kind people believe they have the large heart to accommodate everybody including wicked people. Little did they know that that would be their Achilles heel.
My advice is that if u know u have a kind personality which is very rare to have. Just know that it wont be easy for u to get another kind person in this world full of wicked people. Take your time no matter how long and ensure u dont settle down unless with a kind person like u or u dont get married at all.
Let wicked people behold themselves and kind people also behold themselves.

Buhahahahahaha my Belle o🤣🤣iron condemn and boat loader.omo u too do o

brain54:
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Lol. Iron kwandem.


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Introvert as how obukokwu 🤣🤣🤣?

brain54:
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I dated one like that in the past when I used to care about such things. I would do everything to make the relationship spicy and not boring... because I cared. I'm also an introvert so you can imagine how I went out of my way to make things lively with very little support. I just realized one day that I had become a forced entertainer. It just wasn't my thing.

Being too quiet and boring is the short cut for me to run away because I'm also boring... two bores should not come and kill themselves with boredom. I run away without looking back.


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Nice one from PBAT, even the recent salary raise in the health sector is quite commendable as health workers are still basking in the euphoria of their recent salary increase. Thank you PBAT😁😁😁

Hahahahahaha crazy assertion ..

Kalulu44:
True or False!
A man can dash/give anybody be it a man or woman 2k from his last #2,500.
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True or False! For a woman to dash/give you 2k, check her account balance. She has over 100k in it.
@congo4ka what say you?

Never trust the loyalty of a broke man my friend. Don't move him into ur family house, he will spite u for it eventually.

🤣🤣🤣 you don start

brain54:
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From javis to Jamilah.


xxxxxxx


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Goaaaal

Hehehehe when u had the bigger catch you no call me o This one won't fill my tummy nau Drsnives

Drsnives:
Come n taste of the stew I made from it

brain54:
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Poor thing. It looks cute!

cute kor!

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*You do not carry out reconstruction on the demised property* op. Once property is on sublease,neither you nor the leasor has a right to alter the original state of the said property. I think u purposely removed this clause to absolve yourself of blame. I draft tenancy agreements and having gone through this agreement you put up, that clause is conspicuously omitted. Start asking yourself questions from that point 📍

Blood howdy?

brain54:
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At 13 years old someone's daughter is already piercing every part of her body.


I don't even want to talk about how mature she looks at 13 years old because someone will come and argue with me about nature.


Let kids be kids and enjoy their childhood Some parents say no. Later these kids grow up and end up becoming delinquents to society because they always have a piece of the puzzle missing in their lives and are always struggling and striving to fill that gap.


Not everyone is fit for parenting!

Such is life


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noony926:
The Hardest People to Replace Are Often the Ones We Took for Granted.

Sometimes, we don't realize the true value of a person until they are no longer around. The people who quietly support us, stand by us during difficult times, offer sincere advice, and consistently show up when needed are often the ones we take for granted. Their presence becomes so familiar that we begin to see it as ordinary.

It is only when they leave, step back, or are no longer available that we truly understand the impact they had on our lives. We start to notice the gaps they filled, the burdens they helped carry, and the comfort their presence provided. What once seemed replaceable suddenly proves to be irreplaceable.

The hardest people to replace are rarely the loudest or most visible. They are often the loyal friends, supportive family members, dedicated partners, and dependable colleagues whose efforts quietly make life easier and better. Their value is not always obvious in the moment, but their absence speaks volumes.

A wise person learns to appreciate people while they are still present. Gratitude expressed too late cannot always repair what neglect has damaged. Cherish those who genuinely care, support, and contribute to your life, because some people are far more valuable than we realize—and once they're gone, replacing them may be impossible.

Hmmmm.. Exactly what type of bow legs does ur woman have?

Femi on the beat😁Now that's a good business man💯. Buh they should try declare dividends nau, wetin happen?